Tips: Advice On How To Live Life Without Any Regret

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

📑 Some tips to live life for Allah's sake without regrets: 

1] Strongly believe that Allah the Almighty has full control over everything and everybody in the whole universe. Nothing on earth occurs except that Allah the Most Wise willed and decreed it. If you wanted something to happen but it didn't take place, understand that Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala may have prevented it to protect you from its bad outcomes or to grant you something else which brings more benefit. 

2] Learn from all of the mistakes you've committed, whether they were done out of ignorance, forgetfulness or willfully assuming you were correct. Take each mistake you did as an important lesson to not repeat in the future, knowing that the more errors you learn from, 

Inn-sha-Allah the more you become wiser.

3] Imagine worst-case scenarios or think about other unpleasant circumstances which could have occurred if what you wanted but didn't receive actually took place. If you're from those believers whom Allah guides and loves, He Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala wouldn't allow you to own, keep or go through something that He knows can negatively impact your faith/Imaan or distract you from your journey to Jannah Paradise. 

4] Patiently accept that what happened or didn't succeed is part of Allah's Plans. Know that wasting your energy on regretting what Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala destined or didn't decree won't solve any problem. Say Du'a, ask Allah the Most Loving for more guidance and look forward to earning rewards for striving to stay patient. 

5] Contentedly remind yourself about the advantages of not having what you thought was good for you. For instance, failed friendships teach you to trust Only Allah the All-Knowing. By deciding to discontinue building connections with toxic individuals, you're shielding yourself from the likelihood of disclosing certain secrets to untrustworthy people who could use them against you, or you're given more valuable time to study about Islam and develop your confidence away from their distractions. 

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📖 Suhayb RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Amazing is the affair of the believer, as there is good for him in every matter. This is not the case for anyone but for the believer. If he goes through ease (or happy moments), he thanks Allah and it is good for him. If he goes through difficulty, he shows patience and it is good for him."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2999

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.’ Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-allah-almighty-controls-all-things.html 

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https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/03/poem-no-regrets-in-cancelling.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/11/poem-advice-for-muslim-wives-to-not.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/05/poem-three-tips-to-patiently-cope-with.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/06/poem-learn-from-your-mistakes.html 

Tips: Encouragement To Wake Up For Salat Al-Fajr Early

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

📑 Ways to wake up for Salat Al-Fajr early:

1) Assign somebody in your family or remind your spouse to wake you up when it's time for Fajr or Tahajjud prayer. Tell them it's okay if they splash or sprinkle some water over you, poke you or shove you until you get up, you'll be happy, not angry, that they followed your order to wake you up to pray on time.

2) Set your alarm clock to ring at about thirty or so minutes before the Adhan of Salat Al-Fajr. Your alarm clock shouldn't be placed by your bedside or right next to you because you may be tempted to turn it off and return to sleep. Put it on a table, cabinet or shelf next to the bathroom so when the alarm clock rings annoyingly, you can get up from your bed and walk towards it then proceed with doing wudhu/ablution.

3) If you don't have an alarm clock, you can use your cellphone or android gadget and download as many reliable alarm clock applications as you want. Set as many alarms as you can with different timings to make sure you actually wake up at least several minutes before Salat Al-Fajr. 

4) You can stay awake throughout the whole night until you pray Salat At-Tahajjud then wait for the Adhan of Salat Al-Fajr. After you've prayed the Fajr prayer on time and said your morning Adhkaar, you can have a quick nap or sleep for around two or so hours prior to proceeding with your job, class, appointment etc. Remain energized by washing your face frequently and drinking lots of water.

5) Buy a rooster as a pet (not for eating), which can assist in waking you up around Tahajjud time and just before Salat Al-Fajr whenever it crows. Roosters are especially blessings since they have the ability to see Angels.

6) Sleep early after you've prayed Salat Al-'Ishaa and Sunnah Witr. The earlier you go to bed at night, the easier you can wake up before the Adhan of Salat Al-Fajr, particularly if you make it a habit of sleeping early. Oversleeping usually happens when the person slept late or was too stressed out and fatigued earlier that day.

7) Have the niyyah/intention before sleeping that you want to sleep early so you can wake up the next morning to pray the Fajr Salah on time. Try to also look forward to praying Sunnah Qiyam Al-Layl / Tahajjud if you can.

Allah will Inn-sha-Allah help you get up early when He sees how eager and enthusiastic you are in wanting to always pray Tahajjud and Fajr Salah on time. Say Du'as as well and supplicate to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala that He helps you never miss any obligatory prayer from now on.

📖 Zayd Ibn Khalid RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “Do not disparage the rooster, as it wakes you up for prayer.”

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 5101

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "When you hear the crowing of the rooster, ask Allah for His Favour as it sees Angels and when you listen to the braying of the donkey, seek refuge in Allah from the shaytan for it sees a demon."

Sahih Muslim 2729 Book 48, Hadith 112

USC-MSA web (English) reference: Book 35, Hadith 6581

📖 ‘Uqbah Ibn ‘Amir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man from my nation arises in the night to treat himself with purification. There are knots over him. If he washes his hands, a knot is untied. If he washes his face, a knot is untied. If he wipes his head, a knot is untied. If he washes his feet, a knot is untied. Allah the Almighty will say to those in the Unseen: 'Behold this servant of Mine, treating his soul and asking from Me. Whatever this servant of Mine asks Me, he will have it.'"

Source: Sahih Ibn Hibban 2619

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/poem-advice-to-those-who-regularly-pray.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/note-tips-to-wake-up-for-fajr-prayer.html 

Hadith: The People Of The Noble Qur'an - Allah's People, The Chosen Ones Who Strive To Obey Allah's Commands And Avoid What He Has Forbidden

 💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

📖 Anas ibn Malik RadhiAllahu ‘anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said, “Verily, Allah has His own people among humanity.” They said, “O Messenger of Allah, who are they?” The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said, “They are the people of the Qur’an, the people of Allah and His chosen ones.”

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 215

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albaani

https://youtu.be/uasGg_zaT6E

Tips: Some Advice On How To Avoid MBTI Mistyping

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

🗒️ Some tips to make sure that your MBTI personality type is accurate: 

1] Take at least three different MBTI personality type quizzes online, if you can't pay for the official Myers Briggs personality assessment, and answer the questions as honestly as you can, in a way that each option you choose most accurately describes you, not how you'd want to be perceived by others. Compare your results.

2] After several weeks, perhaps when you're in a different mood, retake those MBTI quizzes which you took previously and then analyze your results. 

3] Research about the 16 different MBTI personality types and their cognitive functions. Figure out which of the personality types you most resonate and identify with. 

4] Think of at least one individual whose values, interests and attitude overall conflict with yours. Try to guess what their MBTI type is. Discovering the cognitive functions they mostly use can lead you to understanding what your cognitive functions are and finding your actual MBTI type. In my case, as an INTJ, I've realized that a lot of the individuals whom I can't really get along with tend to behave like stereotypical ISFPs or ESFPs.

5] Occasionally, when you're not busy, watch some informative videos on YouTube related to the 16 different MBTI personality types and their cognitive functions. 

The more you understand about your personality, 

Inn-sha-Allah the more confident you feel about the decisions you make and the farther you are from being easily influenced by critics' opinions of you. Lions that are aware of the fact they can't fly won't be negatively impacted by parrots making fun of their inability to take flight, just as a lone wolf wouldn't want to change itself if several monkeys laugh at it for not wanting to socialize with critters that enjoy bananas nearly day and night. 

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🌺 TiNeSiFe

Ti 12 

Ne 10

Si 2

Fe 5

INTP (29)

https://www.typeinmind.com/tine

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🌻 TeSiNeFi

Te 14 

Si 6

Ne 6

Fi 16

ESTJ (42)

https://www.typeinmind.com/tesi

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🌷 SiTeFiNe

Si 7 

Te 14

Fi 16

Ne 7

ISTJ (44)

https://www.typeinmind.com/site

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🌼 NiTeFiSe

Ni 19

Te 14 

Fi 16

Se 8

INTJ (57)

https://www.typeinmind.com/nite

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🗂️ 

https://www.psychologyjunkie.com/2021/02/16/secrets-to-happiness-for-every-myers-briggs-personality-type/

https://www.psychologyjunkie.com/2019/09/30/heres-what-fulfills-you-based-on-your-myers-briggs-personality-type/

https://clockify.me/blog/managing-time/productivity-based-on-personality-type/

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📝 To discover what your MBTI type is, you're welcome to take these tests:

https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/5dab0e69919f5e0014ceba9f

https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

https://www.truity.com/test/type-finder-personality-test-new

https://www.personalityperfect.com/test/free-personality-test/

http://www.michaelcaloz.com/personality/

https://www.humanmetrics.com/personality/test

https://personalitymax.com/personality-test/

https://www.personalitytestbirdy.com/test/personality-test/ 

📂 

MBTI cognitive functions bingo sets / checklists:  

https://mbti-concepts.tumblr.com/

Links: Important Lessons For Ramadan (Ebook, pdf document, not for sale)

May Allah the Almighty reward the author, the publishers and all those who generously helped with publishing this book and other beneficial Islamic books with lots of good in both worlds. Ameen.

https://darpdfs.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Important-Lessons-For-Ramadan-Sh.-Abd-al-Razzaq-al-Abbad-compressed.pdf 

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1K7nyYU9orNS67Tx1_XrJOY9sTjRqzUcc/view?usp=drivesdk