💌 Not every act of unfriending from a Facebook user is a testimony or declaration that you are a bad person or did something abominable which upset them. Oftentimes a Muslim may decide to unfriend you because they're fed up with trying to control their nafs regarding unwanted feelings of attraction for you every time they stumble upon your name online like a tray of delectable desserts offering itself to somebody who's on a strict diet aiming to lose some weight. It also makes more sense that a non-mahram of the opposite gender would unfriend you to safeguard their faith / Imaan, not out of disappoinment or animosity.
Other times a number of users may feel safer unfriending you because they're uncomfortable going through insecure feelings of jealousy whenever you occasionally flaunt your lifestyle or joys which they could be currently lacking. Regardless of why somebody recently unfriended you, understand that it's not necessarily your fault.
Patiently accept Allah's Qadr/Decree in allowing the online connection to end at some point, while still maintaining good manners with them if Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala decrees that you meet offline from time to time.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No Muslim servant supplicates for his brother behind his back but that the angel says: 'And for you the same.'"
Source: Sahih Muslim 2732
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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