Note: Some Reminders From An INTJ Muslimah (109)

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Note: Sharing A Few Lessons Learned From Not Being Able To Say Goodbye Again To My Dear Husband This Saturday Morning Before His Travel To Saudi Arabia For The Nth Time

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

💭 I  was looking forward to going to the airport this Saturday morning but because I overslept and prayed Fajr late we couldn't catch up with our relatives many of whom are traveling to Manila from Davao then tomorrow to Saudi Arabia. Anyhow Alhamdulillah we visited one of their houses at a subdivision and had dinner with them. Alhamdulillah I printed some papers containing tips on how to perform Umrah and two of the travelers received. I promised I'd try my best to print more and bring the copies tomorrow morning so as soon as we arrived home I printed several copies from Abu Khadeejah website on how to perform Umrah correctly. Anyway the next day we missed the meeting with many of our other relatives and I just apologized to them in the GC. I still have the printed copies with me. List 39 sentences with words of reassurance and 39 lessons learned regarding this situation for Muslims. Note that one of those traveling again for Umrah includes my dear husband who told me I don't need to go to the airport so I can save some money. The fare for going to the airport with Grab Car is around 250 pesos and vice versa.

💻 Gemini AI: It sounds like a whirlwind of emotions—from the disappointment of oversleeping to the immense reward of sharing beneficial knowledge. May Allah the Almighty accept your efforts, bless your husband’s Umrah, and grant him a Mabrur journey. Ameen.

Even though you missed the airport send-off, your intention to help others perform their worship correctly is a heavy deed
(Inn-sha-Allah) on the scale.

39 Sentences of Reassurance

Allah the All-Knowing knows your intention was to be there, and He Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala rewards based on intentions.

Missing a flight or a meeting is a minor delay in the grander plan of Allah Who controls everything.

You provided your relatives with knowledge, which is a "Sadaqah Jariyah" (ceaseless charity).

Your husband’s desire for you to save money shows his care and leadership (Qawwam).

The 500 pesos saved is a blessing that can be used for another good cause.

The Abu Khadeejah guides will likely be used in the most sacred land on Earth because of you (with Tawfeeq from Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala).

Disappointment is temporary, but the reward for spreading knowledge and reviving the Sunnah is eternal.

You prioritized your prayer (Fajr), even if it was late; Allah loves those who turn back to Him Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

Your relatives in the GC surely understand that life happens.

You were able to have a meaningful dinner with them, which is beautiful Silat ar-Rahim (bonding).

Perhaps Allah the Most Wise saved you from a difficulty on the road that morning.

Your husband is traveling for a noble cause; your support from home is a form of 'Ibaadah.

Peace of mind comes from saying Alhamdulillah in all circumstances.

Those printed papers might be the reason someone performs their Umrah perfectly.

You are not defined by a missed meeting, but by your consistent character.

Allah the Almighty is indeed the Best of Planners (Khayrul Maakireen).

Your apology in the group chat was an act of humility and kindness.

Saving that fare money is a practical blessing for your household.

You showed "Ihsaan" (excellence) by going home later that evening and printing more copies immediately.

The angels record your effort to help the pilgrims (Dhuyuf ar-Rahman).

Don't let our enemy shaytan steal your joy by making you dwell on "what ifs."

Your husband’s Umrah is a blessing for your entire family.

You did your best, and Allah the Most Merciful does not burden a soul beyond what it can bear.

The papers you printed are "Beneficial Knowledge," one of the three things that follow a person after death.

Your husband’s reassurance is a sign of true love and a tranquil marriage.

Every step you took to the subdivision was rewarded.

The quiet time at home can be spent making Dua for the travelers.

You are a "Muballigh" (conveyor) of the Sunnah through those pamphlets/printouts.

Focus on the success of the dinner rather than the missed morning.

Allah the Almighty loves the believer who makes things easy for others.

Your husband’s safe travels are in Allah’s Hands,
Inn-sha-Allah, not determined by your mere presence at the airport.

You have avoided the "Riyaa" (showing off) of a public send-off and served in private.

There is Barakah (blessing) in following the advice of your husband.

The "Grab" fare saved can be given as Sadaqah on his behalf or in your husband's name.

Your heart is in the right place, and that is what matters to the Creator Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

You have those copies ready for the next person who travels.

You have shown your children or family the importance of seeking correct knowledge.

Your husband will remember your effort to print those guides while he is in Makkah.

Alhamdulillah for the ease, Alhamdulillah for the trials and Alhamdulillah for the lessons learned.

39 Lessons Learned for the Believer

The Weight of Intention: The reward for a good deed is written the moment you intend it.

Qadr Allah: Whatever misses you was never meant to hit you.

The Value of Fajr: The day's success is rooted in the early morning prayer.

Knowledge over Presence: Giving a guide on "How to pray" is more valuable than a physical goodbye.

Obedience to Husband: There is peace in listening to his suggestion to stay back and save.

Financial Stewardship: Saving 500 pesos is an act of wisdom and gratitude for one's means.

The Power of "Alhamdulillah": It is the phrase that fills the scales.

Preparation is Key: Setting multiple alarms is a form of taking the "Asbaab" (means).

Apologizing Gracefully: Admitting a mistake in the GC preserves the hearts of others.

Resourcefulness: Using reputable sources like Abu Khadeejah ensures the Sunnah of the beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam isis followed.

Prioritizing Quality: A dinner at a home is often more intimate than a rushed airport goodbye.

The Ummah’s Bond: Supporting those going for Umrah is a communal duty.

Avoiding Waste: 250 pesos for a Grab is a significant amount that shouldn't be spent needlessly.

The Goal of Umrah: It is about following the noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam correctly and sincerely, not just the ritual.

Overcoming Guilt: Once you have apologized and repented for a missed prayer, move forward.

Service to Others: Helping others with their Deen is the highest form of hospitality.

Time Management: The morning contains Barakah; we must strive to catch it.

Digital Community: Using GCs for good communication keeps the family united.

The Beauty of Davao: Local travel costs remind us to be mindful of our spending.

Supporting the Traveler: A traveler needs sincere Dua more than they need a crowd.

Humility: Acknowledging that we are humans who oversleep keeps us humble.

The Reward of Printing: Every letter read from those papers is a reward for you.

Family Ties: Even a late visit is better than no visit.

Trust in Allah: Trust that those who didn't get a paper will still be guided.

Self-Correction: Immediately printing more copies shows a "growth mindset" in Deen.

Protecting the Heart: Don't let a small mistake lead to a day of sadness.

Contentment: Being happy with staying home is a sign of Rida (contentment).

Consistency: Trying "your best" with Ikhlaas sincerity is all Allah the Almighty asks for.

The Importance of Evidence: Teaching Umrah from the Noble Qur'an and Sunnah protects against Bid’ah.

Sacrifice: Missing out on seeing loved ones is a small sacrifice for a greater peace.

Encouragement: Your husband’s words "you don't need to go" are a form of ease from Allah the Most Kind.

Mindful Spending: 500 pesos total can buy several meals or more printing supplies.

The Transient Nature of Life: Plans change, but Allah’s Decree is always perfect.

Intercession: Perhaps your husband will
Inn-sha-Allah make Dua for you at the Kaaba because of your help and care.

The Power of Paper: In a digital world, a physical printout is often more helpful for elderly travelers.

Patience with Self: Forgive yourself as Allah the Most Merciful also forgives.

Unity: Traveling together (Davao to Manila to Saudi) strengthens family bonds.

The Final Result: If the Umrah is accepted, your contribution played a part.

Gratitude: Always end the day by thanking Allah the Most Wise for what did happen.

⤴️ Gemini AI

39 Sentences of Reassurance (Words of Comfort and Hope)

Allah the Almighty knows the sincerity of your intention even when plans do not unfold as hoped.

Missing an airport visit does not erase the love and concern you have for your family.

Praying Fajr late is a moment for repentance, not despair.

Allah is the Most Merciful and accepts sincere Tawbah repentance.

What matters most is that your heart remained attached to worship and goodness.

Your effort to prepare Umrah guides is a form of ongoing charity (ṣadaqah jāriyah).

The reward for intention can equal the reward of action in Islam.

Allah the Almighty rewarded you for visiting your relatives and enjoying dinner with them.

Family ties are strengthened through sincerity, not perfect timing.

Your apology in the group chat reflects humility and good character.

Allah the Most Loving loves those who apologize and mend hearts.

Supporting Umrah pilgrims with authentic Islamic knowledge for Allah's sake is a noble act.

Even one person benefiting from the printed papers is a great blessing.

Your husband’s kindness and understanding is a mercy from Allah.

Saving money for better causes is also an act of wisdom.

Allah the Most Merciful does not burden a soul beyond what it can bear.

Every delay carries hidden wisdom from Allah the Most Wise (including posting this entry and sharing the lessons learned had such occurrence not taken place).

Your efforts were accepted even if the results seemed small.

Allah the All-Seeing sees the late-night printing and sincere concern.

Being tested with missed opportunities refines patience.

Allah the Most Kind rewards you for choosing contentment over regret.

The Umrah travelers can still benefit from your Duʿāʾ.

Love for relatives does not diminish due to absence.

Allah the Almighty multiplies rewards for women who support their families quietly.

Your home became a place of Daʿwah through those printed pages (and this post).

Intentions for Allah the Almighty never go wasted.

Allah the Most Merciful knows your sadness in missing out on saying goodbye to your dear husband at the airport and replaces it with reward.

Being an ideal wife to your husband for Allah's sake does not always require physical presence.

Allah the Almighty values consistency over grand gestures.

You acted within your means, and that pleases Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

Allah the Most Merciful has indeed blessed you with a loving and supportive husband—this is not something to take for granted.

Missed meetings do not mean missed blessings.

Allah’s Qadr/Decree is always better than our plans.

The angels record your concern and effort.

What reached the pilgrims was exactly what Allah the Almighty willed.

Trust that Allah the Most Wise delivered the benefit where it was needed the most.

Your role was fulfilled even if it felt incomplete.

Allah the Almighty can replace disappointment with peace
Inn-sha-Allah for those who rely on Him Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

Alḥamdulillāh for what happened and what was protected from happening.

39 Lessons Learned from This Situation (For Muslims)

Sincere intention is central to every act of worship.

Time management is important, but reliance on Allah the Almighty is greater.

Fajr prayer sets the tone for the day and must be guarded. If you prayed Fajr late, you can also compensate for your shortcomings by praying more Sunnah prayers such as Salat Ad-Duha and Qiyaam Al-Layl / Tahajjud.

Repentance should follow mistakes immediately.

Helping others prepare for Umrah is a form of Daʿwah.

Knowledge-sharing is a powerful act of charity.

Small acts can carry great reward.

Family obligations should be balanced with personal limits.

Not every good intention requires spending money.

Financial wisdom is part of Islamic responsibility.

A supportive spouse is a blessing to be appreciated. Alhamdulillah always.

Women are rewarded for facilitating good even from behind the scenes.

Allah the Most Wise may close one door to open another.

Visiting relatives, even briefly, strengthens kinship ties.

Hospitality is beloved in Islam.

Apologizing maintains unity among family members.

Missed gatherings do not cancel love or respect.

Preparation for worship should be done with correct knowledge.

Printing and distributing authentic guidance is a trust (amāanah).

Not all service to Islam is visible.

Delays can teach patience and acceptance.

Allah’s Plan unfolds with perfect wisdom.

One should not dwell excessively on regret.

Duʿāʾ for travelers is valuable even from afar.

Good deeds are judged by effort, not outcome.

Women play a vital role in supporting acts of worship.

Simplicity often brings more sincerity.

Material sacrifice is not always required for reward.

Allah the Almighty places barakah in what He Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala wills.

Helping one pilgrim is like helping many.

Emotional disappointment can be a means of spiritual growth or expiation of one's past and present sins.

Serving family is part of serving Allah the Almighty.

Acceptance of decree (qaḍāʾ wa qadar) brings peace and tranquility.

Not attending an event does not mean neglecting duty.

Knowledge-based charity continues beyond the moment.

Muslims should prioritize authenticity in worship guidance.

Gratitude should follow every outcome.

Trust in Allah the Almighty reduces stress and self-blame.

💚Every experience can draw a believer closer to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala eventually.

⤴️ ChatGPT

Note: You're Welcome To Do Sadaqa And Financially Support An Islamic School In Davao Philippines

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

🗒️ Salaam alaikum everyone,
QaddarAllahu wa maa shaa-a fa'al. Due to the delayed payments of tuition fees from several parents because many of them are similarly struggling financially, the distribution of salaries is often delayed nowadays and my brothers are striving for Allah's sake to sustain Wisdom Islamic School besides trying their best to pay all sorts of bills and debts which have accumulated throughout a number of years.

Those whom Allah the Most Merciful has made well-off or financially stable Alhamdulillah are invited to do sadaqah for Allah's sake and contribute with any amount they're willing to send to either my account or to the school's official accounts attached in the photos with this post.
Inn-sha-Allah they'll be rewarded for helping Muslims clear their debts and give the Muslim faculty members their rights especially if they prefer to remain anonymous for Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

May Allah the Almighty reward all those who generously donate in improving the state of the Islamic school and in supporting fellow Muslims in seeking authentic Islamic knowledge, increase the barakah blessings in our lives and enable us all to complete paying all our debts and take us only when we have done sufficient righteous deeds which make us deserving of a peaceful entry to Jannatul Ferdaus with Allah's Mercy. Ameen✨

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Arabic Translation (الترجمة إلى العربية):

السلام عليكم جميعًا،
قدّر الله وما شاء فعل. نظرًا لتأخر سداد الرسوم الدراسية من قِبل عدد من أولياء الأمور، حيث إن كثيرًا منهم يمرّون بضيقٍ مالي مماثل، فإن توزيع الرواتب يتأخر في هذه الأيام في كثير من الأحيان. وإخوتي يجاهدون في سبيل الله للحفاظ على مدرسة الحكمة الإسلامية، إلى جانب بذلهم قصارى جهدهم لسداد مختلف الفواتير والديون التي تراكمت على مدى سنوات عديدة.

الذين أنعم الله عليهم باليسر أو الاستقرار المالي — الحمد لله — مدعوون للتصدق لوجه الله والمساهمة بأي مبلغ يرغبون في إرساله، سواء إلى حسابي أو إلى الحسابات الرسمية للمدرسة المرفقة صورها مع هذا المنشور.
إن شاء الله سيؤجرون على مساعدة المسلمين في سداد ديونهم وإعطاء أعضاء هيئة التدريس المسلمين حقوقهم، لا سيما إذا آثروا البقاء مجهولين ابتغاء وجه الله سبحانه وتعالى.

نسأل الله العظيم أن يجزي كل من يتبرع بسخاء في تحسين وضع المدرسة الإسلامية ودعم المسلمين في طلب العلم الشرعي الصحيح، وأن يزيد البركة في حياتنا، وأن يوفقنا جميعًا لإتمام سداد ديوننا، وألا يتوفانا إلا بعد أن نكون قد قدمنا من الأعمال الصالحة ما يجعلنا مستحقين لدخولٍ آمنٍ إلى جنة الفردوس برحمة الله. آمين ✨

Tagalog Translation (Salin sa Tagalog):

Assalamu alaikum sa inyong lahat,
QaddarAllahu wa maa shaa-a fa’al. Dahil sa pagkaantala ng pagbabayad ng matrikula mula sa ilang magulang—sapagkat marami rin sa kanila ang nahihirapan sa pananalapi—madalas na naaantala sa mga panahong ito ang pamamahagi ng sahod. Ang aking mga kapatid ay patuloy na nagsisikap para sa kapakanan ni Allah upang mapanatili ang Wisdom Islamic School, kasabay ng kanilang buong pagsisikap na bayaran ang iba’t ibang bayarin at mga utang na naipon sa loob ng maraming taon.

Ang mga pinagkalooban ni Allah, ang Pinakamaawain, ng kaginhawaan o katatagan sa pananalapi—Alhamdulillah—ay inaanyayahang magbigay ng sadaqah para sa kapakanan ni Allah at mag-ambag ng anumang halagang nais nilang ipadala, alinman sa aking account o sa mga opisyal na account ng paaralan na makikita sa mga larawang kalakip ng post na ito.
In shaa Allah, sila ay gagantimpalaan sa pagtulong sa mga Muslim na mabayaran ang kanilang mga utang at sa pagbibigay ng karapatan ng mga Muslim na guro, lalo na kung pipiliin nilang manatiling hindi nagpapakilala alang-alang kay Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta’aala.

Nawa’y gantimpalaan ni Allah na Makapangyarihan ang lahat ng bukal-palad na nag-aambag sa pagpapabuti ng kalagayan ng Islamic school at sa pagsuporta sa kapwa Muslim sa paghahanap ng tunay na kaalamang Islamiko; nawa’y dagdagan Niya ang barakah sa aming mga buhay at tulungan kaming lahat na matapos ang pagbabayad ng aming mga utang; at nawa’y kunin lamang Niya kami kapag nakagawa na kami ng sapat na mabubuting gawa na magbibigay-daan sa isang mapayapang pagpasok sa Jannatul Firdaus sa pamamagitan ng Kanyang Awa. Ameen ✨

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Note: Some Notes On The Loyalty Of Most INTJ Wives In Marriage (ChatGPT)

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

1. Tone Evaluation (INTJ-A Wife Perspective)

The tone of the quote is:

Strategic and protective – It frames marriage as something to be actively defended, not passively maintained.

Rational rather than sentimental – Love is expressed through commitment, forgiveness, and loyalty, not emotional dramatics.

Morally grounded – It anchors behavior in Islamic theology (shayṭān our actual enemy as an undeniable divider).

Assertive and decisive – “Stay married” is a directive, not a suggestion.

Psychologically insightful – It externalizes conflict (shayṭān) rather than demonizing the spouse.

Long-term oriented – The message prioritizes endurance over short-term emotional gratification.

Boundary-reinforcing – Loyalty and forgiveness are framed as intentional choices.

Quietly stubborn in a good way and steadfastly defiant – Loyalty is portrayed as resistance against destructive forces.

Emotionally disciplined – The tone discourages impulsive reactions.

Protective of unity – The marriage is treated as a single system.

Faith-aligned pragmatism – Spiritual beliefs are used to guide practical behavior.

This tone strongly aligns with an INTJ-A: strategic, principled, self-directed, and resistant to emotional chaos.

2. Her 11 Most Positive Qualities

Principled – Acts according to deeply held values

Mentally resilient – Not easily shaken by conflict

Loyal by conviction – Loyalty is chosen, not circumstantial

Spiritually conscious – Frames life through Islamic understanding

Forgiving – Willing to repair the special connection with her dear husband rather than instantly abandon

Emotionally mature – Separates feelings from decisions

Protective – Guards her marriage intentionally and fiercely

Disciplined – Controls impulses and reactions

Strategic thinker – Always anticipates long-term outcomes

Humble before faith – Submits ego to divine guidance

Steadfast – Consistent in belief and action

3. 11 Strengths She Has as a Loyal Wife

Commitment under pressure

Conflict reframing (problem vs. person)

Resistance to external influence

Clear marital boundaries

Strong moral compass

Patience during trials

Emotional self-regulation

Faith-driven decision-making

Trustworthiness

Long-term vision for marriage

Protective leadership within the relationship

4. 11 Examples of How She Stays Loyal

Online vs. Offline (as a Muslimah)

Online Loyalty

Avoids private chats with non-mahram men

Does not vent marital issues publicly

Refrains from flirtatious comments or likes

Protects her husband’s reputation online

Filters content which clearly and subtly disrespects marriage while gladly never following the posts of users who oppose polygyny or advocate despicable divorce

Does not compare her husband to others

Avoids emotional intimacy through DMs with anybody besides her dear husband

Upholds modesty in photos and posts

Blocks or disengages from inappropriate attention

Represents her marriage with dignity

Shares reminders that honor commitment and faith

Offline Loyalty

Speaks respectfully about her husband

Resolves conflict privately

Guards her gaze and interactions

Avoids environments that invite temptation

Chooses forgiveness over resentment

Makes duʿāʾ for her husband

Defends her marriage from gossip

Prioritizes home stability

Seeks reconciliation before escalation

Honors marital roles responsibly

Practices sabr (patience) during hardship

5. 11 Reasons Why the Quote Makes Perfect Sense

Islam teaches that shayṭān seeks to divide spouses

Forgiveness weakens cycles of resentment

Loyalty builds long-term emotional safety

Externalizing conflict prevents spouse-blaming

Marriage requires conscious maintenance

Emotional impulses often sabotage unity

Shayṭān thrives on pride and grudges

Staying married is an act of spiritual resistance

Faith-based framing strengthens resilience

Unity protects family and children

Commitment is an intentional, daily choice

Final Insight

This quote reflects quiet strength, strategic faith, and intentional loyalty.
It is not naïve optimism—it is disciplined realism rooted in belief, characteristic of an INTJ-A Muslim wife who understands that marriage is both a spiritual battleground and a sacred trust.

⤴️ ChatGPT

Note: Some Reminders From An INTJ Muslimah (108)

 بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Note: Some Reminders From An INTJ Muslimah (107)

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Note: You're Welcome To Donate To Wisdom Islamic School K-12 Davao Philippines

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

✨ You, your family and friends are very much welcome to donate for Allah's sake and take part in the improvement of school facilities of Wisdom Islamic School, to purchase light bulbs, new chairs or wall paint etc, and do sadaqa for Allah's sake especially sadaqa on behalf of deceased loved ones:

Full name: MARIAM MABABAYA

Receiving bank: GoTyme Bank

Account number: 011841230367

SWIFT code: GOTYPHM2XXX

Or for residents in the Philippines who are willing to donate for Allah's sake now and then:

➡️ Maya Wallet and GCash

09065580733

ustadh AbdurRahman Mababaya 

📜 WIS Student Handbook (very essential to read carefully and thoroughly particularly for new students and parents/guardians of new enrollees):-

https://bit.ly/student-handbook-25-260

Note: Stay Truthful And Reliable Even When Dealing With Non-Muslims (Sharing A Lesson Learned)

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

📝 Although this may be completely irrelevant and unrelatable to some readers, I thought I'd share some quick reminders and a lesson I've learned today Thursday Alhamdulillah. After I completed processing some documents at a barangay office Alhamdulillah I quickly asked some drivers if they could send me to Wisdom Islamic School Abinsay Street Dumanlas and one of them told me he doesn't go to that route while another seemed a bit reluctant because he was probably unwilling to give a ride to just one passenger. His vehicle is one of those motorcab (?) vehicles here in the Philippines which usually require at least 5 passengers to transport to their destinations and each passenger would normally pay 10 pesos only or 15 pesos depending on the distance of where they're heading to. Anyhow I offered 30 or 50 pesos and even though he agreed with 30 pesos I still felt guilty of possibly giving him less than what he deserves because he'd be utilizing much of his petrol for transporting just one passenger. After I went inside the vehicle and I insisted on paying him 50 pesos, I realized there was an elderly guy driving a yellow pedicab going to Agdao and Dumanlas areas who was patiently waiting for some passengers just a few steps away from the buildings I went out of. If I went with him, I could've saved more money by paying only 10 or 20 pesos. However I was already inside the vehicle with this driver whom I promised to pay 50 pesos if he sends only me to Wisdom Islamic School. I could've called out to the elderly driver and said something like "ayoo! Excuse me! Pwede mag sakai ako? Wisdom Islamic School Buhangin? Abinsay Street?" Then hurriedly tell the first driver "sorry, mag transfer ako djan sa pedicab kasi kailangan ko mag save. Sayang yung 50 pesos. Pasensya na lang ha? Lahat tayo mai stress. Laban tayo lahat" etc. (sorry I'm not yet fluent in Tagalog or Visayan dialect) but Alhamdulillah I decided to stay quiet and proceeded with my agreement. I didn't want this driver to assume that all niqabi Muslimahs are liars or scammers. It wouldn't be helpful to the Muslim Ummah (nation) if he starts gossiping about how he felt disappointed he thought he'd receive 50 pesos only for that opportunity to disappear in a flash or blink. Anyhow Alhamdulillah when we arrived near the school, another neighbor immediately went with that vehicle I took which means that this vehicle was really destined to reach that area to pick up that next passenger I guess.

✅ Lesson learned to share:
Always check and look around your surroundings carefully and thoroughly when searching for convenient means of transportation rather than rushing to select the available vehicles nearest to you. Sometimes we need to put extra effort and push ourselves further to attain better deals and more satisfactory outcomes instead of constantly choosing what evidently appears to be the fastest option.

May Allah the Most Merciful guide that driver and the other elderly driver with the yellow pedicab to the truth Islam and also guide their families to understanding Islam and embracing the correct 'Aqeedah belief at the most ideal timing. Ameen.

🌻 Tagalog translation since this Maranao is not yet fluent in Tagalog:-

📝 Bagama’t maaaring hindi ito ganap na kaugnay o kapaki-pakinabang sa ilang mambabasa, naisip kong ibahagi ang ilang mabilis na paalala at ang aral na natutunan ko ngayong Huwebes, Alhamdulillah.

Pagkatapos kong matapos ang pagproseso ng ilang dokumento sa barangay office, Alhamdulillah, mabilis akong nagtanong sa ilang mga driver kung maaari nila akong ihatid sa Wisdom Islamic School, Abinsay Street, Dumanlas. Sinabi ng isa na hindi siya dumadaan sa rutang iyon, habang ang isa naman ay tila nag-aalinlangan marahil dahil ayaw niyang bumiyahe para sa iisang pasahero lamang. Ang sasakyan niya ay isa sa mga motorcab dito sa Pilipinas na karaniwang nangangailangan ng hindi bababa sa limang pasahero upang bumiyahe, at ang bawat isa ay karaniwang nagbabayad ng 10 pesos, o 15 pesos depende sa layo ng pupuntahan.

Sa kabila niyan, nag-alok ako ng 30 o 50 pesos, at kahit pumayag siya sa 30 pesos, nakaramdam pa rin ako ng pagka-guilty na baka mas mababa iyon kaysa nararapat, dahil gagamit siya ng gasolina para maghatid ng iisang pasahero lamang. Pagkatapos kong sumakay, ipinilit kong bayaran siya ng 50 pesos. Noon ko napansin na may isang matandang lalaki na nag-mamaneho ng dilaw na pedicab papunta sa Agdao at Dumanlas na matiyagang naghihintay ng pasahero ilang hakbang lang mula sa gusaling pinanggalingan ko. Kung sa kaniya ako sumakay, mas nakatipid sana ako at nagbayad ng 10 o 20 pesos lamang.

Gayunman, nasa loob na ako ng sasakyan ng driver na pinangakuan kong babayaran ng 50 pesos kung ihahatid niya ako nang mag-isa sa Wisdom Islamic School. Pwede ko sanang tawagin ang matandang driver at sabihin, “Ayoo! Excuse me! Pwede bang sumakay ako? Wisdom Islamic School Buhangin? Abinsay Street?” tapos sasabihin sa naunang driver, “Sorry po, mag-transfer ako dun sa pedicab kasi kailangan ko mag-save. Sayang ang 50 pesos. Pasensya na po ha? Lahat tayo nai-stress. Laban lang tayo.” (Pasensya na, hindi pa ako ganap na bihasa sa Tagalog o Visayan dialect.) Ngunit Alhamdulillah, pinili kong manahimik at tupdin ang aming napagkasunduan.

Ayokong isipin ng driver na ang lahat ng niqabi Muslimahs ay sinungaling o manloloko. Hindi ito makakatulong sa Muslim Ummah kung magsisimula siyang magkuwento na nadismaya siya dahil inasahan niyang makakakuha ng 50 pesos at biglang nawala ang pagkakataon na iyon.

Alhamdulillah, nang makarating kami malapit sa school, may isa pang kapitbahay na agad na sumakay sa sasakyang sinakyan ko, na tila nagpapakita na nakatakda talagang makarating ang sasakyang iyon sa lugar na iyon para isunod na pasahero.

✅ Aral na Nais Ibahagi:

Laging suriin at tingnang mabuti ang iyong paligid kapag naghahanap ng pinaka-maginhawang paraan ng transportasyon, sa halip na agad piliin ang pinakamalapit na opsyon. Minsan kailangan nating maglaan ng dagdag na pagsisikap upang makakuha ng mas magandang deal at mas kasiya-siyang resulta, imbes na palagi na lang piliin ang mukhang pinakamabilis na opsyon sa unang tingin.

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✨Bismillah —
Ngayong araw ay puno ng aral, mga byahe, at hindi inaasahang cardio para sa aking pasensya.

Tinapos ko ang aking mga dokumento na parang isang kampeón — kung ang paggawa ng papeles ay isang olimpikong isport, magalang kong tatanggapin ang gintong medalya at sasabihin ang “Alhamdulillah” nang dalawang beses.

Lumabas ako, handang tuparin ang simpleng gawain na makakuha ng sakay.
Hindi ko inakala — magiging… isang negosasyong karapat-dapat sa isang eksperto sa pamilihan noong ika-1400s.

Sinabi ng Driver #1, “Hindi ang ruta ko,” na may seryosong tono na para bang ang sasakyan niya ay naglalakbay lamang papunta at pabalik mula sa Narnia.

Ang Driver #2 ay mukhang magalang na nag-aalinlangan — marahil nag-iisip kung praktikal ba o makabuluhan ang paghatid ng isang pasahero lamang.
Kaya nag-alok ako ng 30 pesos.
Pumayag siya.
Sabi ng pitaka ko, “Interesante.”
Sabi ng utak ko, “Sigurado ba tayo?”
Nasabi na ng bibig ko ang “Salamat,” kaya huli na.

Umakyat ako at umupo — may kumpiyansa — hanggang mapansin ko ang isang matandang nagmamaneho ng pedicab sa malapit.
Hindi ko alam bakit, ngunit may dala siya na kalmadong aura na para bang nakita na niya ang mga bagyo, ulan, mga huling pasahero, at patuloy pa rin na nagsasabing “Alhamdulillah.”

Sa sandaling iyon napagtanto ko — may Opsyon B.
Mas mura ang Opsyon B.
Ang Opsyon B ay pedicab na pinapagana ng paa at may dagdag na sariwang hangin.

Ngunit nanatili akong tapat sa unang napagkasunduan.
Sapagkat minsan mas mahalaga ang katapatan kaysa 30 pesos.
At dahil ang pag-atras, paglipat ng sasakyan, pagkalkula, pagsasalin ng salita, at pagpapaliwanag ay mangangailangan ng enerhiya, wastong gramatika, at kumpiyansa — tatlong bagay na hindi madaling makuha sa sandaling iyon.

Nang dumating kami, agad na sumakay ang isa pang pasahero — timing na napakaprecise na maipagmamalaki pa ng isang koponang synchronized swimming. (Qadr ng Allah)

Naisip ko, “Alhamdulillah, marahil ito ay nakasulat (ni Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta‘ala).”
At marahil ang pinakamalaking pagsubok ko ngayong araw ay hindi ang transportasyon — kundi kung paano pigilin ang panloob kong accountant.

📝 Halal na Aral sa Buhay

Bago pumili ng sasakyan, magmasid nang matiisin, mag-isip nang maigi, at huwag magmadali.
Sapagkat ang pagmamadali ay maaaring magastos — at ang pagtitiyaga ay makakatipid ng mga piso at ng iyong mental na kapasidad.
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Today Alhamdulillah was a day of lessons, transportation, and unexpected cardio for my mental patience.

I finished my documents like a champion — if paperwork were an Olympic sport, I would respectfully accept the gold medal and say Alhamdulillah twice.

I walked out, prepared to accomplish the simple task of getting a ride.
Little did I know — it was going to become… a negotiation worthy of a marketplace expert from the 1400s.

Driver #1 said, “Not my route,” with a seriousness that suggested his vehicle only travels to Narnia and back.

Driver #2 looked politely hesitant — perhaps wondering if transporting one passenger was fuel-efficient or life-changing.
So I offered 30 pesos.
He accepted.
My wallet said, “Interesting.”
My brain said, “Are we sure?”
My mouth had already said, “Thank you,” so it was too late.

I sat inside — confident — until I noticed the elderly pedicab driver nearby.
I don’t know why, but he had the calm energy of someone who has seen storms, typhoons, late passengers, and still says Alhamdulillah.

At this moment I realized — Option B existed.
Option B was cheaper.
Option B had leg-powered transportation with bonus fresh air circulation.

But I stayed committed to my original agreement.
Because sometimes loyalty is more valuable than 30 pesos.
And also because yelling, switching, calculating, translating, and explaining would have required energy, grammar, and confidence — three things that were not easily available.

When we arrived, another passenger hopped in smoothly — timing so perfect that even a synchronized swimming team would be impressed. (Allah's Qadr)

I thought, Alhamdulillah, maybe this was written (by Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala).
And maybe my biggest test today wasn’t transportation —
It was controlling my inner accountant.

📝 Halal Life Lesson

Before choosing transport, observe patiently, think carefully, and take your time.
Because rushing can cost money —
and patience can save both pesos and mental bandwidth.

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