Poem: Tips To Patiently Deal With Three Types Of Insecure People

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Smart ways to deal with three types of insecure people - 

Ghosters who ignore your messages as they're fearful 

Of connecting or they're deficient in good morals, 

Strangers who treat you in a way that's disrespectful, 

And haters who assemble newbies to their circle:

~•~

With those who cowardly leave your messages on seen, 

Who purposely dismiss your questions and disappear: 

Deem them untrustworthy and dead. Don't poke the deceased. 

Unfollow them fully. Don't chase like Tom with Jerry.

Accept that's the end of their role in your life story.

~•~

More than thousands on earth can replace them, don't worry. 

They're not worth your worries, self-doubt and anxiety, 

Specially if they lack good character immensely 

Or they're guilty of understandable jealousy.

Thank Allah for shielding you from their toxicity.

~•~

With the ignoble whose actions are deplorable, 

Who return your salaams with silence, your smiles with scowls, 

And who try to upset you whenever you're around, 

Pity them. Their self-hatred is proven and profound. 

Their hurt ego is why their ugly conduct comes out.

~•~

When mistreated by the sadly rude and impolite, 

Remain firm for Allah's sake and patiently stay kind. 

Don't let their disturbed selves diminish your inner light. 

Rather sympathize. Realize their sad life is why 

They can't carry themselves in a way that's civilized.

~•~

Their lousy behavior isn't an open invite 

To duplicate their foul upbringing and hateful style. 

Mean trolls and troublemakers we meet once in a while 

Remind us to thank Allah we're not troubled inside. 

Their rudeness inspires us to despise being unkind.

~•~

With critics who overact due to their injured pride 

Or spiteful rivals who search for fans to take their side, 

Feel sorry for them too. Their efforts they utilize 

Wrongly in misdeeds that displease Allah the Most Wise.

Through their wrongs they earn your sins. They're blessings in disguise.

~•~

While you can't control how people view and describe you, 

And you can't always stop them from being immature,

How long you pay attention to their lies you can choose, 

And to drop to their level you've the choice to refuse.

Prove you're better in manners, and they're the ones who lose.

~•~

Allah's Prophets ('alaihim as-salaam) also had haters without a doubt, 

From the disbelievers, hypocrites and grossly proud. 

So when Allah tests your faith with an ill-mannered crowd, 

Level up your patience, forgo reactions unsound, 

And keep a sound heart that deserves Jannatul Ferdaus.

~•~

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said to me, "Young man, if you are able every morning and evening to remove any malice in your heart towards anyone, do so." Then, the Prophet SallAllahu' alaihi wa sallam said to me, "Young man, that is my Sunnah. Whoever revives my Sunnah has loved me, and whoever loves me will be with me in Paradise."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2678

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, who are the best people?” The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One with a heart swept clean and truthful in speech." We said, “O Messenger of Allah, we know truthful in speech. What is a heart swept clean?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One that is mindful of Allah and pure, in which there is no sin, nor aggression, nor envy." We said, “Who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One who hates worldliness and loves the Hereafter." They said, “And who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A believer with good character."

Source: Shu’ab Al-Imān 4457

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

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Poem: True Friends Who Love You For Allah's Sake Give Some Space From Time To Time

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Dear friend, please don't be offended when I go quiet.

Don't doubt our friendship if I can't answer each message.

Silence doesn't mean I'm depressed, please be reminded,

To leave some words unsaid is one way to be shielded.

~•~

Concealing private info is among my methods

To protect myself from actors who love to gossip.

This doesn't mean you're someone who cannot be trusted.

From the sin of backbiting I want you protected.

~•~

Supposing I opened up and told you my secrets,

From my past mistakes to thoughts that could be dangerous,

And dreams if I narrate them would you become jealous,

Or will you grant me comfort to prove you're supportive?

~•~

Folks who betrayed me are too many to be counted.

No longer is it shocking to get disappointed,

Where most are experts at breaking a bond or promise.

So when I take breaks from drama, please get used to it.

~•~

Silent moments are sweet chances to be near Allah,

Through Qur'an reading, saying Dhikr and more Salahs.

While we don't chat always, you're in my heart and Du'as,

Constantly praying for eternal rest in Jannah.

~•~

📖 Mu'adh Ibn Jabal RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "Allah the Exalted said: 'Those who love each other for the sake of My Glory will be upon pulpits of light and they will be envied by the prophets and the martyrs.'"

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2390

Grade: Sahih

📖 Ibn Hibban RahimahuAllah narrated that Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu said, “A righteous companion is better than loneliness, and loneliness is better than an evil companion. A good writer is better than one who is silent, and one who is silent is better than an evil writer.”

Source: Rawdat Al-‘Uqalaa 56

Poem: Worship Allah And Don't Listen To The Evil Whispers Of Our Enemy shaytan

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 When vile thoughts arise like, "Chillax. Later you can pray.", 

"Be brave. Confess your feelings. It's clear they feel the same. 

Kissing upgrades loving each other for Allah's sake.", 

"The perfect joke. It's not gossip if it entertains, 

Makes your audience laugh, or brings smiles to a Muslim's face."

~•~

"Say, that's your chance. They're away. Take it before it's gone. 

Use the cash for your wants and kindness in Ramadan.", 

And "Let them pay first. Once you've changed numbers, you can scram. 

You need the money. They're too naive to catch your scams.", 

Seek Allah's help and guidance against our foe shaytan. 

~•~

Don't underestimate shaytan, though indeed he's weak, 

He won't quit misleading humans until he succeeds. 

If he can't tempt you to commit what your nafs fancies, 

He'll mislead you to bid'ah, to have indecent dreams, 

And distract you from obeying Allah correctly.

~•~

That you yearn to be near Allah when shaytan would see, 

shaytan, with intense jealousy, would persistently 

Whisper foul suggestions when you're awake or asleep, 

Beautifying for you unpleasant acts and misdeeds, 

So his roomies in Hell/Jahannam largely increase.

~•~

The devil, shaytan, is like a lawyer defending 

Guilty clients with lies and clever tactics to win. 

Seek refuge with Allah. Ignore shaytan's deceptions.

With Taqwa, Dhikr and Du'a, keep your faith strengthened, 

And shield your heart with frequent Qur'an recitation.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah has pardoned my nation for what occurs within themselves (evil thoughts or feelings), as long as they do not speak of it or act upon it."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6287

Sahih Muslim 127

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Al-Malih RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: A man said, “I was riding on a mount behind the Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam and it stumbled, so I said: 'May shaytan perish!' The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do not say: 'May shaytan perish!' If you say that, he will swell with pride until he becomes as big as a house and he says: 'By my might!' Rather, you should say: 'In the Name of Allah (Bismillah).' If you say that, he (shaytan) will shrink until he becomes as small as a fly."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4982

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do not curse shaytan, but rather seek refuge in Allah from his evil."

Source: Al-Mukhalliṣīyāt 1572

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

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Poem: Your Trust In Allah And Your Disinterest In His Servants' Approval Signify Genuine Confidence

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 The truly confident who trust in Allah the most 

Don't pursue people's applause. They focus on their goals, 

Strive to serve Allah, unfazed by His servants' insults, 

While their grudge or indifference can't make them feel hurt, 

Since they aim to please Allah, not attain fame on earth.

~•~

Confident souls remain unaffected and unhurt 

If their calls or messages are purposely ignored, 

If they weren't tagged in a comment or online post, 

And if friend requests they've sent receive "no thanks" and "nope". 

Love them or hate them, true confidence doesn't erode.

~•~

With insight and guidance from Allah, they gladly know 

That actual love or lasting friendship cannot be forced, 

If it wasn't decreed by Allah 'fore one was born. 

Just as you can't enforce some to enjoy eating corn, 

You can't make some like you if your vibes bring discomfort.

~•~

And it's not your fault, if with some you can't get along. 

Perhaps your faith in Allah makes you come off too strong 

To those who guess they're not good enough to tag along, 

Who shun you first so they won't be the rejected ones, 

Or whose jealousy compels them to leave you alone.

~•~

People's likes, compliments and frequent shares of your posts 

Don't measure how much Allah loves you - no, not at all. 

How Prophet Nuh/Noah ('alaihis salaam) had few followers recall, 

Yet he was loved by Allah, blessed with a special role.

Care more about Allah's Love than His slaves' approval.

~•~

📖 Sa'd Ibn Abi Waqqas RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah loves a servant who is righteous, independent, and obscure (not popular, not famous)."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2965

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject." 

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109

Sahih Muslim 2638 

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 

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Poem: Tips To Forget About A Broken Romance Or Someone You Love But Can't Have

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Five tips to fully detach from someone you once loved, 

To ditch a broken romance and leave it in the past, 

And to forget about an unattainable crush, 

So there's no awkwardness when Allah plans you cross paths,

Or you can move on from the connection you both had:

~•~

One: Admit, affirm and acknowledge you did feel "love", 

Whether your crush still feels the same way or they forgot, 

Don't deny your attraction or it may develop. 

Tell yourself, "I like them, but they're someone I can't have. 

I'll leave them for Allah's sake. I prefer Allah's Love."

~•~

Two: Accept patiently Allah's Destiny/Qadr. 

Understand if it was destined, you'd be together, 

If Allah wanted you as soulmates for each other 

That would've been the case, but it's not, so don't bother. 

Your spousal love is reserved for someone much better.

~•~

Three: Appreciate the spouse whom Allah chose for you, 

If you're married, and let your love always be renewed, 

So you value them with loyalty and gratitude. 

And if you're single, await your turn with fortitude. 

Don't spoil your future with someone unlawful for you.

~•~

Four: In mourning what went by and what was there's no use. 

Tears in the present can't bring back what you had to lose, 

Nostalgic thoughts and wishing that former bonds stayed glued 

Only please your foes and prevent you from happy moods. 

Reflect on the past only if it helps you improve.

~•~

Five: Substitute your worries and dreams that slipped from you 

With trust in Allah, frequent Adhkaar, Du'as, Sujood, 

And acceptance that what Allah gives is best for you.

Allow heartbreaks to wash away sins you used to do 

And know to Allah's tests there's no human who's immune.

~•~

May Allah the Most Kind and Merciful calm your heart, 

And guide you to patiently moving on from the past. 

Ameen. Take note, when you're among those whom Allah loves, 

Allah may test your faith with souls that deeply attract. 

Be tougher than your nafs. Always prefer Allah's Love.

~•~

📖 Ibn Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: I was riding behind the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam when he said to me, "Young man, I will teach you some words. Be mindful of Allah and He will protect you. Be mindful of Allah and you will find Him before you. If you ask, ask from Allah. If you seek help, seek help from Allah. Know that if the nations gathered together to benefit you, they will not benefit you unless Allah has decreed it for you. And if the nations gathered together to harm you, they will not harm you unless Allah has decreed it for you. The pens have been lifted and the pages have dried."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2516

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi

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