๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
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๐ Eleven blessings which a Muslim man earns when he marries a Muslimah who strives to be pious for Allah's sake, while he prefers her strong connection with Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala to her obsession with her outward appearance:
1 ] Because she strives to fear Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, this Muslim who married her for Allah's sake is protected from her urge to gossip and speak badly about him whether in his presence or absence. In fact, whenever he's not around and some individuals talk about him negatively, this righteous wife quickly defends him like a passionate attorney defending a client or at least provides valid excuses for his shortcomings.
2 ] If she believes that she is unable to fulfill all of her husband's rights and wants, she willingly allows him to be married to up to four wives, while frequently reminding him to treat his multiple spouses with fair treatment and wisdom.
3 ] She is actually delighted and impressed, not insecure nor threatened with envy, when she observes how her husband treats his mother, sisters and aunts respectfully. She never insists on being the only female on earth who deserves his full attention.
4 ] Since she is contented Alhamdulillah with the marriage and love story which Allah the Most Wise has designed and destined for her, she is incapable of feeling even an ounce of jealousy towards other married couples. She never compares her unique journey with anybody else's tests while she avoids stalking people's filtered photos and pretentious social media posts.
5 ] She avoids being an illogical spendthrift and refrains from demanding her husband 24/7 to behave like an overworked moneymaking machine.
6 ] She is readily forgiving, admirably patient and courageously lenient with her husband and his relatives for Allah's sake.
7 ] As much as possible she doesn't keep irrational thoughts or unreasonable suspicions about her husband nor does she instantly accuse him of "cheating" when he behaves like a gentleman towards any female online and offline.
8 ] She avoids stressing him out with too many demands and expectations particularly when she understands that her human husband requires some rest after a meeting or duty.
9 ] For Allah's sake she tries her best to remain loyal to him and ensures that she doesn't communicate with non-mahram males unnecessarily. She lowers her gaze faithfully when she should and never compares her soulmate to any other living being.
10 ] Regularly she mentions her husband's name in many of her loving Du'as and prayers, more so when praying Tahajjud Qiyaam Al-Layl.
11 ] If her husband is blessed with a child or several kids from another legal wife (or wives), this righteous Muslim spouse makes sure that she treats them all well for Allah's sake and assists in educating them sincerely more about Islam with proper Islamic upbringing whenever she can.
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๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi
Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."
Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātih 5/2125
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 4252
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
๐ Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman otherwise you will be a loser."
Sahih Al-Bukhari 5090
In-book reference: Book 67 Hadith 28
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 27
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