بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
Better to let your daughter marry a righteous Muslim, regardless of his tribe or nationality, who continues learning about Islam and doing Da'wah for Allah's sake sincerely even if the guy isn't totally good-looking or very wealthy.
A husband who fears Allah the Almighty wouldn't be guilty of dhulm oppression/injustice, immaturity and irresponsibility - in a monogamous marriage or in polygyny.
Reminding the single Muslim women to pray Sunnah Salat Al-Istikhaarah before saying yes to any guy's marriage proposal and to reflect on the long-term benefits of staying married to that person for Allah's sake - ask yourself "will I be closer to Allah the Almighty if I remain married to this Muslim man with patience, contentment and loyalty? Or will striving to love him for Allah's sake only distance me from piety?"
To parents, mothers and fathers - if you truly love your daughters for Allah's sake, ensure that your daughter is contented with the Muslim man and the potential spouse guarantees to keep loving her for Allah's sake patiently and will try his best to not neglect her faith Imaan, overall well-being and needs.
Don't chase superficial status and materialistic joys that are temporary.
Aspire for Allah's Pleasure and eternal peace in Jannatul Ferdaus - make the best decisions for Allah's sake based on what can lead us to Allah's Love, not artificial smiles and fake applause from modern and misguided society.
📝 Just sharing for Allah's sake some notes on how to be more accepting of polygyny as a striving Muslimah:
