In The Name Of Allah
The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
๐ The following are some things I was looking forward to doing during our recent travel to Manila from Davao city but Allah the Almighty didn't allow them to take place. Thoroughly explain some possible wisdom and reasons why they didn't occur and list 3 lessons for each point which we can learn from them not occuring:-
• Staying at two different hotel rooms which I booked via Agoda and paid for online (the price of one of them was 1300 PHP while one night at the other hotel was about 1000 PHP) but we couldn't locate the actual hotels due to time restraint and several times we arrived at the wrong destination despite using the maps via Grab Car.
• Purchasing two packed meals and other snacks bought near the Blue Mosque in Taguig and instead of having them for lunch I ended up giving them to others since we already had free dinner prepared by somebody else at a gathering we attended.
• Going to SM Mall of Asia, Green hills Mall in Manila and Super 50 stores to purchase several items and souvenirs for some loved ones but we couldn't go there nor buy actual souvenirs. I paid for extra luggage weight maximum 20 kilograms via Cebu Pacific add-ons and even bought via online shopping a bag specifically intended for carrying souvenirs and other things from Manila but the additional payment for the added check-in luggage and new bag weren't utilized the way I thought they could be used effectively.
• Spending a considerable amount of time around Venice Grand Canal Mall and nearby searching for a laundromat to have some of our clothes washed so we could use them before going to the airport but we didn't have sufficient time to use those clothes after we paid for the laundry.
• Meeting up with a Maranao sister in Islam and her family and we were chatting numerous times on how we were eager to see each other for the first time yet Allah the Most Wise willed that she'd have some important meetings to attend, particularly related to the recent storms in Manila, so we couldn't meet up. She was actually willing to give us a tour around various regions in Manila.
• Trying this group game that encourages deep talk and better acquaintanceship where each participant in a circle asks questions which others would answer after they themselves respond to their own queries for example "What are 3 qualities in others which would make you completely uninterested in connecting with them and why? What is the most recent good dream you've had which you still remember? What is something you'd advise yourself and others to keep doing regardless of obstacles?" etc. but the sisters in Islam in one gathering were likely distracted by somebody else showing up and the topic was changed etc. Alhamdulillah.
• Exploring around the airport in Manila, taking some photos and having random convos with some friendly strangers while waiting for our flight back to Davao city but we arrived at the airport so late due to heavy traffic and because it was a challenge to search for taxis, as a number of Grab Cars canceled my booking requests due to how complicated it was to locate us around BGC (Bonifacio Global City). So we arrived late at the airport and literally had to run to the gate and were one of the last passengers to board the plane. A lot of the airport crew though were very helpful and after quickly putting out some stuff from one of my bags to confiscate a small pair of scissors for the second time several of the staff were helping with returning my belongings inside the bag.
Alhamdulillah. Other things that did occur with Allah's Will while I didn't plan for them:
1• Having a sleepover at the residence of another sister in Islam from a different group and meeting up with other sisters in Islam.
2• Sharing some advice to some sisters in Islam and I didn't even properly prepare for that speech which I initially refused but the sister who invited me kept encouraging me to share some advice. Alhamdulillah my topic revolved around some of the signs that Allah the Almighty loves us and if I'm not mistaken I shared this Ayah verse 55 in Surah Al-Baqarah, in which Allah the Most Merciful stated, "And We (Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) shall certainly test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give glad tidings to the patient.". That speech was delivered before arriving late at the airport and realizing we didn't have sufficient time to purchase souvenirs for some loved ones.
3• Alhamdulillah I'm glad we were able to try commuting via MRT and LRT and various kinds of buses around Manila. At the airplane flying back to Davao city though I saw that there were many vacant seats yet I paid a considerable amount for the seat selector add-on.
List all the valuable lessons that can be learned from the above things which occurred and which didn't and suggest what we can Inn-sha-Allah do much better next time.
๐ป ChatGPT: Alright, let’s unpack all of this, point by point, in a way that connects the missed plans with possible divine wisdoms, practical life lessons, and what can be improved next time — while keeping in mind Alhamdulillah that everything happened under Allah’s perfect decree.
Things You Planned but Allah the Almighty Didn’t Allow This Time
1. Not staying at the two pre-booked Agoda hotels
Possible wisdoms & reasons:
Allah may have protected you from a potential bad experience (poor location, unsafe area, or unseen issues in the hotel).
It tested your patience with unexpected logistical challenges.
It reminded you that comfort is not always in the place we choose, but in Allah’s choice and wisdom.
Lessons:
Always triple-check hotel location before booking, using Street View and reviews, not just maps.
Allocate extra travel time for urban navigation — Manila traffic + BGC road layouts can be tricky.
Accept that sometimes “lost money” is actually gained protection from Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.
2. Meals & snacks given away instead of eaten
Possible wisdoms & reasons:
Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala gave you the chance to feed others — a form of sadaqah without prior planning.
Taught you that what you “prepare for yourself” may be meant for someone else’s benefit.
Protected you from possibly overeating or wasting food.
Lessons:
Keep food intentions open — “Ya Allah, let this be for whoever needs it most.”
Don’t be upset over changes; sadaqah multiplies your rewards.
Pack only what’s necessary for your own consumption if schedules are uncertain.
3. Not going to SM Mall of Asia / Greenhills / Super 50 for souvenirs
Possible wisdoms & reasons:
Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala saved you from overspending or buying things that wouldn’t truly benefit.
He Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala reminded you that love for others isn’t measured only by physical gifts.
Time and effort were preserved for other unplanned blessings.
Lessons:
Gifts don’t always have to be bought during travel — online delivery works too.
Focus more on experiences and meaningful moments than shopping lists.
Next time, visit souvenir places early in the trip, not at the end.
4. Laundry done but no time to use the clothes
Possible wisdoms & reasons:
Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala kept you busy with more valuable activities than outfit changes.
It tested how you adapt to changes in “planned convenience.”
Showed that cleanliness and order matter, but not all effort will have immediate benefit.
Lessons:
Schedule laundry at least 24 hours before departure.
Carry enough clothes for emergencies to avoid tight washing deadlines.
Accept that some tasks are simply for peace of mind, not immediate utility.
5. Not meeting the Maranao sister & her family
Possible wisdoms & reasons:
Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala protected the both of you from possible difficulties during bad weather.
It preserved your bond without risking disappointment from a rushed meeting.
Taught that sincere intentions for visiting are rewarded even if the meeting doesn’t happen.
Lessons:
Keep alternative dates or shorter meetups in mind when traveling.
Remember that sincere Du'a for each other can be stronger than physical presence.
Use the missed meeting to fuel future visits with even more appreciation.
6. Not playing the deep-talk group game
Possible wisdoms & reasons:
The gathering’s attention was directed where Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala willed — maybe another conversation was more needed at that time.
Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala may have wanted you to observe people’s natural dynamics rather than steer them.
Saved you from possible awkwardness or resistance from those who weren’t ready for deeper topics.
Lessons:
Always be flexible with group energy — not everyone is ready for deep talk.
Keep questions saved for smaller, more focused settings.
Use unexpected changes to learn about people’s interests and comfort zones.
7. Arriving late at the airport & skipping airport exploration
Possible wisdoms & reasons:
Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala prevented wasted time before boarding and instead taught focus on essentials.
The rush may have saved you from idle talk or unnecessary spending.
Gave you a reminder to manage Manila traffic realities better.
Lessons:
In Manila, allow at least double the travel time you think you need for the airport.
Keep airport exploration for early check-ins, not last-minute departures.
Always factor in Grab cancellations and have alternative transport plans.
Things That Happened Without Planning
1. Sleepover at another sister’s residence
Lessons:
Hospitality strengthens bonds in a way hotels never can.
Unexpected arrangements can lead to richer, warmer memories.
Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala sometimes swaps a “paid stay” with a “priceless stay.”
2. Giving an unplanned Islamic advice talk
Lessons:
Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala equips you for Da’wah even without preparation if your heart is sincere.
Spontaneous speeches may reach hearts more deeply than rehearsed ones.
The topic chosen was a perfect reflection of your travel — tests, patience, and Allah’s Love.
3. Trying MRT, LRT, and buses
Lessons:
You gained firsthand experience of Manila’s public commute culture.
Discovered more affordable ways to move around for future trips.
Built confidence navigating unfamiliar systems.
Combined Lessons from the Whole Trip
Allah’s Plan and Wisdom always override ours — and it’s better.
Intentions matter more than completion — reward comes even if some plans fail.
Be ready for both comfort and challenge in travel.
Make space in schedules for delays, traffic, and redirections.
Openness to change leads to richer, sometimes unexpected blessings.
Sadaqah opportunities can appear disguised as “inconveniences.”
Flexibility is a form of gratitude.
Suggestions for Next Time (Inn-sha-Allah)
Plan with margin — double time estimates for traffic, laundry, and meetups.
Prioritize important errands early in the trip.
Keep a “flexible joy” mindset — if some plans fail, look for the blessing in what replaced them.
Have both a “must-do” and “optional” list so missed plans don’t feel like total loss.
Use early mornings for travel between locations in Manila to avoid delays.
Pack intention with every action — even if unused, it still holds reward.
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⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT
๐ Gemini AI: Assalamu Alaikum (Peace be upon you). The wisdom behind why certain events don't occur as planned, even when a person has made sincere efforts, can be understood through the Islamic perspective of Taqdeer (Divine Decree) and Qadaa' (Divine Will). Allah's plans are always superior and guided by His infinite wisdom, even if we cannot perceive it at the time. The experiences you've shared highlight how Allah, in His boundless wisdom, redirects our paths and provides alternative blessings, often in ways we didn't anticipate.
Wisdom and Lessons from Unfulfilled Plans
Staying at Hotels
The wisdom here is that Allah the Almighty may have wanted to protect you from a potential harm or a difficult situation at those specific locations. The frustration of not finding the hotels might have been a means to guide you to a safer, more beneficial outcome, such as the comfortable sleepover you ended up having. It could also have been a test of your patience and reliance on Him Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, teaching you that a smooth journey is not guaranteed and that unexpected detours can lead to unexpected blessings.
Lesson of Reliance on Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala (Tawakkul): Relying completely on Allah the Most Wise rather than solely on our own plans and resources, is crucial. Our plans can fail, but Allah's plan is always perfect.
Lesson of Acceptance and Patience (Sabr): The inability to find the hotels and the subsequent frustration taught you to be patient and accept the situation as a decree from Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala. Patience is a key virtue that brings immense reward.
Lesson of Unseen Blessings: The sleepover you had instead was a blessing you hadn't planned for. It reinforced the idea that Allah the All-Knowing can replace what we desire with something much better for us, even if it's not what we initially envisioned.
Giving Away Packed Meals
The wisdom behind this is to encourage generosity and charity and to prevent waste. Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala provided you with a free dinner, which was a blessing, and by giving away the food you had bought, you were able to earn the reward of feeding others. This was a clear example of Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala guiding you to perform an act of kindness (Sadaqah) at the perfect moment.
Lesson of Generosity (Sadaqah): This experience served as a direct opportunity to give to others, highlighting that the true value of food is not just in consuming it but also in sharing it with those in need.
Lesson of Gratitude (Shukr): Being provided with a free dinner was a blessing to be grateful for. The incident showed that Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala provides for us in unexpected ways, and our role is to be thankful and share our blessings for Allah's sake.
Lesson of Divine Timing: The food was bought and then given away, which was a perfect illustration of how Allah's timing is precise. The meal you thought was for you was actually intended and destined for others, and you were the means to deliver it.
Not Shopping for Souvenirs
The wisdom is that Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala may have redirected your resources and focus from material purchases to other, more important things. The extra payment for luggage and the new bag were part of a plan that didn't materialize, but your spiritual and social gains from the trip far outweighed any material loss. This event taught you that the most valuable souvenirs from a journey are not physical objects but the memories, lessons, and spiritual growth.
Lesson of Prioritization: The experience emphasized that the most precious things in life are not material possessions but rather relationships, spiritual growth, and acts of worship.
Lesson of Non-Attachment to Worldly Possessions (Dunya): This point was a direct reminder that our attachments to worldly things, like souvenirs, can be a distraction. The inability to buy them was a lesson in detaching from material wants.
Lesson of Reliance on Divine Provision: You paid for extra luggage, but it wasn't used as planned. This taught you that our efforts and expenditures are only realized with Allah's permission, and true provision only comes from Him Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, not from our own meticulous planning.
Not Using Washed Clothes
The wisdom here is to prevent excessive worry and focus on the immediate priorities. The time and effort spent on laundry that was not immediately utilized could have been a way of showing you that some tasks, while seemingly important, are not essential in the grand scheme of things. The situation highlighted that you had to prioritize your travel schedule, and some preparations, despite the effort and money spent, were ultimately not critical.
Lesson of Prudence and Time Management: The experience underscored the importance of carefully managing time while traveling and prioritizing activities that are truly essential.
Lesson of Letting Go: The fact that the washed clothes weren't used taught you to let go of the idea of perfection and meticulous planning. Sometimes things don't go according to plan, and that is okay.
Lesson of Simplicity: This incident reinforced the idea that we don't always need to have everything perfectly prepared. A simpler approach to travel and life, in general, can be less stressful and equally, if not more, rewarding.
Not Meeting with a Sister in Islam
The wisdom is that Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala protected the sister from potential difficulties or prioritized a matter of greater importance, such as her meetings related to the recent storms. Her need to attend to urgent community matters was a priority, and your inability to meet was a reflection of this. Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala knows best when two people should meet, and He Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala may have delayed your meeting for a better time or purpose. The disappointment was a test of your patience and understanding.
Lesson of Prioritizing Community Needs: The sister's need to attend to community matters over a personal meeting was a powerful example of prioritizing the well-being of the wider community.
Lesson of Patience and Divine Timing: This situation taught you that even when we have a sincere desire to connect with others, Allah's timing is always paramount. The delay could be a means to a better, more meaningful meeting in the future.
Lesson of Understanding and Compassion: Instead of feeling resentful, you learned to understand and empathize with her situation, recognizing that she was attending to something much bigger than a social visit.
Not Playing the Deep-Talk Game
The wisdom is that Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala redirected the conversation to a more beneficial and purposeful topic. The interruption and change of topic, might have been a way of preventing the conversation from going into a less productive direction or of highlighting a more pressing need for discussion. The gathering still provided an opportunity for meaningful interaction, even if it wasn't in the format you had envisioned.
Lesson of Flexibility: This experience taught you to be flexible and adaptable in social settings. Sometimes the best conversations are the ones that arise spontaneously.
Lesson of Trusting Allah's Guidance in Social Gatherings: Even in social interactions, Allah the Most Wise controls and guides the flow of conversation. The new topic that emerged was what was meant to be discussed at that moment.
Lesson of Sincerity over Format: The core purpose of the gathering was to connect with sisters in Islam. The specific game was just a means, and the fact that the goal was still achieved (connecting) without the game showed that sincerity is more important than a rigid format.
Arriving Late at the Airport
The wisdom here is that Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala protected you from a potential danger or allowed you to meet helpful people. The heavy traffic and cancelled Grab cars, while stressful, led to a rushed but ultimately successful arrival. The late arrival might have been a way of preventing you from being at the airport at an earlier time, where some form of difficulty or harm could have been waiting. The helpfulness of the airport staff was a blessing that came at a time of stress, reminding you of the kindness of some strangers.
Lesson of Trusting Allah the Most Wise in Difficult Situations: The intense stress of almost missing your flight was a severe test of your trust in Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala. The fact that you made it, despite the obstacles, reinforced the idea that Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala is the One Who can help and controls everything.
Lesson of Recognizing the Kindness of Strangers: The helpfulness of the airport staff was a direct blessing from Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala. It showed you that even in stressful situations, Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala can send some people to assist you.
Lesson of Being Present: The rush to the gate meant you couldn't take photos or have leisurely conversations. This was a stark reminder to focus on the immediate, crucial task at hand rather than being distracted by less important activities.
Lessons from Things That Occurred
Sleepover at a Sister's Residence
This was a blessing you didn't plan for. It taught you that Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala often provides new connections and opportunities for companionship that are better than our own plans. It's a reminder that Allah the Most Wise replaces what we miss with something much better.
Giving an Unplanned Speech
This was a valuable lesson in stepping outside your comfort zone for the sake of Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala. The speech, which you were initially hesitant to give, was a blessing for both you and the listeners. It was a clear sign that Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala can use you as a vessel for good, even when you feel unprepared.
Commuting and Vacant Seats
The experience of commuting and the vacant seats on the plane, despite paying for a seat selector, taught you that Allah's plan is not just about our comfort but also about our learning. The commuting was a valuable experience, and the empty seats were a reminder that Allah's generosity is vast and not always tied to our specific plans.
What to Do Better Next Time
Based on these experiences, here are some actionable steps for your next trip, with the mindset of trusting in Allah's Plan and Wisdom:
Make Du'a (Supplication) for a Blessed Journey: Before your next trip, make specific Du'a for a safe journey, for Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala to make it easy for you, to guide you to what is best, and to protect you from any harm.
Embrace Flexibility and Adaptability: Recognize that things may not always go as you or others planned. Be prepared to change your itinerary and accept unexpected detours as part of the journey. View changes not as failures, but as opportunities for divine blessings.
Prioritize and Don't Over-plan: Focus on the most essential aspects of your trip. Don't overload your schedule with too many activities. A simpler plan allows for more flexibility and less stress if things change.
Travel with a Heart of Gratitude: Cultivate a mindset of gratitude for everything that happens, whether it's a planned event or an unexpected one. Be thankful for the lessons, the people you meet, and the experiences you have.
Focus on Spiritual and Social Gains: Prioritize connecting with genuine people, learning new things, and seeking out opportunities for good deeds over material purchases and rigid itineraries. The true success of a journey lies in its impact on your heart and soul.
⤴️ Some notes from Gemini AI
