๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
๐ Tips to rationalize strange feelings of attraction,
To overcome desires or smash your crush on someone:
Ask yourself, and be honest, don't be self-deluding,
"Why waste your time fantasizing about this person,
Why yearn to have them while they neglect your existence?
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Why abuse your heart with fanciful dreams and musings,
And wish you were loved back by those whom you're crushing on,
When liking them from a distance is so distressing?
Admiring humans who undervalue your presence
Is as absurd as taking naps with starving pythons."
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If you fell in love with a soul for their appearance,
Why not gaze at nature without getting heartbroken?
If someone's tall height is what stirred infatuation,
Why not stare at giraffes, ostriches and elephants,
And free yourself from stress due to foolish fixation?
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If someone's intelligence is what pulled you to them,
Then read useful books, increase Qur'an recitation,
And don't let the subject of illogical feelings
Distract you from worshipping Allah, as a Muslim.
Ignore shaytan's lousy schemes and evil suggestions.
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Make it clear to shaytan that you know what he's doing -
He's making attempts to weaken you through emotions.
Defeat him with Taqwa, saying the Adhkaar often,
Praying Tahajjud, fasting Sunnah fasts when you can,
And preferring Jannah's bliss to brief entertainment.
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๐ Abu Qatadah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, you will never leave anything for the sake of Allah the Almighty but that Allah will replace it with something better."
Source: Musnad Ahmed 22565
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
๐ Sahl Ibn Sa'd RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever guarantees (the chastity of) what is between his jaws and what is between his legs, I can guarantee for him Paradise."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6109
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari
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