Poem: I Love My Husband For Allah's Sake, Whether My Spouse Is Near, Far, Around Or Away - LDR

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 On behalf of each Muslim wife who loves patiently 

Her husband for Allah's sake with utmost loyalty, 

While her soulmate is employed in another city, 

Or being a faithful co-wife is her destiny - 

Here's my response to critics who doubt our love story: 

~•~ 

The inability to see my husband daily 

And have him sleep beside me every night doesn't mean 

Our love isn't real. It's real. For Allah's sake truly 

We married. I'm his wife, even in polygyny,

While he's my other half, soulmate, friend, travel buddy. 

~•~ 

Our romance is unique, not suitable for the weak 

And insecure emotionally and morally. 

Long-distance marriages require lots of bravery, 

Boundless patience, and trust in Allah the Almighty. 

Staying loyal despite distance proves the love is real.

~•~ 

Loving a spouse who works abroad or who's frequently 

Absent when he's busy with responsibilities 

Is like the link between salt and pepper, seriously - 

They go together and reconcile eventually. 

Cringey? Corny? Maybe you're guilty of jealousy...

~•~ 

...Jealous you lack willpower to love devotedly, 

Empathy to understand him and admirably 

Refrain from mistrusting your sweetheart, especially 

When he's out often and not nearby physically, 

And true faith to accept Allah's Decree patiently.

~•~

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."

Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 4252

Grade: Sahih (Authentic)

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https://abukhadeejah.com/characteristics-of-a-righteous-wife-in-light-of-the-quran-and-sunnah-part-1/

Poem: Loyal Wives Avoid Suspecting That The Husband Is Cheating

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 To each wife who married for Allah's sake sincerely: 

Please note that just because your husband has recently 

Changed his hairstyle and started working out frequently 

Does not imply he's cheating on you with somebody. 

His choice to look good is likely so you'll be more pleased. 

~•~ 

Just because he cancels dates with you regularly, 

Claiming some projects came up and he's very busy, 

Does not mean he is having affairs with a colleague 

Nor does it indicate his loyalty isn't real.

Don't doubt him just because he wants his income increased.

~•~ 

Answering your text late isn't clear testimony 

To the possibility of him wanting to cheat 

On you because of boredom or unmet sexual needs. 

Some husbands may behave strangely due to sorcery, 

Stress, or they're coerced by jealous strangers to mistreat.

~•~ 

Your husband's a human. Forgive and respect him, please. 

When some of his acts upset you, don't immediately 

Suspect his feelings for you are shared with somebody. 

In case he is certainly flirting with a lady, 

Level up your love for Allah. Greet polygyny. 

~•~ 

Advise your soulmate. Remind him to: "Fear Allah, please. 

If you're serious about that lass, love her lawfully. 

Don't play with her emotions. Allah's Justice is Real. 

I'd rather stay as your wife and see you remarry 

Than let you commit zina and spoil our love story."

~•~

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/07/poem-patiently-accepting-polygyny-for.html 

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https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/12/poem-tips-on-how-to-stay-in-love-with.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/10/poem-ways-to-determine-if-wifes-love.html 

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💚Note: Reminder to recite Surah Al-Kahf every Jumuah Friday and include the Muslim Ummah in your Du'as.

https://abukhadeejah.com/characteristics-of-a-righteous-wife-in-light-of-the-quran-and-sunnah-part-1/

Note: Differences Between People Who Were Destined To Connect With You And Those Who Remain As Strangers

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

📑 Five differences between people whom you were destined by Allah the Most Wise to connect with and those who were chosen to remain as casual acquaintances or complete strangers: 

🔗 Signs of compatible souls who were destined to be in your circle: 

💠 1] Whether you're neighbors or they reside in another city, the very first time you met personally or discovered their account on social media, you felt eager and interested in getting to know more about them. 

2] While it's clear that you have a lot of things and qualities in common, you're unable to feel jealous of their joys and achievements because overall you share the same life mission. 

3] Even if you haven't seen each other in such a long time, when you do reunite, for instance in a social gathering or virtual meeting, your conversations flow smoothly and there are no awkward moments. 

4] You perceive them as wholesome, pleasant and inspiring. If they manage some Islamic blogs, podcast series, online forums, or a YouTube channel, you put effort into checking their contents and learning from them often. 

5] You actually miss their presence whenever you haven't heard from them within a significant number of days. If you notice that they didn't update their social media account in a long time or they took a break from chatting with you for a while, you wonder if there's something wrong or at least hope they're still okay. 

⚠️ Signs that a person was not destined to be your friend, so you mustn't worry about them leaving or acting distant: 

🔻 1] Regardless of where they stay on earth, you're adamantly uninterested in visiting them and building any form of connection. Stumbling upon their names a lot on social media can't inspire you to check out their profiles and postings. In your opinion, whatever they have to say lacks significance.

2] Since their vibes generally make you feel uncomfortable, slightly envious for some reason or insecure, you feel much more at ease when they're absent. 

3] It is usually difficult to think of interesting topics to discuss with them. You'd rather find peace in reciting from the Noble Qur'an, reading a book, or watching a documentary for one hour than begrudgingly chat with them for even fifteen minutes. 

4] You easily cringe at most of their actions or get upset and annoyed by the mistakes they do. 

5] A whole year of not visiting their Facebook timeline or not seeing them face to face would pass by and still you're incapable of missing them. If their presence fails to motivate you to become a better Muslim, their absence has absolutely no influence on your well-being.

~•~ 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject." 

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109

Sahih Muslim 2638 

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim  

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/12/poem-souls-who-connect-with-us-and.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/poem-special-souls-whom-we-connect-with.html 

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Hadith: Virtues Of Fasting Sunnah Fasts And Reading From The Noble Qur'an Regularly

📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever recites a letter from the Book of Allah (The Noble Qur'an), he will receive one good deed (in his record of deeds) as ten good deeds like it. I do not say that 'Alif Laam Meem' is one letter, but rather 'Alif' is a letter, 'Laam' is a letter, and 'Meem' is a letter."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2910

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Fasting and the Qur'an will intercede for the servant on the Day of Resurrection. Fasting will say: 'O Lord, I prevented him from food and drink during the day, so let me intercede for him.' The Qur'an will say: 'O Lord, I prevented him from sleeping during the night, so let me intercede for him.' Thus, they will both intercede for him."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 6589

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Ahmed Shakir

📖 Aisha RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The example of one who reads the Qur'an and memorizes It is that of one with the ‘righteous and noble scribes’ (The Noble Qur'an 80:15). The example of one who reads the Qur'an and is committed to It, although it is difficult for him, is that of one with a double reward."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 4653 

Sahih Muslim 798

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 

📖 Sahl Ibn Sa'd RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, there is a gate in Paradise called Ar-Rayyaan, through which only those who fasted will enter on the Day of Resurrection. No one else will enter it along with them. It will be said: 'Where are those who fasted, so that they may enter?' When the last of them enter, it will be closed and no one else will go through it."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 1797

Sahih Muslim 1152

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

https://binbaz.org.sa/fatwas/11591/%D9%85%D8%B9%D9%86%D9%89-%D8%A7%D9%86-%D8%A7%D9%84%D9%82%D8%B1%D8%A7%D9%86-%D9%88%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%B5%D9%8A%D8%A7%D9%85-%D9%8A%D8%B4%D9%81%D8%B9%D8%A7%D9%86

Note: Checklist To Determine How Loyal You Are To Your Husband

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

🗒️ Checklist to determine how loyal you are to your dear husband - if at least seven of these points describe you perfectly, then you are a loyal wife: 

1] You don't have "guy friends" and non-mahram males on your Facebook friends list. 

2] You know how to control your gaze and avoid unnecessarily staring at the faces and photos of non-mahram males. If occasionally you must glimpse at a male speaker or lecturer online and offline, you make sure that your glances are completely devoid of inappropriate feelings.

3] You try your best to refrain from chatting aimlessly with non-mahram males online and offline. 

4] Complimenting non-mahram guys for their looks is something you never do. Telling somebody they're "handsome" (or "gwapo") is restricted exclusively for your husband.

5] Whenever someone would directly or indirectly criticize your husband in any way, you're quick to defend your soulmate or quit building connections with his critics for Allah's sake. 

6] Noticing how other women's husbands seem to give them more gifts and attention than how your busy husband spends time with you doesn't make you feel jealous nor insecure. You're entirely contented with the man whom Allah the Most Wise chose for you. 

7] Adamantly you resist the urge to talk about your husband negatively to other individuals. If ever you mention an aspect about him which you dislike, specially when answering a question, you make sure that you immediately emphasize how you still deeply care about him for Allah's sake and how all his admirable traits outweigh his human mistakes. 

8] When some people behave inappropriately with you or act flirtatious, you cleverly deter their moves, become stubbornly distant towards them, and firmly decide to avoid stalking their accounts on social media. 

9] You've made a promise to yourself that if ever your husband asks for separation, you'd still want him back, obstinately reject all marriage proposals you receive from willing suitors, avoid or lessen interactions with anybody who assumes that "you deserve better", loyally maintain friendly ties with his loved ones and faithfully keep asking Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala for his return until he requests for a second wedding even if waiting takes several years. 

10] For Allah's sake, you are consistently, courageously and patiently forgiving towards your husband. 

11] You're not one of those immodest females who regularly take selfies and upload their self-aggrandizing pictures online.

~•~ 

📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah (Paradise)".

[At-Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan]

Riyad As-Salihin 286

In-book reference: Introduction, Hadith 286

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

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https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/01/note-undeniable-signs-that-man-married.html 

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https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/06/poem-some-negative-qualities-of.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/06/note-it-takes-lots-of-strength-to-be.html  

https://abukhadeejah.com/characteristics-of-a-righteous-wife-in-light-of-the-quran-and-sunnah-part-1/ 

💚 From the noteworthy qualities of a righteous Muslim wife:

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