๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
✅ Some things to expect when lots of females envy you,
As you're skilled at doing worthwhile tasks which they can't do,
Because you're prettier than them while they're insecure,
Or you're married and they're single, or you're a wife who
Is fine with her spouse staying wed to four, three or two,
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Or your strong faith and trust in Allah causes them to
Feel somewhat "inferior" so they strive to malign you,
Unaware that Allah is the One Who granted you
Those gifts as tests and to examine their Imaan too -
They're not doing well if they remain jealous of you...
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Here's what to expect when many females envy you:
Jealous females treating you in a way that is rude,
Inventing rumors about you, trying to exclude
You from their outings so their self-hatred gets reduced,
They wish to see you sad so their hurt ego is soothed.
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Expect envious females with low confidence to
Frequently ignore your salaams, stubbornly refuse
To show kindness to one whose good qualities seduce
Them to feeling as though they're more useless than proud mules,
And make you feel "unseen", evincing ingratitude.
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Expect loads of eye-rolling from souls who envy you,
Spiteful giggles and ridicule from the insecure,
Exclusion from gatherings often done by those who
Find your inner beauty threatening so they're forced to
Mistreat you since your self-esteem makes them insecure.
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When treated with disrespect from those who envy you,
Don't doubt your self-worth. Instead, have patience, gratitude
And contentment with the blessings which Allah gave you.
Be contented we're not like them - disturbed, insecure
And ugly on the inside with manners immature.
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They're unhappy really, emotionally abused
By their own jealousy and sins in oppressing you.
Await Allah's Justice. Know that Judgment Day is true.
And believe, with certainty, acknowledge that for sure
Most people won't envy one who's idle, plain and poor.
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๐ Ibn 'Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: I was riding behind the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam when he said to me, "Young man, I will teach you some words. Be mindful of Allah and He (Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) will protect you. Be mindful of Allah and you will find Him (Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) before you. If you ask, ask from Allah. If you seek help, seek help from Allah. Know that if the nations were to gather together to benefit you, they will not benefit you unless Allah has decreed it for you. And if the nations gathered together to harm you, they will not harm you unless Allah has decreed it for you. The pens have been lifted and the pages have dried."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2516
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala), and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim