Poem: The Countless Ways That My Dear Husband Has Inspired Me

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 "In what ways does your husband inspire you to become 

A better Muslimah?" if I were asked that question, 

From the bottom of my heart I'd truthfully respond, 

"Since my spouse is a gift from Allah the Most Loving, 

Loving my travel buddy to Jannah has strengthened 

My faith/Imaan in countless ways, as my dear husband 

Inspired me to improve in contentment and patience." 

~•~

When he's out often with his friends or his employment, 

When he's busy caring for his mom or his patients, 

Or frequent stress at his workplace triggers his mood swings, 

He motivates me to perform wudhoo/ablution, 

Then I'd pray Sunnah prayers or start supplicating 

To Allah, asking Allah with fierce dedication 

To please keep this marriage blessed and protect my husband.

~•~ 

When hubby arrives, I can't stop myself from smiling, 

Grateful to Allah that my zawj has safely returned, 

Feeling more enlightened that angst isn't permanent, 

And aware that in Jannah is joy everlasting. 

My husband has taught me how to be a patient friend - 

If his replies are delayed, I'd choose to comprehend 

That despite his defects, he's still my special someone.

~•~ 

My husband, one of the best gifts Allah has given, 

Inspired me to enhance leniency and resilience, 

To be more loving and tolerant with my loved ones, 

And to resist quitting challenges in an instant. 

Sincerely I thank Allah for His wise selection, 

And for answering a Du'a when I was a teen. 

Loving my spouse inspired me more to always believe.

~•~

📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah (Paradise)."

[At-Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan]

Riyad As-Salihin 286

In-book reference: Introduction, Hadith 286

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

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Poem: Ways To Determine If A Wife's Love For Her Husband Is Authentic

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Any married woman can visibly claim that she 

"Loves" her husband for Allah when in reality 

She's wed to him for his status, nationality, 

And satisfies him with her body for his money, 

Or she protects her marriage to please her family. 

~•~ 

Don't look at wives who showcase their love through frequently 

Uploading sweet photos of themselves and their hubbies, 

Sharing romantic quotes, writing sappy poetry, 

Or reminding you how their marriage life is happy. 

You can't fake true love. When love is real, it's felt deeply. 

~•~ 

A Muslimah's love for her spouse is proven clearly 

When she lovingly says his name in prayers daily 

And nightly when she prays while most people are asleep. 

Since she's fiercely loyal, if one day Allah decreed 

That the guy needs divorce, she'd still love him inwardly. 

~•~ 

Stubbornly she won't quit loving him and patiently 

Praying for his return. Proposals that she'd receive 

From willing suitors would be rejected instantly. 

That proves her love is real. The man whom Allah wisely 

Gifted her as her spouse won't be ditched that easily.

~•~

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

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Note: How Most INTJ Personality Types Deal With Those Whom They Dislike

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

🗒️ Question: How does a person with the INTJ personality type deal with people whom they dislike? 

Answer: Like they don't exist - in their circle. Since the INTJ believes, after discovery or having their intuition (from Allah the Almighty) on point, that certain individuals are untrustworthy or incompatible, the INTJ doesn't want anything to do with them. 

1] Instead of blocking toxic users on social media, most INTJs have the ability to avoid checking out their pages. If they noticed some of their comments on a mutual friend's post, they don't bother thoroughly reading any of what they posted. 

2] You know that an INTJ regards you as a trusted friend if they go out of their way to closely pay attention to what you say online and offline. When around individuals whom they despise, INTJs can be scarily aloof, indifferent, and unwilling to give proper eye contact. Seeing how they're uninterested in being more acquainted with them, an INTJ who typically enjoys researching would stubbornly refrain from asking inquisitive questions. 

3] Unlike many SF types (particularly a number of ESFJs and ISFPs) who tend to complain and gossip about people whom they hate, INTJ Muslims prefer to avoid mentioning the names of anybody whom they abhor for Allah's sake. Whether you've done some things to disappoint them or you did something remarkable on one occasion, an INTJ who finds you uninteresting or unworthy of befriending would shun any opportunity to enunciate your name. 

INTJs in general confidently ignore their haters, stay away from conflict, and willfully distance themselves from anyone whose vibes they can sense aren't good for them. Prolonging aimless arguments, constantly trying to prove they can win every single debate, cowardly gossiping about those whom they clash with, and continually stalking strangers whose goals differ from theirs are some insecure acts which don't appeal to nor suit most INTJs.

~•~ 

📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe (not guilty of backbiting, telling lies, and knowingly committing injustice). The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil. 

By the One (Allah the Almighty) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."

Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515 

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut 

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Poem: Five Signs That You Are Very Much In Love With Your Husband

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Five clear-cut signs that you're still in love with your husband, 

If you're a Muslim wife who deals with her man's distance 

As your spouse works someplace else to earn halal income, 

Or he studies overseas, or more than one woman 

Are lawfully his wives hence you can't see him often:

~•~ 

First sign - since you love him for Allah, you're not lying 

About the fact you're fiercely loyal to your husband. 

While other guys are richer than him, yours stays handsome, 

Huggable to you and worthy of your affection. 

He's a recipient of your loving supplications. 

~•~ 

Secondly, coping with his absence isn't tiring. 

He may be gone for weeks or months, and you'd still love him. 

Through practicing patience while waiting for his return, 

You're trained to be more patient with what Allah destines. 

Have Sabr for Allah so rewards from Him are earned. 

~•~

Thirdly, nearly every moment you're doing something, 

Whether you're washing clothes, browsing online or cooking, 

You find yourself missing your husband's calming presence, 

Recalling his soothing hugs and gifts he had given, 

And your choice to stay married becomes further strengthened. 

~•~ 

Fourthly, even if some relatives or concerned friends 

Tried to convince you to request for separation, 

You'd stubbornly refuse to welcome their suggestions. 

Even if you were bribed to marry another man, 

You'd act like lawyers defending innocent clients.

~•~ 

Fifthly, you know your love is real and you're not acting 

When his image appears in dreams and contemplations 

A lot, and that proves you clearly have feelings for him. 

Though your love language has no connection with presents 

Or touch, you love him a lot, and you're not pretending. 

~•~ 

Just as good farmers can wait for seeds to start growing 

And some birds can fly for days during bird migration, 

Persevere for Allah. Stay in love with your husband 

And look forward to a grand delightful reunion 

In Jannah Paradise where bliss is everlasting.

~•~

📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah (Paradise)."

[At-Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan]

Riyadh As-Salihin 286

In-book reference: Introduction, Hadith 286 

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Poem: Understand That There's Wisdom Behind Polygyny

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Understand that when Allah legislated rulings, 

Forbade some acts and allowed us to do certain things, 

He intends to examine our faith as His servants, 

To test our patience and if we truly live for Him, 

If we're sincere enough to not question His Wisdom. 

~•~ 

From what Allah made lawful, not an obligation, 

Is Muslim men being wed to up to four women. 

It's halal if the males don't abuse this permission, 

Discouraged if it leads them to sins and oppression, 

And a blessing if it helps improve them as Muslims. 

~•~ 

But why only four? Why not seven or eleven? 

Just as Allah created and designed the heavens, 

Flowers, trees, plantations, mountains, animals, oceans, 

Nature and humans in a way He knows is fitting, 

As Allah's servants we have no right to question Him. 

~•~ 

Polygyny is there so those who can't bear children 

Can enjoy a blessed marriage life without divorcing. 

A co-wife can be a source of peace when she befriends 

You and cares about you for Allah, while her intent 

Of sharing the same spouse is to earn Jannah's entrance. 

~•~

Don't regard the other wife/wives as competition. 

See them as inspiration to love more your husband, 

And trainers who urge you to be a pro at patience.

Find chances to please Allah so you're loved more by Him 

In polygyny which frightens insecure women. 

~•~ 

📖 Abdullah ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

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