๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
๐️ Nine probable reasons why some females envy you, and their intense jealousy compels them to treat you disrespectfully:
1] They despise the fact they're single, while you married ahead of them. Or they are disgruntled divorcees who envy your strength in maintaining loyalty and patience for Allah's sake with your husband.
2] They aren't as capable or competent in understanding and communicating in Arabic language as you (Alhamdulillah). Or they dislike how you, with Allah's Will, were able to study abroad or take courses in learning Arabic language while they haven't been given the opportunity to learn Arabic from reliable sources.
3] They feel jealously threatened by your confidence and assertive personality. Seeing you confidently do certain things which they can't makes them feel "inferior".
4] They can't accept that you're a lot more good-looking, creative or individualistic than them.
5] Your ability or eagerness to be generous, helpful, empathic, understanding and charitable for Allah's sake may cause them to feel small or deficient morally.
6] They believe that your parents did a much better job than theirs at bringing up their kids and educating them well about Islam. Or they don't like how your mother and father strive to be supportive of you in becoming a more successful Muslim, while their own mom and dad are negligent or indifferent to their goals.
7] They resent how Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala destined you to have a more interesting life story and background than them - for example, Alhamdulillah, you've traveled to several countries while they didn't, or with Allah's Will you have performed Hajj / pilgrimage while they haven't yet, or your parents are sincerely active in the noble field of Da'wah for Allah's sake while their parents are involved in earning money unlawfully.
8] They loathe your dedication and love for seeking authentic Islamic knowledge. They hate feeling insecure, unintellectual or ignorant whenever they notice you correcting mistakes and sharing beneficial information.
9] They're trying to compete with others for Allah's Love and witness, from their viewpoint, that you've surpassed them in many ways. For instance, you're more courageous than them in accepting a polygynous marriage or your overall good character seems to outshine theirs since you refuse to misconduct yourself even when slightly jealous.
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๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Faith and envy do not combine within a believing servant."
In another narration, the Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Greed and faith are never combined in the heart of a servant."
Source: Sunan Al-Nasā’ī 3109
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
๐ Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, who are the best people?” The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One with a heart swept clean and truthful in speech." We said, “O Messenger of Allah, we know truthful in speech. What is a heart swept clean?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One that is mindful of Allah and pure, in which there is no sin, nor aggression, nor envy." We said, “Who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One who hates worldliness and loves the Hereafter." They said, “And who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A believer with good character."
Source: Shu'ab Al-Imān 4457
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
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