1. List 3 things which would make you likable to them upon first getting to know each other (first impressions which could make them feel impressed somewhat).
2. List 3 instant turn-offs that would cause them to become less eager to get to know you better.
3. List 3 things about them which they would want you to patiently tolerate if you were to maintain friendly connections with them.
4. List 3 things which they consider unforgivable or intolerable.
5. List 3 unique things they would consistently do if you succeeded in building a worthwhile friendship with them that others don't do normally.
💻 ChatGPT: This is a fascinating question! Below, I’ll outline general insights for each MBTI personality type based on their cognitive functions and typical behavior. Keep in mind, individuals within each type vary, so these are broad patterns rather than strict rules.
1. ISTJ (The Inspector)
Likable Traits (First Impressions):
Show reliability and follow through on your promises.
Display competence and preparedness.
Respect traditions or established methods.
Instant Turn-Offs:
Being disorganized or inconsistent.
Over-sharing personal details early on.
Disregarding rules or structures they value.
Tolerable Traits:
Their initial reluctance to open up emotionally.
Their tendency to prioritize practical concerns over emotions.
A methodical, sometimes rigid approach to problem-solving.
Traits they don't always forgive easily:
Being dishonest or breaking promises.
Disrespecting their time or commitments.
Being unreliable or lazy.
Unique Friendship Traits:
They’ll always have your back in practical ways (e.g., fixing things, planning).
They’ll remember details about your preferences and habits.
They’ll consistently keep your shared routines or traditions alive.
2. ISFJ (The Protector)
Likable Traits (First Impressions):
Be warm and polite, with a friendly demeanor.
Show appreciation for their efforts or kindness.
Be modest and considerate of others.
Instant Turn-Offs:
Being overly critical or confrontational.
Acting selfishly or without regard for others.
Dismissing emotional needs or social norms.
Tolerable Traits:
Their tendency to avoid conflict or suppress their own needs.
Their occasional overprotectiveness.
Their focus on pleasing others, even when it stresses them out.
Traits they don't always forgive easily:
Betraying their trust or using their kindness against them.
Publicly humiliating them or someone they care about.
Being consistently insensitive to their feelings.
Unique Friendship Traits:
They’ll go out of their way to create thoughtful surprises.
They’ll remember a lot of important dates, memorable moments or milestones in your life.
They’ll offer quiet, unwavering support during tough times.
3. INFJ (The Advocate)
Likable Traits (First Impressions):
Show genuine curiosity about their thoughts or passions.
Be kind, empathetic, and sincere.
Demonstrate depth or insight in your conversation.
Instant Turn-Offs:
Being superficial or shallow in conversation.
Acting manipulative or deceitful.
Being dismissive of their values or ideals.
Tolerable Traits:
Their tendency to withdraw when overwhelmed.
Their perfectionistic streak.
Their difficulty asking for help even when they need it.
Traits they don't always forgive easily:
Betraying their deep trust.
Mocking their beliefs or passions.
Being relentlessly negative or cynical.
Unique Friendship Traits:
They’ll notice and understand your emotions before you voice them.
They’ll encourage your personal growth and long-term dreams.
They’ll provide profound emotional and intellectual insights.
4. INTJ (The Mastermind)
Likable Traits (First Impressions):
Show intelligence and intellectual curiosity.
Respect their independence and competence.
Present clear, logical ideas or solutions.
Instant Turn-Offs:
Being overly emotional or irrational.
Wasting their time with trivial matters.
Being inconsistent or consistently unreliable and untrustworthy.
Tolerable Traits:
Their occasional bluntness.
Their focus on long-term goals over short-term fun.
Their tendency to seem aloof or emotionally distant most of the time.
Traits they don't always forgive easily:
Undermining their autonomy or ambitions.
Being dishonest, untrustworthy or manipulative.
Constantly needing validation or approval from them or others.
Unique Friendship Traits:
They’ll strategize ways to help you achieve your goals.
They’ll introduce you to thought-provoking concepts or ideas.
They’ll fiercely defend and support you when needed.
5. ISTP (The Virtuoso)
Likable Traits (First Impressions):
Be laid-back and non-intrusive.
Show resourcefulness or practical skills.
Respect their need for space and independence.
Instant Turn-Offs:
Being overly controlling or clingy.
Acting pretentious or arrogant.
Talking excessively without action.
Tolerable Traits:
Their tendency to avoid emotional discussions.
Their need for freedom and spontaneity.
Their occasional risk-taking behavior.
Traits they don't always forgive easily:
Trying to micromanage their life.
Being overly dramatic or needy.
Forcing them to conform to rigid expectations.
Unique Friendship Traits:
They’ll introduce you to exciting new activities or hobbies.
They’ll remain calm and dependable in emergencies.
They’ll surprise you with unexpected skills or solutions.
11. ENFP (The Campaigner)
Likable Traits (First Impressions):
Be open-minded and enthusiastic about new ideas and experiences.
Show a sense of humor and a playful, lighthearted side.
Be authentic and willing to share personal stories.
Instant Turn-Offs:
Being overly rigid or resistant to change.
Dismissing their enthusiasm or creativity as impractical.
Being overly negative or judgmental.
Tolerable Traits:
Their tendency to jump from idea to idea without finishing things.
Their occasional emotional intensity or mood swings.
Their need for independence and freedom.
Traits they don't always forgive easily:
Constantly shutting down their ideas or creativity.
Trying to control or restrict their spontaneity.
Frequently lying or being insincere in your interactions with them.
Unique Friendship Traits:
They’ll inspire you to embrace new experiences and perspectives.
They’ll go out of their way to make you feel special and valued.
They’ll provide unwavering emotional support and encouragement.
12. ENTP (The Debater)
Likable Traits (First Impressions):
Engage them in stimulating debates or conversations.
Show curiosity and a willingness to explore unconventional ideas.
Be witty and quick on your feet.
Instant Turn-Offs:
Being overly sensitive or defensive during discussions.
Lacking curiosity or showing disinterest in exploring new ideas.
Being overly strict or rule-bound.
Tolerable Traits:
Their tendency to argue or challenge others, even playfully.
Their focus on ideas over emotions in serious situations.
Their tendency to jump from one project or interest to another.
Traits they don't always forgive easily:
Refusing to engage in intellectual discussion or debate.
Being dishonest or unwilling to own up to mistakes.
Constantly taking things too personally.
Unique Friendship Traits:
They’ll challenge you to think in new and creative ways.
They’ll find clever solutions to your problems.
They’ll keep life exciting with their endless curiosity and enthusiasm.
13. ESTJ (The Executive)
Likable Traits (First Impressions):
Show responsibility and a strong work ethic.
Be organized and efficient in your actions.
Respect their leadership and offer logical, practical input.
Instant Turn-Offs:
Being lazy or unreliable.
Acting overly emotional or irrational.
Ignoring or challenging rules without good reason.
Tolerable Traits:
Their sometimes blunt or overly direct communication style.
Their preference for structure over spontaneity.
Their focus on productivity, even in personal situations.
Traits they don't always forgive easily:
Failing to follow through on promises.
Undermining their authority or leadership.
Being consistently disorganized or inefficient.
Unique Friendship Traits:
They’ll help you stay on track with your goals and plans.
They’ll organize events or projects that bring people together.
They’ll defend and advocate for you when you need it most.
14. ESFJ (The Consul)
Likable Traits (First Impressions):
Be friendly, polite, and approachable.
Show interest in their social circle or shared values.
Appreciate their efforts to make you feel welcome or comfortable.
Instant Turn-Offs:
Being rude or inconsiderate of others.
Acting aloof or disinterested in social interactions.
Criticizing them or their loved ones unnecessarily.
Tolerable Traits:
Their tendency to focus on appearances or social norms.
Their occasional over-involvement in others' lives.
Their need for external validation or reassurance.
Traits they don't always forgive easily:
Being disrespectful or dismissive toward their loved ones.
Betraying their trust or loyalty.
Being consistently selfish or ungrateful.
Unique Friendship Traits:
They’ll make you feel like part of their family or social circle.
They’ll celebrate your achievements and milestones enthusiastically.
They’ll provide unwavering emotional and practical support.
15. ENTJ (The Commander)
Likable Traits (First Impressions):
Show confidence and ambition in your goals.
Be logical and well-prepared in your communication.
Respect their leadership and drive.
Instant Turn-Offs:
Being indecisive or overly passive.
Lacking ambition or a clear sense of direction.
Being overly emotional or irrational during discussions.
Tolerable Traits:
Their occasional bluntness or lack of emotional warmth.
Their intense focus on goals and achievements.
Their tendency to dominate conversations or decision-making.
Traits they don't always forgive easily:
Undermining their authority or questioning their competence.
Being dishonest or lacking integrity.
Constantly failing to meet their expectations.
Unique Friendship Traits:
They’ll push you to achieve your full potential.
They’ll create opportunities or connections to help you succeed.
They’ll remain fiercely loyal and protective of you.
16. ENFJ (The Protagonist)
Likable Traits (First Impressions):
Be warm, open, and willing to connect on a personal level.
Show an interest in making a positive impact on others.
Appreciate their charisma and leadership.
Instant Turn-Offs:
Being dismissive or indifferent to others’ feelings.
Acting self-centered or lacking empathy.
Criticizing their optimism or ideals.
Tolerable Traits:
Their tendency to take on too much responsibility for others.
Their occasional need for external validation.
Their sometimes over-idealistic expectations of others.
Traits they don't always forgive easily:
Betraying their trust or taking advantage of their kindness.
Being consistently negative or cynical.
Disregarding their efforts to help or connect with you.
Unique Friendship Traits:
They’ll champion your dreams and goals as if they were their own.
They’ll create meaningful connections between you and others.
They’ll provide unwavering emotional support and encouragement.
❓ Question: For each of the 16 MBTI personality types:
1. Rank the top 5 personality types who are quickest to defend you with clever comebacks as a friend if they notice some individuals criticizing you.
2. Rank the top 5 personality types who are the most patient regarding occasional delayed responses online and they respect your need for space (they don't expect immediate replies from you when you have earned their trust.) and briefly explain why.
3. Rank the top 5 personality types who are the fastest to move on from friendship breakups and they don't make it a big deal if they can't get along with certain individuals. Clarify your choices.
💻 ChatGPT: Here’s an analysis for the 16 MBTI types for each of the three categories based on their typical tendencies and behavioral traits:
1. Top 5 MBTI Types Quickest to Defend You with Clever Comebacks
These types often have sharp minds, quick wit, and a protective nature toward friends.
1. ENTP
ENTPs are quick thinkers with a knack for witty retorts. They enjoy verbal sparring and won't hesitate to defend their friends in clever and strategic ways.
2. ESTP
ESTPs are bold, spontaneous, and highly reactive. They thrive in the moment and will step up immediately to challenge criticism with sharp, confident comebacks.
3. ENTJ
ENTJs are assertive and protective leaders. When their friends are under attack, they respond with sharp logic and decisive words to shut down criticism.
4. ENFP
ENFPs are deeply loyal and emotionally intuitive. They often use humor and charm to disarm critics while defending their friends.
5. INFJ
INFJs are fiercely loyal to their inner circle. While typically reserved, they can surprise others with clever, insightful remarks when defending someone they care about.
2. Top 5 MBTI Types Most Patient About Delayed Responses
These types value personal boundaries and respect the need for space, especially when trust has been established.
1. INFP
INFPs are empathetic and understanding of others’ emotional needs. They appreciate personal space and rarely take delayed responses personally.
2. INFJ
INFJs value meaningful connections over constant communication. They understand that silence doesn’t mean lack of care and are patient with online delays.
3. ISFP
ISFPs are gentle and non-demanding. They live in the moment and rarely expect immediate responses, focusing on authenticity over frequency.
4. INTJ
INTJs are highly independent and often prefer time to themselves, so they respect when others need the same. They rarely expect instant replies.
5. ENFP
ENFPs are adaptable and understanding of varying communication styles. Once trust is built, they’re relaxed about delays, as they value quality over quantity.
3. Top 5 MBTI Types Fastest to Move On from Friendship Breakups
These types are independent, pragmatic, and less likely to dwell on relationships that don’t work out.
1. INTJ
INTJs are rational and goal-oriented. If a friendship isn’t working, they quickly accept it as a necessary loss and move on without much emotional weight.
2. ISTP
ISTPs are practical and live in the moment. They don’t dwell on the past or overanalyze failed relationships, preferring to move forward.
3. ENTP
ENTPs are adaptable and don’t let emotional setbacks hold them back. They’ll focus on forming new connections rather than lingering over old ones.
4. ESTP
ESTPs are highly independent and pragmatic. They quickly detach from situations that no longer serve them and redirect their energy elsewhere.
5. ENTJ
ENTJs value efficiency in all areas of life, including relationships. They can detach emotionally if a friendship doesn’t align with their long-term priorities.
