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๐ Seven signs that your husband tries his best to be a good father to your child/children even if he is very busy with work and other responsibilities:-
1. He tries his best to pray the obligatory Salahs/prayers in the Masjid, especially Salat Al-Fajr and Salat Al-Jumuah, regularly. [✓]
2. He does what he can to wake his family and child/children up for Salah, particularly Salat Al-Fajr, despite his tiredness and sleepiness. [✓]
3. As much as possible he ensures that his income is halal and none of his earnings comes from haraam sources - he never goes near wealth which is knowingly stolen. He does what he can to ensure that all his debts are paid on time. [✓]
4. He shows support and encouragement for his child/children whenever he can, frequently encouraging them to attend Islamic classes and loves it when he notices the enthusiasm of his loved ones to join him in learning more about Islam. [✓]
5. He tries his best to be an effective listener, educator and counselor with noteworthy empathy to both his wife (or multiple wives) and child/children regardless of his frequent busyness, eager to instil upright character and excellent manners in them also by striving to set a good example. [✓]
6. He is remarkable at joking and being charismatically playful with his wife (or multiple wives) and child/children, intelligently understanding when to take certain matters seriously and when to lighten up. He is a compassionate giver and receiver of warm hugs and reassuring words. [✓]
7. He strives for Allah's sake to be protective of his wife (or wives) and child/children, ensuring the safety of their overall well-being including their spiritual wellness in terms of their faith/Imaan. These negative adjectives "arrogant", "selfish", "unprincipled", "immature" and "egocentric" do not describe him at all. [✓]
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๐ Abdullah Ibn Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. The leader of the people is a guardian and is responsible for his subjects. A man is the guardian of his family and he is responsible for them. A woman is the guardian of her husband's home and his children, and she is responsible for them. The servant of a man is a guardian of the property of his master and he is responsible for it. No doubt, every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6719
Sahih Muslim 1829
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior towards their women."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1162
Grade: Sahih
