๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
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๐ Fifteen disrespectful statements to never say to your husband, if you wish to protect your marriage from divorce, arguments and pointless drama:
1. "You're so useless; all you do is play games and spy on other people's lives, obsessed with nosily watching pretentious vlogs of strangers who have nothing to do with you, as if you've got no goals and meaningful life of your own."
2. "I'm immature? Look who's talking! The oversized boy who gets offended easily and acts all passive-aggressive whenever his brittle feelings get hurt."
3. "If you're a real man, then divorce me - now!"
4. "You're just like your dad - uneducated and ineffective at managing one's time and family."
5. "You are so ignorant. How stupider can you get?"
6. "You're very irresponsible. Sometimes I wonder how old you actually are."
7. "It's funny and sad (pathetic) at the same time to see you acting like you're all that, when in actuality you are also flawed and full of unappealing qualities."
8. "Did you know that my father and brothers are a lot more masculine than you? Then again, I understand that your closeness to your mother is probably why you're not as manly as other men."
9. "Why are you "ALWAYS" late?"
10. "How come you "NEVER" buy me anything nice and memorable?"
11. "Can you be at least five percent romantic as my friend's husband?"
12. "We should go out for dinner almost "EVERY" night together like the husband of so-and-so."
13. "I wish we never met."
14. "If only I didn't say yes to your marriage proposal..."
15. "I wish you looked more like this celebrity..."
AstaghfurAllah Al-'Atheem.
Always remind yourself of why you willingly agreed to this marriage for Allah's sake and recall your husband's numerous handsome characteristics whenever shaytan tries to make you despise or disrespect him due to obnoxious pride / blameworthy kibr.
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๐ Ibn Hibbaan narrated that Abu Hurairah RadhiAllahu 'anhu said that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "If a woman prays her five daily prayers, fasts her month (Ramadan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: ‘Enter (Jannah) Paradise from whichever of the gates of Paradise you wish.’"
Classed as Sahih by Al-Albaani in Saheeh Al-Jaami’ no. 660
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Tirmidhi
Ali Al-Qari said, “That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala).”
Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātīḥ 5/2125
๐ Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
๐ Jabir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, shaytan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations. One of them says: 'I have done this and this.' shaytan says: 'you have done nothing.' Another one says: 'I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife.' shaytan embraces him and he says: 'you have done well!'"
Source: Sahih Muslim 2813
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
