๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
๐ Some signs that an INTJ personality type regards you as a friend or potential friend:
1๐น If you haven't seen each other for several years or days, they intentionally prolong conversations with you and try to ask you as many questions as they can think of about yourself to be updated with your current circumstances and because they genuinely care about your overall well-being.
➡️ Questions like: "Where in Saudi Arabia did you stay? What other places have you visited? Who did you meet? What have you learned from your vacation? Why did you reject your ex-husband when he asked for a second chance? You're allowed to remarry him twice, you know." etc.
2๐น They regularly check out your social media posts even if they may not virtually react to them always.
Example, while chatting with you through text messaging or face to face, an INTJ may say something like "I noticed from your recent posts that you established a halaal restaurant near such-and-such area. Tell me all about it so I can support you ASAP." or "Yesterday you posted about a particular item that I know my husband would be interested in purchasing. Is it still for sale?"
3๐น They quickly and easily stick up for you (defend your name) if they overhear anybody saying some unpleasant things about you, whether you're around the corner or absent.
➡️ For example: "Don't say that. If she was a gold-digger, she'd recklessly overspend on branded clothes, spoil herself with unreasonably expensive cosmetics, and frequently demand her husband to increase her allowance. She truly loves him for who he is, not for his income ."
4๐น If you arrived from travel or they missed you, they go out of their way to offer a big hug or initiate an enthusiastic handshake instead of abruptly glancing at you with an apathetic glimpse that says "oh, it's you. Good morning and goodbye."
5๐น They eagerly ask you for your advice or frank opinions on many matters which concern them.
➡️ Example: "What kind of edibles did you avoid to get so slim within a few months?", "What other tips can you share to cope with your husband's fourth marriage?", "MashaAllah. How did you become so well-off when you started your business with selling munchkin balls in your teens?" and "Recently I had a really weird dream. You and so-and-so were in it. Can I share it with you right now, then you give me your best interpretation?"
If an INTJ so far has never requested you for advice, hugged you more than twice, backed up for you whenever critics would backbite, or discussed random topics with you numerous times and inquired about your likes and dislikes etc. or invited you to attend an Islamic lecture more than just one time, then to them you're probably another stranger, which is still fine. You too have a right to wisely select who from Allah's servants can embark with you on your journey to Jannah Paradise.
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๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi
๐ Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are troops collected together. They come close upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109
Sahih Muslim 2638
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
Al-Nawawi said, “When bodies meet in the world, they come together or differ according to how they were created. The righteous will incline to the righteous, and the evil will incline to the evil.”
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