💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Dear Muslimah, the subject of most jealous ladies
Who are experts at gossiping when they feel empty -
Don't worry. Don't doubt your worth. By their stupidity
And immature acts triggered by intense jealousy
Don't be affected. Simply pity their misery.
~•~
Most baby donkeys on earth behave more maturely
Than these gossipmongers who if you were to place near
Chimpanzees, most monkeys surpass their maturity.
These gossipers who pat their own backs with such ugly
Words backbite about you due to their grief and envy.
~•~
They can't control their mouths because they're morally weak,
Overcome by envy each time they see you succeed
At showing better manners with grace and dignity.
Your countless achievements disturb their ego while peace
Is something they lack inwardly due to jealousy.
~•~
There's no need to confront them on their buffoonery,
Since they'll probably add more lies to their baloney,
Bunch of nonsense to soothe emotional injury.
Avoid them for Allah's sake. Shun their idiocy.
Feel sorry they loathe themselves for their low self-esteem.
~•~
Maybe they resent the fact that you're clearly pretty,
So blessed in many ways by Allah the Almighty,
And your confidence intimidates them massively.
Rumors are nothing. Jokes can't define reality.
Rise above sad clowns with more patience and piety.
~•~
📖 AbdurRahman Ibn Ghanm RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best servants of Allah (the Almighty) are those who remind you of Allah when they are seen. The worst servants of Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) are those who carry gossip, separating between loved ones and seeking misery for the innocent."
Source: Musnad Ahmed 17998
Grade: Hasan li ghayrihi according to Al-Arna'ut
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do you know who is the bankrupt?" They said, “The one without money or goods is the bankrupt.” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, the bankrupt of my nation are those who come on the Day of Resurrection with prayers, fasting, and charity, but also with insults, slander (gossipping, falsely accusing and spreading rumors), consuming wealth, shedding blood, and beating others. The oppressed will each be given from his good deeds. If his good deeds run out before justice is fulfilled, then their sins will be cast upon him and he will be thrown into the Hellfire."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2581
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever wrongs his brother in his honor or anything else should resolve the matter today before it cannot be resolved with gold and silver coins. If he has good deeds to his credit, they will be taken from him according to the measure of his injustice. If he has no good deeds left, he will bear the evil deeds of the one he has oppressed."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 2317
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do you know what backbiting is?" They said, “Allah and His Messenger (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) know best." The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "It is to mention your brother in a way that he dislikes." It was said, "What do you think if what I said about him is true?" The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If what you say about him is true, it is backbiting. If it is not true, it is slander."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2589
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his best friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi
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