ุจุณู… ุงู„ู„ู‡. ุฑุจูŠ ุฒุฏู†ูŠ ุนู„ู…ุง. ุงู…ูŠู†

ุจุณู… ุงู„ู„ู‡. ุฑุจูŠ ุฒุฏู†ูŠ ุนู„ู…ุง. ุงู…ูŠู†
May Allah the Almighty grant us more beneficial knowledge, accept our good deeds, forgive our mistakes, protect us from fitna, and join us with the righteous believers in Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen.

Wednesday, February 23, 2022

Tips: Some Advice On How To Avoid Emotional Affairs And Adultery

๐Ÿ’ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
๐Ÿ’Œ Some advice to be so fiercely loyal to your husband for Allah's sake that even shaytan envies your determination and loyalty: 
1] Consistently remind yourself of all the good qualities and admirable features of your husband. Reminisce about the enjoyable moments you've had together and stay gratefully appreciative of all the kind favors he has done. 
2] Resolutely control your gaze and refrain from unnecessarily staring at non-mahram guys. 
3] Delete all male users from your Facebook friends list and avoid chatting with non-mahram males as much as possible. 
4] Minimize meaningless conversations with females also to shield yourself from getting too emotionally attached to somebody who isn't your spouse. Set your boundaries straight. 
5] Ensure that you don't put effort into looking good in front of strangers while purposely neglecting your appearance when your husband is around. Be a lot more concerned about how your husband sees you than how you appear to other individuals. 
6] With loving dedication, frequently include your husband in your wholehearted Du'as and sujood. Talk about your husband lovingly to Allah the Almighty much more regularly than you mention other Muslims who aren't closely related. 
7] Stubbornly ignore online and offline content which could negatively impact the love you have for your husband. Unapologetically unfriend or unfollow and discontinue building connections with anybody who has the potential to get in the way of your beautifully destined marriage. 
8] Whenever you notice someone who is seemingly attractive, immediately divert your attention and recall that you're already blissfully married. Diminish unwanted feelings of attraction for them by recalling their unappealing traits and awful acts they did in the past. 
9] Visualize gaining plus points and rewards every time you successfully prove that you're indeed your husband's loyal wife. Steadfastly remain contented with the man whom Allah the Most Wise chose as your other half and soulmate.
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๐Ÿ“– Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 
๐Ÿ“– Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e. her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a loser."
Sahih Al-Bukhari 5090
In-book reference: Book 67 Hadith 28
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 27 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/05/poem-what-happens-when-allah-most-wise.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/01/note-undeniable-signs-that-man-married.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/08/note-nine-clear-signs-that-muslim-wifes.html