๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
๐ Three reasons why we dislike some strangers and this grudge, uneasiness, or lack of interest in wanting to befriend them has nothing to do with jealousy:
1] Their name, overall appearance or general attitude reminds us of somebody who mistreated us in the past. Recalling a troublesome or disrespectful person every time you interact with a particular individual can reduce the willingness to get to know them better if you still haven’t solved certain misunderstandings.
2] A lot of their life choices, behavior and actions remind you of toxic things you’re trying to avoid. If you value good character and integrity, it makes sense that you won’t gravitate to gossipers, actual narcissists, chronic liars, people who break promises repeatedly and who don’t take their responsibilities seriously.
3] Indirectly they make you feel bad about a special loved one. If “A” reminds you of someone whom you love for Allah’s sake “B” in terms of their looks or temperament but “A” has notable qualities which “B” doesn’t, you may hesitate to connect with them on a more personal level if talking to them or following any of their online content makes you doubt your connection with “B”. It is not easy to network with souls who threaten your values and well-being in any way.
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๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are like conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109
Sahih Muslim 2638
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “The believer is not stung twice from the same hole.”
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5782, Sahih Muslim 2998
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
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