๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
๐ Some tips to live life for Allah's sake without regrets:
1] Strongly believe that Allah the Almighty has full control over everything and everybody in the whole universe. Nothing on earth occurs except that Allah the Most Wise willed and decreed it. If you wanted something to happen but it didn't take place, understand that Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala may have prevented it to protect you from its bad outcomes or to grant you something else which brings more benefit.
2] Learn from all of the mistakes you've committed, whether they were done out of ignorance, forgetfulness or willfully assuming you were correct. Take each mistake you did as an important lesson to not repeat in the future, knowing that the more errors you learn from,
Inn-sha-Allah the more you become wiser.
3] Imagine worst-case scenarios or think about other unpleasant circumstances which could have occurred if what you wanted but didn't receive actually took place. If you're from those believers whom Allah guides and loves, He Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala wouldn't allow you to own, keep or go through something that He knows can negatively impact your faith/Imaan or distract you from your journey to Jannah Paradise.
4] Patiently accept that what happened or didn't succeed is part of Allah's Plans. Know that wasting your energy on regretting what Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala destined or didn't decree won't solve any problem. Say Du'a, ask Allah the Most Loving for more guidance and look forward to earning rewards for striving to stay patient.
5] Contentedly remind yourself about the advantages of not having what you thought was good for you. For instance, failed friendships teach you to trust Only Allah the All-Knowing. By deciding to discontinue building connections with toxic individuals, you're shielding yourself from the likelihood of disclosing certain secrets to untrustworthy people who could use them against you, or you're given more valuable time to study about Islam and develop your confidence away from their distractions.
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๐ Suhayb RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Amazing is the affair of the believer, as there is good for him in every matter. This is not the case for anyone but for the believer. If he goes through ease (or happy moments), he thanks Allah and it is good for him. If he goes through difficulty, he shows patience and it is good for him."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2999
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.’ Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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