Poem: Three Reasons Why A Loyal And Confident Wife Doesn't Need To Spy On Her Husband's Cellphone

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Three reasons why it's wrong to spy on your man's cellphone, 

Why it's unwise to inspect what he specially owns 

Even if the password to his phone's screen lock is known, 

Or when you're found using his gadget he never scolds, 

It's still wiser to respect him wherever he goes: 

~•~

Firstly - Frequently searching through his phone clearly shows 

That you can't trust him, as though he's not a grown adult. 

Snooping around his inbox when he just came from work, 

While he's asleep, in the bathroom, working or outdoors, 

Makes him feel much smaller than your distrust and ego.

~•~

Second - Monitoring his phone usage, what he knows, 

Who he communicates with and the places he'd go, 

Can waste your time, more so if he keeps other cellphones. 

Acting like a surveillance cam or agent also 

Increases stress when pointless curiosity grows.

~•~

Third - No need to surveil one's spouse when Muslims should know 

That Allah sees all the things which occur in this world, 

There are recording angels watching how souls perform, 

On Judgment Day Allah's Perfect Justice shall be shown, 

And lack of trust between spouses can bring forth divorce.

~•~

Believe in Allah and be smart enough to take note 

That loyal, tough and patient wives are so few on earth. 

By insecurely keeping track of your husband's phone, 

You're sending him signal that he can't be left alone, 

As you won't trust him, until he leaves you on your own.

~•~

📖 Mu'awiyah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, if you seek out the faults of people, you will corrupt them or nearly corrupt them."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4888

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Barzah Al-Aslami RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "O you who declare faith with their tongues but faith (Imaan) has not entered their hearts! Do not backbite the Muslims nor seek their faults. Whoever seeks their faults (searches for their mistakes or flaws through mischievous ways like spying), Allah will seek his faults. And if Allah seeks his faults, He will expose him even in the privacy of his own house."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4880

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 

📖 Zayd Ibn Wahb RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: A man was brought to Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu, and it was said, “This man was found with wine dripping from his beard!” Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu said, “Verily, we have been prohibited from spying, but if he (himself) shows it to us publicly we will seize him.”

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4890

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/06/poem-tips-on-how-to-respect-your-husband.html 

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Poem: Some Negative Qualities Of Disloyal/Disrespectful Wives To Avoid

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Five signs to watch out for to spot a disloyal wife, 

To detect a woman who's easily prone to pride 

And who acts like she loves her husband when deep inside 

She married him just for the cash that he can provide, 

Or for his job title so by many she's admired: 

~•~

One - Online and offline she befriends non-mahram guys, 

Chatting with this guy and other men in her spare time 

About random issues without guilt, and in her eyes 

It's "fine" to be chill and casual with people she likes, 

As hanging with males since high school is her usual style.

~•~ 

Two - To take a sip from where her spouse drank she dislikes. 

If she knows the parts where he ate from or took some bites 

From edibles she'd nibble at a different side 

Or rewash the utensils he used several times. 

Treat him like a lover, not dirt you're disgusted by.

~•~

Three - Domineering and disrespectful of his rights, 

She bosses him around and yells at him oftentimes, 

Tries to control his whereabouts, goals, likes and dislikes, 

And she threatens him with divorce whenever they'd fight, 

Asserting she can marry another anytime.

~•~

Four - Insincere in her love, untrustworthy and sly, 

Manipulative and self-serving a lot of times, 

This actress easily switches from kind to unkind 

When her husband can't fulfill demands although he's tired 

And struggling. The term "uncaring" befits bad wives.

~•~

Five - Scornfully she insists that he'd prioritize 

Pleasing her more than his mom and Allah the Most Wise. 

She's the type to frequently criticize and backbite 

About her in-laws, adding stress to her husband's life, 

Through frequent nagging, scolding, complaints, and spiteful vibes.

~•~

From the traits common among loyal and patient wives: 

They fear Allah most, love one's spouse for Allah, and strive 

To be gentle, to be respectful, to sympathize, 

Help one's zawj in what's right, and if he's unsatisfied,

They're willing to bravely share him with another wife.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."

Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 4252

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/07/note-pious-wife-is-not-materialistic.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/08/poem-some-signs-that-good-wives-love.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/05/poem-be-your-husbands-grateful-wife.html

Poem: Different Faces Of Depression

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Depression isn't only shown in sleeping a lot, 

For constant worry at night can cause one to stay up. 

Sorrow can make one lethargic or insomniac, 

Squandering one's lifetime on pointless games, excess naps, 

Sins that spoil one's soul with guilt, like addiction to drugs. 

~•~

Depression can be obvious, or concealed behind masks 

Of seemingly happy people who frequently laugh, 

Post selfies, record viral videos, upload cool vlogs, 

Gain fans daily on YouTube, Instagram and TikTok, 

While deep inside they feel empty, confused, sad and lost.

~•~

As long as they don't believe in Allah, our True God, 

While much of their lives are spent on fleeting joys and fraud, 

And they're guilty of injustice, hurting this and that, 

Materialists lack actual peace despite what they've got, 

More so if they're misguided and far from Allah's Love.

~•~

It's fine to cry sometimes, specially when life gets rough, 

Until sadness leads you to think of suicidal thoughts, 

To doubt Allah's Wisdom and assume He is "unjust", 

And you find yourself agreeing with shaytan's waswaas. 

Defeat shaytan's plots with Qur'an, Adhkaar and Du'as.

~•~

Don't label yourself as "depressed" due to wrongful acts 

Done by jealous souls or those who were badly brought up. 

Bad news surrounding you should inspire you to stay tough, 

To trust Allah and strive to see Him someday above 

In Jannah where there's lasting peace and hearts can relax.

~•~

📖 Sa'd Ibn Abi Waqqas RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, which of the people are most severely tested?” The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "They are the prophets, then the next best (in terms of righteousness), then the next best. A man is put to trial according to his Deen/religion. If he is firm in his religion, his trials will be more severe. If he is weak in his religion, he is put to trial according to his strength in religion. The servant will continue to be put to trial until he is left walking upon the earth without any sin."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2398

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Nothing afflicts a Muslim of hardship, nor illness, nor anxiety, nor sorrow, nor harm, nor distress, nor even the pricking of a thorn, but that Allah will expiate his sins by it."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5318 

Sahih Muslim 2573

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

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Poem: Beware Of shaytan's Plot To Delude Some Souls To Trying Out Homosexuality

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Allah's archenemy, the devil, will try his best 

To delude humankind to fail all of Allah's tests, 

To distort, ruin and twist what Allah created, 

And make earth a playground of sins and chaotic mess, 

To collect more playmates in Hell where he's bound to rest.

~•~

If shaytan notices that you're passing every test, 

That you're praying on time, wearing hijaab with courage, 

And you ditch zina because you're waiting for marriage, 

This crafty nemesis may try to get you tempted 

To commit what the misguided people of Lut ('alaihis salaam) did.

~•~

shaytan may persistently suggest that you'd notice 

Another Muslimah's pleasant features, attractive 

Qualities, or vibes until you become addicted 

To admiring them in a way that's more than needed, 

And two hearts that get attached may want to share a kiss.

~•~

shaytan may entice you with thoughts like, "you both know it, 

You're attracted to each other, stop denying it. 

Invite her to a place that's quiet and secluded. 

It's fine, touching each other won't lead to having kids. 

People will never find out. Allah always forgives."

~•~

When shaytan tries to distract you from truth and logic,

While playing with your feelings is one of his sly tricks, 

Beg for Allah's Help, so shaytan gets disappointed. 

Pray, "Dear Allah, I'm weak, please keep my faith protected," 

And with Sabr and Taqwa, strive to pass Allah's tests.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah has pardoned my nation for what occurs within themselves (inappropriate thoughts, imaginations, or feelings), as long as they do not speak of it or act upon it."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6287 

Sahih Muslim 127

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Jabir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, what I fear most for my nation is the deed of the people of Lot / Prophet Lut 'alaihis salaam (i.e. homosexuality, zina between same genders)."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1374

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti

📖 Abu Sa'eed Al-Khudri RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man should not look at the nakedness (private parts) of another man, and a woman should not look at the nakedness (private parts) of another woman. A man should not lie with another man under a single blanket, and a woman should not lie with another woman under a single blanket."

Source: Sahih Muslim 338

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

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Poem: Journeying To Allah's Love

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Mercful

💌 This is my love story with Allah our Creator,

Ever since I was in the womb of my dear mother.

Allah is the Only One Whose Love I run after,

Always praying I meet Allah in Jannah up there.

~•~

My love for Allah is in looking forward to pray,

Leaving the comfort of sleep so I can supplicate,

Crying to Allah though I haven't seen yet His Face,

Finding peace with Allah every time I say His Names.

~•~

I cry in the morn when I miss our meetings at night,

Missing Qiyam Al-Layl which I pray once in a while.

There is relief knowing that Allah knows I was tired,

So I rise to pray Duha prayers after sunrise.

~•~

Allah's Love is shown when He grants trials that strengthen

And increase my Imaan so my soul isn't weakened.

Allah gifts me with difficulties that train patience

Which push me towards Allah's Love through supplications.

~•~

Allah's Love is also proven when He teaches me

About the Deen and how to accept His Destiny,

How to please Him through morals and sincere piety,

Preferring Jannah's bliss to what is temporary.

~•~

Being human often makes me slip yet I recall

My duty to Allah and how I'm accountable.

Thus with faith I rush to Allah the Most Merciful,

Begging Him to forgive me and enlighten my soul.

~•~

In this course of ups and downs, I long to reach the top,

Combating obstacles for Allah I can't give up.

So I go on serving till I see Allah above

In Jannah, for my Islam which I maintained with love.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Allah the Almighty said: 'Whoever shows hostility (enmity) to a righteous friend of Mine, I have declared war upon him. My servant does not grow closer to Me with anything more beloved to Me than the obligatory duties that I have imposed upon him. My servant continues to grow closer to Me with extra good works (nawaafil deeds like praying Tahajjud and fasting Sunnah fasts) until I love him. When I love him, I am his hearing with which he hears, his seeing with which he sees, his hand with which he strikes, and his foot with which he walks. Were he to ask something from Me, I would surely give it to him. Were he to ask Me for refuge, I would surely grant it to him. I do not hesitate to do anything as I hesitate to take the soul of the believer, for he hates death and I hate to disappoint him.'"

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6137

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-what-to-search-for-to-know-if.html