بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين

بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين
May Allah the Almighty grant us more beneficial knowledge, accept our good deeds, forgive our mistakes, protect us from fitna, and join us with the righteous believers in Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen.

Wednesday, May 20, 2026

Note: When Invited To Attend A Muslim's Wedding Try To Attend And Support For Allah's Sake Even With A Simple Gift

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

🌻May Allah the Almighty reward ustadh Yahya Rivera for inviting us to his wedding (waleemah), bless his marriage always and protect him and his Muslim loved ones at all times and also guide his other families and relatives and neighbors to the truth and correct 'Aqeedah at the most ideal timing. Ameen.

Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “Give each other gifts and you will love each other.”
Source: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad lil-Bukhārī 594
Grade: Hasan (fair) according to Ibn Hajar

If a Muslim made it clear that you're invited to attend their wedding, even verbally (saying "you should come to my wedding", "you're welcome to my Nikaah" or "see you at my wedding!"), without waiting for an invitation card or virtual invite, then you must try to attend their wedding and support their marriage for Allah's sake even if you don't have a gift yet to give. Your presence can
Inn-sha-Allah make them happy that you're supporting their marriage and you can
Inn-sha-Allah buy or give them a late wedding gift some time after the wedding.

The total price of the gifts I bought for ustadh Yahya Alhamdulillah was around 900 pesos something and the money was actually given by my dear brothers (I still need to settle some debts as well) since they had other tasks to do particularly related to preparing for the upcoming dawrah or special conference for Muslim males here at Wisdom Islamic School
Inn-sha-Allah some time this June 2026.

The kind of wedding gift I would like to buy for those whom I care about for Allah's sake would either include any of the following:
1. Lamp
2. Night light
3. Halal board games like Word Factory or even badminton or pickleball sets which the wife and husband can play together at times to strengthen their bond. I remember that phase when my husband and I played badminton often in the backyard before this compound was developed into a school Alhamdulillah.
4. Aesthetic wall clock with batteries included
5. Matching coffee mugs or tea cups
6. Mirror
7. Pots with artificial flowers to decorate one's bedroom, bathroom or residence.

A gift doesn't need to be luxurious or expensive to prove you care about another Muslim. It just needs to be given from your heart sincerely for Allah's sake. Even two chocolate bars wrapped with a cute ribbon and small card can be a gift that brings some smiles and good vibes.

For you to buy some Muslim newlyweds a gift worth even 150 pesos (some mugs cost 50 pesos each only) is a whole lot better than just attending their wedding without any present, and for you to attend their wedding without any present is still a lot better than not bothering to show up due to temporary financial struggles. You can try to contact some friends or colleagues of the same gender if they can generously give you a ride to attend the wedding together or you can at least send a virtual greeting to congratulate the Muslim bride and groom sincerely.

Any good we do for Allah's sake especially during these first days of Dhul-Hijjah can be rewarding and benefit us in both worlds.

https://abukhadeejah.com/marriage-and-wedding-activities-that-oppose-the-quran-and-sunnah/

Note: Some Reminders From An INTJ Muslimah (118)

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 


Thursday, May 7, 2026

Note: Available Online And Face To Face Classes For Islamic Studies And Learning How To Read And Write In Arabic Language

 بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

🌻 Profile of Mariam Mababaya, M.A. Islamic Studies
Heritage and Upbringing: A Filipino of Maranao descent, she was born in Saudi Arabia and resided there for several decades, beginning in the 1980s (we were residents of Saudi Arabia Alhamdulillah for about 20 years).

Early Education and Academic Transitions: Her foundational education was conducted primarily in Arabic; she attended Al-Yamamah National School from kindergarten through 5th grade, followed by two years of junior high school in a Saudi government institution. While she briefly transitioned to the English section of Manarat Al-Riyadh Schools, the initial shift from Arabic to English-medium instruction presented unique challenges that led her to pursue alternative academic paths.

Islamic Foundational Studies: During her formative years, she pursued specialized lessons in Islamic Studies and Arabic at Daar Adh-Dhikr and the World Assembly of Muslim Youth (WAMY) in Riyadh, engaging with a diverse community of Muslim women from various nationalities.

Curriculum and Core Disciplines: Throughout her time in both private and public Arabic schools, she developed more understanding of Tawheed, Hadith, Fiqh, and Tajweed Alhamdulillah and she still continues to learn about our Deen Islam through reliable sources.

She furthered her studies by enrolling at Middle East International School (IGCSE/British section) and Al-Rowad International Schools (English section) then she earned a Master of Arts in Islamic Studies degree through Mindanao State University - Wisdom International (MSU-WINT). This online institute was managed by her parents, Dr. Norlain Dindang who obtained her PhD degree in UP Diliman and Dr. Omar Mamarinta Mababaya (Allah yarhamhuma) who attained his PhD degree in the United Kingdom, in collaboration with Dr. Norma Mangondato Sharief (Allah yarhamha. Ameen) of MSU Mindanao State University in Marawi. Both her parents (Allah yarhamhuma. Ameen) have had their Islamic books published by Darussalam Publishers in Riyadh city.

Youthful Engagement and Scholarly Correspondence: As a teenager, she was a dedicated viewer of live Fatawa programs in Arabic language on Saudi Channel 1. She actively engaged with the scholars by submitting inquiries via email and fax, receiving personalized guidance from Sheikh Abdulaziz Aal al-Sheikh (may Allah reward him with Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen).

Theological Growth and Da’wah: Alhamdulillah she has taught Qur'an subject to several students at Wisdom Islamic School established by her parents (Allah yarhamhuma. Ameen.) with Allah's Will since year 2010. As years passed by Alhamdulillah she deepened her adherence to the Salafi methodology with a particular emphasis on sound 'Aqeedah. She remains a committed seeker of knowledge, regularly sharing helpful Islamic reminders online for the sake of Allah. May Allah the Almighty keep us sincere and accept our efforts to please Only Him Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala and decree we're from the people of Jannatul Ferdaus with Allah's Mercy. Ameen.

Literary Contributions and Digital Presence: A prolific writer since her early teens, she has authored over 300 poems and manages several blogs. She utilizes these digital platforms to conduct Da'wah, sharing valuable insights whenever the opportunity arises.

mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com

Alhamdulillah with Tawfeeq from Only Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala she successfully completed a four-year course of study at Markaz Ibn Al-Qayyim in Kuwait. Under the management of Dr. Khalid Adh-Dhufairy, she maintained a high level of academic excellence, consistently achieving scores between 90% and 93%.

Sharing some of her PDF documents:

Her research paper written while she was studying at Markaz Ibn Al-Qayyim for which she scored 100% Alhamdulillah. The research is about the negative consequences of divorce in Muslim societies.
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1NtHxopYvOsSp5ySaMWBTssWU-B8x4xmw/view

How divorce is not the best solution (in English language)
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1X6s2MS9EBIz0HMBGh8sWpnXQlEvjq3Bs/view?usp=drive_open

Journeying Back To Jannah Paradise: E-Book Of 135 Poems Written By Sister Mariam Mababaya
https://drive.google.com/file/d/18-ozZLNe7lKN9xUTeVyd1f93gC8PcowJ/view?usp=drive_link

First E-Book "Just Sharing Islam" Of 103 Poems Written By Sister Mariam Mababaya
https://drive.google.com/file/d/18CBfcryF5N_n7940iogPfs_ac_umeXbq/view?pli=1

Da'wah According To The Qur'an And Sunnah Of The Noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam (Handbook):
https://drive.google.com/file/d/180gGoHXnNfpxCDskszfxVNWw_fBl13Za/view?usp=drive_link

✨ Alhamdulillah I currently offer the following tutorial classes via Google Meet in English language, if you're interested in joining don't feel shy to send me a direct message so I can
Inn-sha-Allah add you to the group chat:

☑️ Qur'an reading review tutorial class with some Islamic reminders for female adults (for sisters who can already read the Noble Qur'an in Arabic language) every Sunday morning and Wednesday afternoon (Philippines timing).
☑️ Quick lessons on how to read and write in Arabic language (evening classes for females) every Sunday and Monday from around 9:30 pm to 10:13 pm (Philippines timing).
☑️ One hour class for kids and teens who are interested in learning how to read and write in Arabic language every Sunday (4 pm to 5 pm).
☑️ One hour class in English language for male students (separate from females) for Islamic Studies and Arabic reading and writing. The articles we usually refer to are from www.abukhadeejah.com
Every other Saturday night and Wednesday evening. (Schedule is tentative)
☑️ Face to face summer classes at one of the establishments in Mini Forest area here in Davao city for Islamic Studies and reading and writing in Arabic language.
☑️ Summer Online Classes for kids and teens (45 minutes session) for Islamic Studies and to learn how to read and write fast for Allah's sake in Arabic language every Saturday and Tuesday during May and June from 4 pm to 4:45 pm.

💎 Note: You're welcome to join the free Islamic classes at Wisdom Islamic School every other Sunday, Monday and Wednesday.
Visit the school's official Facebook page for more info
www.facebook.com/wis.davao

Also some time this June
Inn-sha-Allah there may be a special conference for the brothers in Islam. DM to receive the link for registration or if you have other questions ✨

www.facebook.com/justsharingislam

Tuesday, May 5, 2026

Note: Alhamdulillah Just Sharing Some Available Online Classes I'm Offering In English Language Via Google Meet

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 


🌻 Alhamdulillah. From the lessons we quickly learned from yesterday's third session of the summer classes being conducted in English language at SarahTel hotel which is located at the top floor of the Mubaarak Halal Fresh Food Store near Mini Forest area:
1. The meaning of the Basmalah (In the Name of Allah the Most Merciful to His creation, the Ever-Merciful to His believing servants) and the meaning of the first verse Ayah of Surah Al-Fatiha.
2. Quick overview of the Arabic alphabet from letter Alif to letter Yaa.
3. Lesson about how letters alif and baa sound with different vowels harakaat including fatha, tanween fatha, kasrah, tanween kasrah, dummah and tanween dummah.

List of some online classes that I also offer Alhamdulillah:
1. Qur'an reading review tutorial class for sisters who can already read in Arabic language with some Islamic reminders (every Sunday morning from around 10:00 am to 10:35 am if there is no event or important meeting that day and every Wednesday afternoon from around 4:45 pm to 5:20 pm)
✨ Tuition fee: Only 50 PHP per session.

2. Online class for adult females who wish to learn how to read and write in Arabic for Allah's sake efficiently from around 9:30 pm to 10:13 pm (Philippines timing) with some Islamic reminders to boost one's faith Imaan every Sunday and Monday evening.
✨ Tuition fee: Only 50 PHP per session.

3. Online class during this summer vacation for kids and teens who are eager to learn how to read and write in Arabic language (with additional Islamic studies) every Sunday 4 PM to 4:45 PM and Tuesday from 4:30 PM to 5:15 PM (modified timing).
✨ Tuition fee: 100 PHP but if there are more than one learner from the same family then only 70 PHP for each learner.

4. Online classes for male students who can't attend Madrasah or Toril (Philippines timing) every Saturday and Wednesday from around 9:30 PM to 10:30 PM in the Philippines and from about 5:30 PM to 6:30 PM in United Arab Emirates. These classes were specially requested and we refer to many of the articles from www.abukhadeejah.com
✨ Updated tuition fee: 150 PHP (more affordable than what other institutes charge)

5. Face to face summer classes at SarahTel for kids and teens in English language Inn-sha-Allah until other classes resume some time in June (available on 3 days Saturday, Monday and Thursday - students can attend twice or thrice a week).
✨ Tuition fee: 200 PHP but only 150 PHP if there are more than one learner from the same family.

To be added to the group chats or chat groups Inn-sha-Allah don't feel shy to send me a direct message.

May Allah the Almighty always bless all the halal businesses of dear sister Juhainah Javier and increase the barakah blessings in her life and lives of her Muslim loved ones and staff. Ameen🌻

Note: For those who are wondering "she seems so mukampera" kindly note that I'm also having a sideline hustle Alhamdulillah to pay some debts and occasionally Alhamdulillah I try to do some sadaqah for Allah's sake whenever I can. Other forms of sadaqah include giving gifts to some graduating and moving up students, giving gifts to Muslim newlyweds at a wedding they invited us to attend Alhamdulillah and telling drivers they can keep the change because many of these riders and drivers are similarly struggling financially. Plus, I want to Inn-sha-Allah join those who are qualified to do Zakah obligatory charity to fulfill one of the five pillars of Islam. Tutors have a right to charge some amount because they're using a large portion of their time and attention which they could be utilizing for other purposes Alhamdulillah.