๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
๐ Five things that most INTJ personality types want others to know:
1] If we've done some research on body language, how narcissists try to use people to reach their selfish goals, and psychology-related articles, we can usually detect, with intuition from Allah the Almighty, that a person is most likely telling a lie or deliberately being toxic to get a reaction out of us. If the individual who's guilty of putting up a front, pretending to be someone whom they aren't, or behaving immaturely, is close to us, we go out of our way to address the issue at an ideal timing and check on their well-being. If they're only strangers, we play along out of courtesy, while remaining uninterested in discovering more about their personal lives.
2] We don't chase people, beg them to stay, nor enjoy playing hard to get. If we can acutely sense that a number of individuals despise us, we don't bother adjusting ourselves or altering our values to earn their approval. Just as we can't force ourselves to become fond of something which we find unappealing, we won't compel anybody to befriend us if they regard us as unrelatable, incompatible, or intimidating.
3] Asking acquaintances lots of questions doesn't necessarily mean we're desperate to become their besties. It's one of our ways to evaluate if they're truly worthy of our energy, companionship, attention, loyalty, and trust.
4] A lot of us won't label somebody as a friend until: they've seen us shed tears before while we showed them our emotional side, we've traveled with them or went to gatherings together several times, or they received multiple messages from us asking for their tips and advice.
5] Almost always we prefer solitude to unwillingly socializing with those whom Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala didn't decree that we connect with genuinely. If we realize that someone's absurd acts are meant to make us feel "lonely", we smile or laugh inwardly, wondering why until now they haven't got the memo that true introverts, as long as we have Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, can move on without constant communication and contact with human species.
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๐ Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe. The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil. By the One (Allah) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut
๐ Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Nothing is heavier upon the scale of a believer on the Day of Resurrection than his good character. Verily, Allah hates the vulgar and obscene person (prone to wicked conduct and vile speech such as knowingly telling lies, backbiting, spreading rumors)."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2002
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut
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