๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
๐ Eleven undeniable signs that a Muslim male married a righteous Muslimah and she is a blessing for him in their journey towards Jannah Paradise:
1] She is eager to study more about Islam and strives to apply the knowledge which she has learned for Allah's sake.
2] She occasionally shares with her husband some links to Islamic websites, lectures and articles or reminders to say Du'a which she believes can benefit him.
3] When he arrives from work, travel or gathering, she doesn't annoy him with the kind of questions which indicate she doesn't trust him at all.
4] Sincerely she treats his mother and relatives with respect, courtesy and empathy.
5] Since she is confident and not insecure, she doesn't feel the need to constantly search through the contents of his phones and laptop, ensuring that she's "the only woman" in his life. She welcomes polygyny, as long as her husband can guarantee he'll treat his multiple wives as fairly as he can for Allah's sake.
6] She doesn't oblige upon herself to assign somebody to examine his loyalty, making silly pranks now and then to test how patient he truly is or creating fake social media profiles to check his fidelity.
7] She has made it clear online and offline that she avoids unnecessarily chatting with male non-mahrams and befriending them on Facebook. Apart from controlling her gaze, she confirms from within, and Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala knows better, that she is a fiercely loyal wife who doesn't have romantic feelings for any human being other than the man whom Allah the Most Wise decreed to be her spouse and soulmate.
8] She is not a golddigger. Even if there are times when he is incapable of providing enough for his wife/wives, she understands his financial struggles. Oftentimes she's willing to spend a significant amount of money on him when she's capable of doing so or at least patiently wait for the moment when he can be financially stable.
9] Taking selfies, uploading her photos on social media and maintaining an account on websites where a lot of female users enjoy showcasing their beauty are some of the things she'd never want to do.
10] As a compassionate listener who appreciates her husband's loving efforts to make her laugh and smile, she ensures that the way she communicates with him online and face-to-face is never disrespectful.
11] Almost every night, whenever she is capable of praying, she makes effort to consistently pray Tahajjud Qiyaam Al-Layl, besides frequently waking him up to pray the obligatory prayers on time.
Allah the Almighty knows best.
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๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A woman is married for four things: Her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a loser."
Sahih Al-Bukhari 5090
In-book reference: Book 67 Hadith 28
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 27
๐ Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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