ุจุณู… ุงู„ู„ู‡. ุฑุจูŠ ุฒุฏู†ูŠ ุนู„ู…ุง. ุงู…ูŠู†

ุจุณู… ุงู„ู„ู‡. ุฑุจูŠ ุฒุฏู†ูŠ ุนู„ู…ุง. ุงู…ูŠู†
May Allah the Almighty grant us more beneficial knowledge, accept our good deeds, forgive our mistakes, protect us from fitna, and join us with the righteous believers in Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen.

Saturday, September 4, 2021

Poem: The Way You Perceive Marriage Can Impact Your Level Of Happiness

๐Ÿ’ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
๐Ÿ’Œ The way you see marriage and why you chose to marry 
Can impact your level of joy to a large degree. 
If you agreed to marry a guy for his money, 
To be wealthier mostly, then most definitely 
Your moods may worsen whenever cash flow would decrease. 
~•~ 
If you approved a guy's proposal for his body, 
Loving how his looks complement your outward beauty, 
And you're proud of his handsomeness predominantly, 
Then pristine happiness that lasts can't be guaranteed 
When his hotness drops or you both lose your sex appeal. 
~•~ 
If you married him, assuming that doing so leads 
To feeling happier, more accomplished and complete, 
Then when you get tired of his mistakes made purposely, 
Unknowingly, ignorantly, or unwillingly, 
You may want him out of your life almost instantly. 
~•~ 
Don't view your husband as a tool which you selfishly 
Presume that his presence is designed to constantly 
Feed your ego and satisfy you eternally. 
He's not an ATM nor subservient genie, 
But a human, like you, with emotions, dreams, and needs. 
~•~
Perceive marriage as a gift from Allah Almighty;
A present to handle with care and keep lovingly;
A game to play with wisdom, patience, and empathy;
A test to pass skillfully, with strong will to succeed, 
Journey with ups and downs leading to Jannah's entry.
~•~ 
๐Ÿ“– Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."
Source: Sahih Ibn Ḥibbān 4252
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 
๐Ÿ“– Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a loser."
Sahih Al-Bukhari 5090
In-book reference: Book 67 Hadith 28
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 27 
๐Ÿ“– Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/05/poem-good-intentions-in-marrying-can.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/08/note-everything-including-marriage-is.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/note-not-everyone-on-earth-has-same.html