๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
๐️ Checklist for each brother in Islam who's willing to find a righteous Muslimah whom he can marry for Allah's sake:
1] It is known that when she's outdoors or in the presence of non-mahram males, she wears proper hijaab/niqaab and dresses modestly.
2] She's not the kind of woman who's obsessed with wearing heavy make-up and fancy jewelry. A righteous Muslimah may do whatever she can to beautify herself exclusively for her husband once she gets married.
3] She actively avoids interacting with non-mahram guys online and offline as much as possible. On social media she doesn't have male users as "Facebook friends" unless they happen to be her male mahrams such as her father, brothers, and nephews.
4] She strives to follow the correct 'Aqeedah (sound belief), while staying away from anything associated with bid'ah including celebrating birthdays and the so-called "mawlid an-nabiyy" etc.
5] It is clear that she respects her mother and father. A lady who gets along with her parents and elders well is likely to be respectful towards her future husband.
6] It is obvious that she doesn't have an addiction to taking nonsensical selfies and narcissistically uploading photos of herself on the social networking websites she often logs into. A pious Muslimah refrains from posting pictures and sketching images of living beings.
7] She, as well as her parents, do not demand an unreasonably large mahr/dowry or extravagant wedding. The closer a Muslimah is to Allah the Almighty and the more she desires Jannah Paradise, the less demanding she'd be regarding materialistic things, and the more she'd prefer a simple wedding with an unpretentious lifestyle.
๐ผ A man who marries a righteous Muslimah for Allah's sake
Inn-sha-Allah won't regret because she:
1] ...will not expect her husband to be perfect and infallible 24/7. She is readily forgiving, empathic, and understanding of his imperfections.
2] ...will not purposely do anything to humiliate or disrespect him, especially in front of his loved ones and friends.
3] ...will not suspect him of "cheating" on her just because he briefly spoke to a female client, neighbor, colleague, patient, or student.
4] ...will not annoy him by being overly clingy, irrationally dramatic, and exceedingly sensitive or unduly jealous and insecure, frequently inspecting the electronic gadgets he utilizes for communication and interrogating him with questions which showcase she doesn't trust him.
5] ...will not insecurely threaten him with divorce whenever they argue or if ever he informs her that he is interested in marrying another dedicated Muslimah to increase the barakah/blessings in their marriage life, since she has already researched about the wisdom behind polygyny, virtues of rewarding patience, and humbly accepts Allah's Qadr/Decree, aware that Jannah Paradise is our ultimate destination while this dunya is merely temporary.
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๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a loser."
Sahih Al-Bukhari 5090
In-book reference: Book 67 Hadith 28
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 27
๐ Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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