๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
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๐️ Seven signs of emotionally immature male adults - a "man" with at least three of these is not really marriageable:
1] They're older than twenty years old yet they enjoy making fun of people's flaws and gossiping like insecure and inwardly distressed females.
2] They have very bad control of their emotions, since their ego/pride is obnoxiously a lot bigger than their ability to distinguish between what is logical and what is irrational. Whatever they feel within themselves must be vocalized most of the time, almost in the same way as some uncivilized children blurt out nonsensical comments whenever they're compelled to describe someone or something.
3] They're a lot older than twenty yet they are miserable enough to sign up for multiple fake accounts to stalk or nosily spy on female users who are not even interested in them. The marriage proposal of a male "adult" who wastes most of his lifetime interfering with others' lives instead of focusing on his goals isn't worth accepting.
4] They quarrel with females a lot as if they were also an overly sensitive girl or jealous woman. A real man knows how to keep his composure even if several women are nagging him.
5] They often childishly persuade others, particularly young kids, to misbehave and cause trouble. Instead of educating the youth to maintain good manners, they coerce the latter into acting like troublemakers to be distracted from whatever is bringing them misery. Because they're disappointed in themselves, they wish everybody around them would suffer similarly.
6] Although they're much older than twenty, they still believe in the silly importance of taking photos of their materialistic joys, unreasonably expensive beverages and fancy meals, frequently showing off what they ate and drank almost in the same way as a kindergartner excitedly flaunts his opened lunchbox for his teachers and classmates to envy.
7] They're greedily selfish and so self-entitled, terribly reluctant to share when there's an opportunity to practice generosity.
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๐ Abu Dharr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Fear Allah wherever you are, follow a bad deed with a good deed and it will erase it, and behave well with good character towards the people."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1987
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi
๐ Abdullah bin Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The Muslim is the one from whose tongue and hands the Muslims are safe."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 10
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi
