Poem: Only Allah The Almighty Can Heal Hearts And Keep Us Whole

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 The Only One Who can mend and fix a broken heart 

That's been shattered by souls whose mistakes tore them apart,

And the Only One Who can help those who find life hard 

Is Allah Almighty Who can guide, locate lost parts 

And reconnect them or grant the grieving a fresh start.

~•~

Three tips to heal from a broken heart or aching soul: 

One - Trust Allah the Most Kind and know that He controls 

Everything, big and small, that occur, in this brief world. 

If some left without explaining why they had to go, 

Smile, accept it's Allah's Qadr. Trials don't last long.

~•~

Two - Achieve healing by reading Qur'an frequently.

In earning rewards through good deeds keep yourself busy.

Cleanse your heart through Adhkaar, Du'a, and sincerity, 

And increase Sunnah prayers for more tranquility, 

While avoiding fitna and souls with bad energy.

~•~

Three - Remind yourself of death, dunya's temporary, 

And everlasting bliss is found in Jannah only. 

Heartbreaks and sorrow will disappear eventually, 

Along with all your wrongdoings you did previously. 

Difficulties remove sins. After hardship comes ease.

~•~

When some people hurt or confuse you, to Allah flee, 

Run to Allah for comfort and pray for His Mercy. 

Never cling to weak humans who've got their own worries. 

The only attachment which guarantees joy and peace 

Is connecting to Allah Whose Love keeps us complete.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Nothing afflicts a Muslim of hardship, nor illness, nor anxiety, nor sorrow, nor harm, nor distress, not even the pricking of a thorn, but that Allah will expiate his sins by it."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5318

Sahih Muslim 2573

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Aisha RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If the sins of a servant are numerous and he does not have good deeds to compensate, Allah will afflict him with sadness as an expiation for him."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 24708

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Suyuti

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Allah did not send down any disease (or ailment) but that He also sent down the cure."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5354

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

Ibn Al-Qayyim (May Allah have mercy on him. Ameen.) said, “This is generally true for diseases of the heart, the spirit, the body, and their cures.”

Source: Al-Jawāb Al-Kāfī 1/8

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.’ Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills.” Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Anas ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The most privileged people in the world among the people of the Hellfire will come on the Day of Resurrection to be dipped in the Hellfire, then it will be said: 'O son of Adam, did you see any good? Did you get any blessing?' He will say: 'No, by Allah, my Lord!' Then the most miserable people in the world among the people of Paradise will come on the Day of Resurrection to be dipped in Paradise, then it will be said: 'O son of Adam, did you see any hardship? Did you have any distress?' He will say: 'No, by Allah, my Lord! I did not once see hardship or distress.'"

Source: Sahih Muslim 2807

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

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Poem: My Brief Love Story And Allah's Decree On Letting Me Marry My Cousin

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 My brief love story to share lessons to fellow wives 

On loving one's spouse for Allah as a Muslim wife 

Who knows that Allah the Most Wise is the One Who writes 

His servants' decrees and what occur throughout our lives.

~•~

Alhamdulillah I've never been on dates, not once, 

No haraam affairs prior to meeting my husband 

Who's employed as a doctor and one of my cousins, 

Where we were born and grew up in are both different.

~•~

I was born in Dammam, he in southern Philippines. 

I studied in Riyadh for around seventeen years, 

While his studies were in Davao and Cebu city. 

Still recall how we both felt shy in our first meeting.

~•~

With Allah's Will, this marriage is a parental one, 

Arranged by my parents with the folks of my husband, 

After declining four proposals back in my teens 

When I was ignorant of my duties and our Deen.

~•~

One of the suitors that time worked in a western land, 

The second in Madinah, the third from Pakistan, 

The fourth grew up with me in Al-Khobar and Dammam. 

Thought I wasn't ready to move in with any man.

~•~

Throughout that time an ex-friend and I stayed in contact. 

My rejecting the proposals and our lengthy talks 

Made them suspect our connection, while they were false thoughts. 

We were just friends who were close, not "two females in love".

~•~

Some months later, with Allah's Will, I became a wife 

At twenty while my husband was twenty-eight that time. 

Found out my ex-friend eventually married a guy, 

With Allah's Will, while browsing through some pages online.

~•~

When my husband asked if I could bear him more children 

And I told him I couldn't due to health conditions, 

I mentioned polygyny and how I've no problem 

If he remarries even without my permission.

~•~

When I was twenty-six years old I wasn't surprised 

To be notified that he had a Visayan wife, 

A year older than me, bore our husband their first child 

Named Yusuf - a name which my soulmate knew that I liked.

~•~

From this marriage, Alhamdulillah, I learned a lot, 

That if it's all for Allah, the love can longer last, 

Despite brief challenges and obstacles that distract, 

Marriage lasts much longer if it leads to Allah's Love.

~•~

Allah guided me to recognize the wisdom in 

Polygyny, advocate marriage between cousins, 

And to firmly believe that our journeys are blessings

If they strengthen our Taqwa, faith/Imaan and patience.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."

Source: Sahih Ibn Hibban 4252

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abdullah ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah (Paradise)".

[At-Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan]

Riyad As-Salihin 286

In-book reference: Introduction, Hadith 286

Poem: As Long As We Have Allah's Love, We Lose Nothing If Some People Choose To Leave.

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Tips on how to deal with those casually passing by, 

Who befriend for a while then after some time go "bye!" 

Or who left when common traits in you they couldn't find, 

Or whose sudden departure they failed to clarify, 

So you can savor their absence and leave them behind...

~•~

From within, visualize sending this message to them: 

"Dear ex-friends and strangers who are done with visiting, 

First note, your fleeing didn't decrease my self-esteem. 

I lost nothing by your choice to cut the connection. 

If anything, I'm free from your toxic influence,

~•~

Far from your fitna and obsession with gossiping, 

From your lies or expertise at teaching me nothing, 

From your cowardice, envy and lack of commitment, 

And if you're from those who don't fit ugly descriptions, 

Then disconnecting from distractions is your freedom.

~•~

I've no qualms nor complaints about your disappearance, 

Specially since your choices were by Allah destined. 

How and when we met, and why you left were all written, 

Predestined by Allah the Most Wise and All-Knowing. 

So gladly I move on and smile at your decision."

~•~

For years you managed without them, yes you can survive 

As long as you stay in touch with Allah day and night. 

Temporary people inspire us to just rely 

On Allah the Almighty, Most Loving and Most Kind. 

Nothing's lost if we still keep Islam and faith inside.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Love whom you love moderately, perhaps he will become hateful to you someday. Hate whom you hate moderately, perhaps he will become your beloved friend someday."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1997

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are troops collected together. They come close upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109

Sahih Muslim 2638

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Al-Nawawi said, “When bodies meet in the world, they come together or differ according to how they were created. The righteous will incline to the righteous, and the evil will incline to the evil.”

Source: Sharh Al-Nawawī ‘alá Sahih Muslim 2638

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu ‘anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.’ Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase 'if only' opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

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Poem: To Stay Married And In Love, Love Your Husband For Allah's Sake And Don't Quit Easily.

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Like dunya, marriage is a test. There'll be ups and downs, 

Good times, tough times, moments when you laugh followed by frowns, 

Challenges with different kinds of fitna around. 

Numbers quickly quit if their faith isn't firm and sound, 

If pleasing Allah isn't what their love is about.

~•~

Marriage isn't for the weak, who easily give up 

On the human whom Allah chose as their other half.

Marriage isn't for the faint-hearted, not tough enough 

To go on when sweet episodes temporarily stop

Or when their spouse shows their imperfections they get shocked.

~•~

You married a human, not an android, you forgot? 

Like you, your husband gets tired oftentimes and fed up 

When overworked and overwhelmed, like metals can rust.

Like some maintain blades by sharpening them on and off, 

To stay married, persistence and patience are a must.

~•~

Don't let shaytan win each time he suggests, "Just give up. 

Your man doesn't love you. He's negligent and too rough." 

Seek refuge in Allah from shaytan's plots. Don't give up. 

True love for Allah's sake with time only develops 

You and your spouse as Muslims - it's not easily stopped.

~•~

Not condoning actual abuse nor guys who do drugs, 

I'm advising fellow wives to persevere, stay tough, 

And when the husband displays harshness or misconduct 

To patiently forgive him, mention him in Du'as, 

And to await Allah's rewards in Jannah above.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."

Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 4252

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhī 1159

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi

Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."

Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātih 5/2125

📖 Abdullah ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

💚 Note: Reminder to recite Surah Al-Kahf every Jumuah Friday and include the Muslim Ummah in your Du'as.

Poem: Sample Letter Or Message Which You May Give To Unattainable "Crushes"

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 A sample letter from a soul 'in love' to the one admired,

To soothe heartbroken souls, and so some lessons can be derived:

"Dear 'crush', the secret recipient of my heart's wrongful desires,

I would like to wholeheartedly explain and apologize

Why I exhibit rudeness when I can't look you in the eye.

~•~

Whether you've been told this before or not yet, I wish to say

That I find you appealing and special in all sorts of ways.

You give me the feelings of being delighted and amazed,

Nervous in your presence, down and nostalgic when you're away.

Although you look incredible, I choose to lower my gaze.

~•~

Thoughts of being your lover are among the battles I fight,

Wondering what you taste like, while resisting at the same time,

Has led me feeling ashamed of sensations I try to hide.

On some days I strive to fast, then resort to crying at night,

Begging Allah to forgive the emotions I keep inside.

~•~ 

I never chose to have these feelings nor like you in that way.

If I could do anything, I'd want to go numb any day,

Devoid of being magnetized by your captivating face,

Or return to the past like a time machine and click replay,

To avoid future heartbreaks, how we first met would be erased.

~•~

But I got no superpowers apart from faith and insight,

Guidance from Allah the Most Wise Who shows me what's wrong and right.

Since zina is a major sin, I want it out of my sight.

Thus I control my glances to remain chaste, with Allah's Light,

Praying that Allah protects you and me from evils and crimes.

~•~

I'm sorry I left your text on 'seen' mode and you had to wait.

I had to end our sinful chats and quit playing shaytan's games.

Every message you sent me and each moment I read your name

Made my body shake with arousal but with abundant shame,

So I've decided to walk away from you for Allah's sake.

~•~

Please don't assume I hate you; you're a sweetheart I really like.

Nonetheless my love for Allah outweighs this dunya's desires.

Though we're not close anymore, you're in my Du'as day and night.

Let's distance ourselves from each other till we reach Paradise,

Where we can meet Allah and receive whatever we desire."

~•~

📖 Abu Qatadah RadhiAllahu anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, you will never leave anything for the sake of Allah the Almighty but that Allah will replace it with something better."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 22565

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani