Hadith: Warning Against Celebrating So-called "Halloween"

💐 In The Name Of Allah

 The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

https://www.salafisounds.com/just-3-minutes-on-halloween-by-abu-khadeejah/

📖 Ibn Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever imitates a people is one of them."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4031

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

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Poem: How Can You Tell If A Person's Vibes Are Good For You?

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Three signs that someone's energy is in line with yours, 

That a person's vibes are good, not toxic, so convos 

With them flow smoothly and connecting doesn't seem forced, 

As though Allah the Almighty destined that you'd both 

Meet on earth, network and help each other reach your goals: 

~•~ 

First sign - when they're around, you're calm. Overall your pulse 

Vibrates in a way that shows your heart is not disturbed. 

When they're nearby, you can relax, while you don't feel worse 

In their presence or absence. They're not the kind to hurt 

You with lies, deceit, gossip, rumors, and unkind words.

~•~ 

Second sign - when talking to them, you can be yourself, 

In a sense that when it's your turn to speak, there's no urge 

To sugarcoat your remarks so you won't get ignored, 

Or to act like someone you're not so they don't get bored. 

Connecting with potential friends doesn't require force. 

~•~

Third sign that Allah decreed you'd vibe with righteous souls - 

Though they thrive or grow faster, you're not jealous at all, 

Because you're in the same team. If they attain a goal 

Or showcase they're better at something, you win also. 

They're just swift rowers if you were rowing the same boat. 

~•~ 

Be careful when choosing your close friends. Stress and remorse 

Are often the results of befriending the wrong souls. 

Don't search for smiles, jokes and laughter. Most acts are rehearsed.

Instead observe your current moods when around some souls. 

Their vibes suit yours if they inspire you and bring comfort.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are like conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109 

Sahih Muslim 2638 

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https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/06/poem-three-kinds-of-friends-whom-we.html 

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https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/12/poem-souls-who-connect-with-us-and.html 

https://www.abukhadeejah.com/souls-of-believers-meet-after-death-the-souls-of-the-living-meet-the-dead-in-dreams/

Poem: The Ways That My Dear Husband Is Like Cozy Garment For Me

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 From the ways that my husband is like garment for me, 

How the man whom Allah chose as my soulmate wisely 

Is like outfit I wear which keeps me feeling comfy, 

While I and my fierce loyalty so similarly 

Resemble cloaks which he wears gladly and gratefully: 

~•~

He's like my jacket which I'd put on so eagerly 

When the weather gets cold or when bright times briefly freeze. 

His loving words are like thick socks that warm freezing feet, 

And his hugs are like glow-in-the-dark shirts which brightly 

Light up when darkness falls so glee outshines misery. 

~•~

He's like a favorite hijaab worn so frequently 

Whose color suits my personality perfectly. 

Each time my dear garment gets stained momentarily, 

I'd wash it or wipe the dirt off so it's less dirty, 

Thankful that my dear spouse strives to do the same for me. 

~•~ 

Throughout our travel on earth my spouse is like cozy 

Attire which I always value so that modesty 

For Allah's sake can refine my life's priorities. 

My husband's worth outweighs luxurious accessories, 

And this garment is like a key to Jannah's entry. 

~•~

He's like precious presents sent to kids by sweet aunties 

Who know precisely what their nephews and nieces need. 

I believe he's a gift from Allah the Almighty 

Who sees that my spouse befits my unique goals and needs, 

Just as I'm his garment, beautifying his journey. 

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1162

Grade: Sahih 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e. her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a loser."

Sahih Al-Bukhari 5090

In-book reference: Book 67 Hadith 28

USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 27 

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/poem-why-this-wife-loves-her-husband.html 

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https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/09/note-how-happy-are-you-with-your.html 

Note: For Allah's Sake Keep Loving Your Dear Husband

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 When I married my husband at 20 years old while he was 28 in 2006 Shawwaal, I was very ignorant when it came to cooking. I acknowledge that to this day I'm one of those few females who lack actual culinary skills. 

On one occasion I cooked some pancakes for him. Since they weren't properly cooked from the inside, some of the liquid mixture was oozing out as he'd take every bite. I apologized to him about me being a terrible "chef" and he jokingly told me that it's okay, we can imagine that the uncooked part of the pancake is cream filling. 

From the undeniable signs that your husband loves you for Allah's sake is when he tries his best to have patience with your flaws, mistakes and shortcomings. If a woman can't do an impressive job in cooking, a caring husband would either stay patient with her incompetence and volunteer to do the cooking himself, buy take-outs or order food from restaurants often, hire somebody who's more capable to cook for them, or even motivate her to attend culinary school and pay for the courses which she decides to take. 

Likewise when a Muslimah does whatever she can to patiently keep loving the man whom Allah the Most Wise selected as her other half and soulmate, she'd be patient, tolerant, or accepting of his qualities which he can't change while persistently praying to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala for her husband's gradual development and progress, aware that his perfect version can be thoroughly enjoyed 

Inn-sha-Allah in Jannah Paradise, not in this brief dunya where being completely flawless is unattainable.

~•~ 

📖 Ibn 'Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "I was shown the Hellfire and (found) that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you."

Sahih Al-Bukhari 29

In-book reference: Book 2, Hadith 22

USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 1, Book 2, Hadith 29 

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Poem: The Countless Ways That My Dear Husband Has Inspired Me

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 "In what ways does your husband inspire you to become 

A better Muslimah?" if I were asked that question, 

From the bottom of my heart I'd truthfully respond, 

"Since my spouse is a gift from Allah the Most Loving, 

Loving my travel buddy to Jannah has strengthened 

My faith/Imaan in countless ways, as my dear husband 

Inspired me to improve in contentment and patience." 

~•~

When he's out often with his friends or his employment, 

When he's busy caring for his mom or his patients, 

Or frequent stress at his workplace triggers his mood swings, 

He motivates me to perform wudhoo/ablution, 

Then I'd pray Sunnah prayers or start supplicating 

To Allah, asking Allah with fierce dedication 

To please keep this marriage blessed and protect my husband.

~•~ 

When hubby arrives, I can't stop myself from smiling, 

Grateful to Allah that my zawj has safely returned, 

Feeling more enlightened that angst isn't permanent, 

And aware that in Jannah is joy everlasting. 

My husband has taught me how to be a patient friend - 

If his replies are delayed, I'd choose to comprehend 

That despite his defects, he's still my special someone.

~•~ 

My husband, one of the best gifts Allah has given, 

Inspired me to enhance leniency and resilience, 

To be more loving and tolerant with my loved ones, 

And to resist quitting challenges in an instant. 

Sincerely I thank Allah for His wise selection, 

And for answering a Du'a when I was a teen. 

Loving my spouse inspired me more to always believe.

~•~

📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah (Paradise)."

[At-Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan]

Riyad As-Salihin 286

In-book reference: Introduction, Hadith 286

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

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