๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
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๐ Five reasons why your husband may not always respond and react to your text messages on WhatsApp, Facebook messenger application and Skype, so you won't question his love for you, as his patient and loyal wife:-
1] He probably reacts to a lot of your text messages but the application which he is using oftentimes fails to register or recognize his reactions due to a temporary glitch, or during the moments when he actually reacts to your latest message, he doesn't notice that he's offline, or the internet signal / connection at his workplace or current location is unstable at times which could explain why his attempts to react to your text messages aren't always recognized.
2] Maybe he's not the one who usually opens your messages when it seems that he doesn't react to them at times. There could be a secretary or colleague whom he assigned to check his inbox, and that individual simply reads your messages out loud to him without feeling the need to send a virtual reaction.
3] There's a likelihood that some of your messages are blocked by the application or messaging service, either due to some glitches, malfunction, or not all of your messages are being sent because there are too many of them etc. If a chain of messages appears as "spam" to some social networking applications, those messages may not be sent to the intended recipient or they're redirected someplace else so not all of them get to be seen by your husband. Stay grateful Alhamdulillah that at least you put sincere effort in trying to communicate with your soulmate regularly.
4] If you are in a polygynous marriage, maybe you're dealing with a very insecure and awfully jealous co-wife who does whatever she can to prevent your husband from effectively communicating with you, as she wants him greedily all to herself. She could be the conniving culprit behind consistently deleting your message threads (conversation) on his inbox so the handsome husband whom you both love is unable to view your messages, and/or she cancels his reactions to your messages so it appears as though he is "indifferent" or too busy to respond. If the nosy troublemaker on the other side isn't female but an obnoxiously childish guy who intensely envies your husband's marriage life or the sad single clown wishes to propose to you in the future, stubbornly pay zero attention to shaytan's silly suggestions to quit loving your other half. Your loyalty for Allah's sake and contentment with your blessed marital life shouldn't be that cheap or easy to give up.
5] Yes your husband noticed your messages but there's a possibility that he was driving at that time, attending a lecture or meeting, or taking an important call on another cellphone etc. until after some minutes went by and he innocently forgot to respond to you, or he's one of those men who believe that a man can still be devoted to his wife for Allah's sake without needing to react to every text message. If the love of many spouses centuries ago was capable of thriving even without cellphones and applying netiquette between lovers, then
Inn-sha-Allah your love too can go on and continue even until you and your husband make it to Jannah Paradise without making it an obligation to react romantically to each other's statements online and offline every millisecond of each day and night.
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๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi
Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."
Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātīḥ 5/2125
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A woman is married for four things: Her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman otherwise you will be a loser."
Sahih Al-Bukhari 5090
In-book reference: Book 67 Hadith 28
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 27
๐ Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
๐ Jabir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, shaytan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations. One of them says: 'I have done this and this.' shaytan says (unimpressed): 'you have done nothing.' Another one says: 'I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife.' shaytan embraces him and he (delighted about the separation) says: 'you have done well!'"
Source: Sahih Muslim 2813
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
