Note: Sharing Lessons Learned During This Blessed Month Ramadan 1446H

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

🗒️ Sharing some lessons learned from yesterday's Iftaar gathering (on the 11th day of Ramadan here in the Philippines):

1💎 Always purify your niyyah / intention for Allah's sake before doing good deeds whether they are waajib/fardh, Sunnah, mustahabb/recommended and halal/permissible, so 

Inn-sha-Allah if you were not able to achieve or complete certain tasks you intended to do, you still get rewarded for your sincere intention. Sister Jannah Umm Muhammad wanted us to have a small halaqa of exchanging some Islamic reminders and beneficial advice but QaddarAllahu wa maa shaa-a fa'al we couldn't have a proper group discussion because the other sisters, including the wife of the owner of Darussalam Islamic Bookstore here in Davao city and wife of one of the managers of Turkish Kebab Restaurant, arrived a few minutes before the Adhaan of Salat Al-Maghreb then many were busy having their Iftaar meals then prayed etc. 

SubhanAllah Al-'Atheem. It's scary how time nowadays goes by so quickly. Almost two weeks of this blessed month Ramadan have already passed by. Continue doing your best for Allah's sake in collecting as many rewards as you can through increasing acts of worship including reading more Ayaat verses from the Noble Qur'an, forwarding more Islamic reminders and praying more Sunnah prayers like Salat Ad-Duha in the forenoon and Qiyaam Al-Layl Tahajjud even if you've already prayed Taraweeh and Sunnah Salat Al-Witr.

2💎 There's always a right timing or ideal occasion when 

Allah the Almighty wants you to connect or meet up with some Muslims. Alhamdulillah after numerous days and months of trying to plan when we could have an outing together or gather with other sisters, I was able to "pasyal pasyal" a bit with one of the moms from Wisdom Islamic School and her daughters and meet up with sister Jannah Umm Muhammad after visiting her at her residence which was a long time ago in 2024 if I'm not mistaken. 

Maintaining stable friendships as adults can sometimes be challenging when you and those whom you care about for Allah's sake have different busy schedules, different levels of energy to socialize and loads of responsibilities. You need an enormous amount of Sabr/patience for Allah's sake and significant tolerance for various disappointments if you're serious about wanting to keep a connection much longer 

Inn-sha-Allah than just temporary.

3💎 Alhamdulillah while waiting for the mom of half-Egyptian daughters so they and my daughter could go together to Niza's BBQ Halal Restaurant I asked the female manager of this Bench store at Gaisano Mall if they allow Muslims to utilize their fitting rooms to pray. She asked about how many minutes it usually takes for a Muslim to pray and I told her "like around 5 or 7 minutes" and accordingly she's okay with Muslim customers making use of the space in fitting rooms to perform their prayers as long as they don't take too long. However, I remember there's a Hadith in which the noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam mentioned how the best of places are the Masaajid/Mosques while the worst of places are the markets or shops where dunya related matters are commonly sought after. So unless there is an actual Musalla or designated prayer room somewhere at a shopping mall, I believe it is much better for Muslim females to pray in their rooms, at home or in the nearest Masjid/Mosque where they can better concentrate, particularly far away from loud music being played in the background and the possibility of noticing a number of strangers video recording you while you're praying in a supposedly quiet corner.

4💎 While his mother was praying, Alhamdulillah I was able to babysit cute Hafidh for several minutes letting him use my cellphone which didn't have internet data and game applications installed for toddlers. I let him play with the tiny jumping dinosaur game that shows up on Chrome browser whenever there's no WiFi and he was actually fascinated by that simple game of pixels while I interviewed him with random questions to distract him from running around.

5💎 One of the most important qualities to have as a good Muslim friend is patience for Allah's sake if you wish for any worthwhile friendship (and marriage) to continue - patience accompanied by lots of understanding rather than assuming negative thoughts about your Muslim friends and loved ones. If we look back to some of the broken connections we had, for those of us who have some ex-friends, we realize that many of those detachments occurred because we weren't patient enough with those former friends and vice versa. 

You need to stay patient and empathic for Allah's sake when a friend tells you "I'm sorry; I can't join you today.", "I'm sorry but I have to leave early", "Sorry but there's only one pack remaining", "Sorry that I can't give you a ride this evening" and "I am sorry to ask but what is your child's name again?" etc. Excessive kibr/pride is a terrible quality that causes narcissists to feel so offended easily and unwilling to accept genuine apologies.

True friends oftentimes argue or miscommunicate yet they're always forgiving of each other for Allah's sake, while those who very quickly walk away from your circle were probably incompatible, inauthentic or toxic in the first place. 

You're welcome to purchase some halal products from Jannah's Kitchen including packs of frozen sambusa with chicken filling (sometimes chicken, sometimes ground beef if I'm not mistaken) for 230 pesos (15 pieces of frozen sambusas ready for frying) and packs of frozen lumpia (spring rolls with vegetables) that cost 150 with 20 pieces in each packet. Feel free to contact sister Jannah Umm Muhammad for further information 🌼

https://www.facebook.com/jannahkitchendavao

Random Note: Some Notes On Who To Invite And Who Not To Invite

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Each MBTI type would have different selection criteria based on their cognitive functions and social preferences. Here’s how each type might decide who to invite and who to leave out, in three ways:

Analysts (NTs)

INTJ

Selective Relevance – Invites people they see as intellectually or strategically valuable.

Minimal Drama – Avoids those who are emotionally draining or socially unpredictable.

Efficiency in Socializing – Prefers a small, meaningful group over a large, chaotic crowd.

ENTJ

Power Network – Invites people who can offer strategic or professional connections.

Energetic Engagement – Avoids passive or socially dull individuals.

Leadership Potential – Prefers ambitious, competent, and productive guests.

INTP

Stimulating Minds – Invites people who enjoy deep discussions and intellectual debates.

Avoids Small Talkers – Excludes those who rely on superficial conversation.

Experimental Vibe – Prefers quirky or unconventional thinkers over mainstream personalities.

ENTP

Chaos-Friendly – Invites fun, unpredictable, and lively individuals.

Avoids Boredom – Leaves out anyone who kills the energy or resists debate.

Opportunity-Based – Prefers people with interesting projects, ideas, or connections.

Diplomats (NFs)

INFJ

Depth Over Quantity – Invites those with whom they share deep emotional or intellectual connections.

Avoids Superficiality – Excludes those who lack authenticity or meaningful engagement.

Protects Energy – Prefers a small, emotionally safe group over an overwhelming crowd.

ENFJ

Community-Oriented – Invites people who foster harmony and positive group dynamics.

Avoids Disruptors – Excludes those who create tension or social awkwardness.

Uplifts the Group – Prefers guests who inspire or emotionally support others.

INFP

Values Match – Invites those who align with their deeply held beliefs and ideals.

Avoids Fake People – Leaves out those who seem insincere or judgmental.

Emotional Comfort – Prefers people who provide a sense of emotional safety.

ENFP

Exciting Energy – Invites spontaneous, fun, and open-minded individuals.

Avoids Control Freaks – Keeps out those who stifle creativity or impose rigid rules.

Potential for Adventure – Prefers guests who bring new ideas, experiences, or perspectives.

Sentinels (SJs)

ISTJ

Proven Reliability – Invites those they trust and who have shown loyalty.

Avoids Unpredictability – Excludes flaky or irresponsible individuals.

Structured Guest List – Prefers a well-organized, appropriate mix of people.

ESTJ

Strong Social Standing – Invites people with good reputations and competence.

Avoids Slackers – Excludes those who are lazy, unserious, or overly emotional.

Practicality First – Prefers guests who contribute something meaningful.

ISFJ

Long-Term Bonds – Invites people they have cared for or who have supported them.

Avoids Conflict – Keeps out people who might create tension or drama.

Familiarity Over Novelty – Prefers a warm, familiar crowd over new acquaintances.

ESFJ

Balanced Social Mix – Invites a range of people to ensure everyone feels included.

Avoids Social Misfits – Excludes those who might struggle to fit in.

People Who Need It – Prefers to invite those who might feel left out otherwise.

Explorers (SPs)

ISTP

No-Nonsense Vibes – Invites people they genuinely like and can be themselves around.

Avoids Neediness – Excludes overly emotional or dependent individuals.

Keeps it Open – Prefers a flexible, low-maintenance crowd with no pressure.

ESTP

Maximum Fun Factor – Invites people who bring energy and excitement.

Avoids Killjoys – Keeps out overly sensitive or rigid individuals.

Opportunities First – Prefers guests who bring status, connections, or significant value.

ISFP

Authenticity First – Invites those who share their artistic, creative, or deep values.

Avoids Insensitivity – Excludes those who dismiss emotions or personal expression.

Vibe Over Logic – Prefers an aesthetically and emotionally pleasing crowd.

ESFP

"Life of the Party" – Invites those who make things fun and lively.

Avoids Buzzkills – Keeps out judgmental or overly serious people.

Spontaneous Pick – Prefers an unpredictable but exciting mix of guests.

⤴️ ChatGPT

Each MBTI type has distinct preferences and dislikes when it comes to social gatherings. Here are 3 to 5 types of people that each MBTI would refuse to invite and why:

Analysts (NTs)

INTJ
❌ Attention Seekers – Drains energy and disrupts meaningful discussions.
❌ Emotionally Needy People – Creates unnecessary drama.
❌ Shallow Small Talkers – Wastes time with surface-level conversation.
❌ People Who Don’t Respect Boundaries – INTJs dislike forced socializing.
❌ Unreliable Guests – Late arrivals, cancelers, or those who overpromise.

ENTJ
❌ Passive-Aggressive People – Finds them inefficient and manipulative.
❌ Unambitious Slackers – No patience for people with no drive.
❌ People Who Fear Debate – A good conversation must be stimulating.
❌ Those Who Challenge Their Authority Without Merit – They respect competence, not defiance for defiance’s sake.
❌ Negative Thinkers – Hates defeatist attitudes.

INTP
❌ Rigid Rule Followers – Kills the free flow of ideas.
❌ People Who Demand Emotional Energy – INTPs prefer intellectual engagement over emotional labor.
❌ Fake or Pretentious People – Can’t stand superficiality.
❌ People Who Don’t Appreciate Their Theories – If you roll your eyes at their thoughts, you’re out.
❌ Judgmental Traditionalists – Clashes with their unconventional thinking.

ENTP
❌ Easily Offended People – Can’t handle their love for debate.
❌ Killjoys – Drains the fun out of spontaneous interactions.
❌ Overly Serious or Stiff People – ENTPs enjoy a relaxed, chaotic atmosphere.
❌ People Who Can’t Handle Roasting – ENTPs test relationships through playful teasing.
❌ People Who Fear Change – They get bored with rigid thinkers.

Diplomats (NFs)

INFJ
❌ Self-Absorbed People – Can’t stand those who don’t listen.
❌ Overly Aggressive or Confrontational Types – Prefers harmony over drama.
❌ Manipulative or Fake Individuals – Can detect inauthenticity from a mile away.
❌ Gossipers – Doesn’t want their private matters discussed elsewhere.
❌ Energy Drainers – Avoids "emotional vampires".

ENFJ
❌ Cold or Distant People – Needs emotional connection.
❌ People Who Refuse to Get Along – ENFJs value group harmony.
❌ Lazy or Indifferent People – Gets frustrated by a lack of passion.
❌ Rude or Disrespectful Guests – Cannot tolerate a lack of social grace.
❌ Chronic Complainers – Doesn’t want negativity at their event.

INFP
❌ Insensitive or Harsh People – Struggles with bluntness.
❌ Materialistic, Superficial Individuals – Values depth over appearances.
❌ People Who Mock Their Beliefs – INFPs take their values seriously.
❌ Overly Competitive or Status-Obsessed Guests – Feels drained by power-hungry types.
❌ People Who Don’t Appreciate Art or Creativity – Wouldn’t connect with them.

ENFP
❌ Controlling or Strict Rule Followers – Needs freedom.
❌ People Who Reject New Ideas – Hates close-mindedness.
❌ Serious, Uptight Individuals – Kills their fun energy.
❌ People Who Expect Predictability – ENFPs thrive on spontaneity.
❌ Debbie Downers – Won’t tolerate constant negativity.

Sentinels (SJs)

ISTJ
❌ Unreliable People – Hates no-shows and flaky guests.
❌ Loud, Attention-Seeking Individuals – Prefers calm and order.
❌ Disrespectful Guests – Does not tolerate bad manners.
❌ Lazy or Irresponsible People – ISTJs admire discipline.
❌ Rule-Breakers – They like things done properly.

ESTJ
❌ Overly Emotional or Sensitive People – Prefers logic over feelings.
❌ Indecisive or Passive Individuals – Hates inaction.
❌ People Who Can’t Take Constructive Criticism – ESTJs are blunt and direct.
❌ Lazy, Unmotivated Guests – Prefers hardworking, ambitious company.
❌ Messy, Disorganized People – Will find them frustrating.

ISFJ
❌ Rude or Disrespectful People – ISFJs value politeness.
❌ Loud, Overbearing Individuals – Prefers a peaceful environment.
❌ People Who Create Drama – Hates tension and conflict.
❌ Flaky Guests – Dislikes last-minute cancellations.
❌ People Who Ignore Social Norms – Favors tradition and etiquette.

ESFJ
❌ People Who Don’t Socialize Well – Doesn’t want anyone feeling left out.
❌ Those Who Are Too Self-Centered – Prefers guests who think about others.
❌ Harsh, Critical Individuals – Doesn’t want negativity in their space.
❌ Uncooperative Guests – Prefers team players.
❌ Unkind or Dismissive People – Wants warmth and connection.

Explorers (SPs)

ISTP
❌ Clingy, Overly Emotional People – Hates neediness.
❌ Rule-Enforcers – Prefers to do things their own way.
❌ Gossipers or Drama-Starters – Has zero patience for unnecessary talk.
❌ People Who Can’t Handle Sarcasm – ISTPs joke in a deadpan way.
❌ People Who Expect Too Much Planning – Prefers last-minute spontaneity.

ESTP
❌ Boring, Uptight Individuals – ESTPs need excitement.
❌ Overly Sensitive People – Will find them usually exhausting.
❌ Rule-Lovers – Prefers a relaxed, spontaneous atmosphere.
❌ People Who Need Too Much Emotional Support – Doesn’t want to play therapist.
❌ Fun Killers – Anyone who prevents a good time.

ISFP
❌ Judgmental or Controlling People – Needs personal freedom.
❌ Competitive, Aggressive Individuals – Prefers harmony.
❌ Fake, Pretentious Guests – Dislikes inauthenticity.
❌ People Who Disrespect Creativity – Art and self-expression matter to them.
❌ Energy Drainers – Prefers chill, laid-back company.

ESFP
❌ Overly Serious or Negative People – Will ruin the fun.
❌ People Who Can’t Handle Partying – Wants guests who enjoy spontaneity.
❌ Strict, Rule-Following Individuals – Prefers freedom.
❌ Overly Reserved or Awkward Guests – Wants high-energy socializers.
❌ People Who Judge Their Lifestyle – ESFPs dislike being restricted.

If you're given permission to invite anyone to someone else's event, you should approach it ethically and respectfully. Here are some dos and don’ts to ensure that your invitations align with social etiquette and the host's expectations.

✅ DOs (Best Practices for Ethical Inviting)

Ask the Host for Clarifications

Before inviting anyone, confirm with the host if there are any limits (e.g., number of guests, preferred crowd).

Check if there are specific preferences (e.g., close friends only, family-friendly).

Consider the Host’s Comfort

Invite people who will enhance the gathering rather than cause discomfort or awkwardness.

Avoid bringing someone the host dislikes or has had issues with.

Stay Within the Event’s Purpose & Vibe

If it’s a casual get-together, invite people who match that tone.

If it’s an intimate gathering, don’t turn it into an open party.

Inform Your Invitees Properly

Let them know it’s not your event and that they are guests of a guest.

Share any relevant details (dress code, expectations, contributions, etc.).

Be Mindful of Space & Resources

Consider the venue’s capacity—don’t invite too many people.

If food and drinks are provided, don’t bring extra guests who will overconsume without contributing.

Check if RSVP is Needed

If the event has limited space or seating, confirm with the host before finalizing invitations.

Take Responsibility for Your Guests

Ensure that the people you invite behave appropriately and don’t cause issues.

If someone you invited misbehaves, be ready to step in and handle the situation.

❌ DON’Ts (Mistakes to Avoid)

Don’t Assume Unlimited Invitations

Just because you’re allowed to invite others doesn’t mean you should invite a whole crowd.

Don’t Invite Someone the Host Wouldn’t Want

Avoid people who have had past conflicts with the host.

If unsure, ask before inviting.

Don’t Change the Event’s Dynamic

If it’s a professional or intimate setting, don’t invite someone who might be loud, disruptive, or out of place.

Don’t Make It About You

Don’t use the opportunity to invite only your friends and make it feel like your personal gathering.

Don’t Bring Plus-Ones Without Warning

Avoid last-minute “Oh, by the way, I brought a friend.” Always confirm extra guests beforehand.

Don’t Invite People Who Might Cause Drama

If you know someone tends to argue, get jealous, or dominate conversations, think twice before inviting them.

Don’t Ignore the Host’s Instructions

If they say “only close friends,” don’t bring acquaintances.

If it’s a quiet dinner, don’t bring someone with the potential to cause unnecessary noise and drama.

Don’t Pressure People to Accept Your Invitation

Let them decide whether they want to attend.

Bottom Line

✔ Always prioritize the host’s comfort, event purpose, and guest experience.
✔ If in doubt, ask before inviting.
✔ Be mindful of space, resources, and social harmony.

⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

❓ Question: As an INTJ-A one of the qualities of people I wouldn't invite are those who are inconsistent with their replies to many of my messages, as though they answer only if doing so is of benefit to them and they won't respond depending on their fluctuating moods. What does that say about me?
💻 ChatGPT: That says a lot about your values in relationships and communication. As an INTJ-A, you likely prioritize consistency, reliability, and mutual respect in interactions. Here’s what this preference reveals about you:

You Value Reciprocity & Intentionality

You’re not interested in one-sided interactions where people only engage when it serves them.

You expect genuine effort in communication, not just convenience-based responses.

You Dislike Emotional Volatility & Unreliability

People who respond based on fluctuating moods appear unstable and unpredictable, which likely frustrates your need for structured interactions.

You prefer people who are consistent and rational, rather than emotionally reactive.

You Have Strong Boundaries

You don’t entertain relationships where you feel like an option rather than a priority.

If someone’s inconsistent behavior signals lack of respect or reliability, you remove them from your circle unapologetically.

You Prefer Efficiency & Clarity

Unclear communication patterns waste your time and mental energy.

You prefer people who state their intentions clearly rather than leaving you to guess whether they’ll engage or not.

You See Through Manipulative or Opportunistic Behavior

If someone only replies when they benefit, it signals self-serving tendencies, which you quickly detect and reject.

You don’t tolerate people who exploit connections rather than genuinely nurture them.

Bottom Line

You expect rational, reliable, and intentional communication, and you don’t entertain people who play mind games, act inconsistently, or fail to respect mutual effort.

⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

Note: Some Reminders From An INTJ Muslimah (79)

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Note: Self-Respect VS Embarrassing Oneself

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If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid chasing after people who clearly do not value you because people who do that often end up feeling used and unappreciated.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid oversharing personal struggles with strangers or on social media because people who do that often invite unnecessary judgment and gossip.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid begging for attention from others because people who do that usually end up being pitied rather than admired.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid constantly apologizing for things you didn’t do wrong because people who do that train others to take advantage of their guilt.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid dressing in a way that contradicts your values just to impress others because people who do that often feel uncomfortable and regretful afterward.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid gossiping about others to fit in because people who do that become untrustworthy and eventually find themselves gossiped about too.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid tolerating mistreatment from friends or family out of fear of being alone because people who do that end up drained and undervalued.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid forcing friendships with people who clearly don’t reciprocate your efforts because people who do that waste their energy on one-sided relationships.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid posting desperate or attention-seeking content online because people who do that often lose credibility and self-worth in the process.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid speaking too loudly or inappropriately in public just to be noticed because people who do that usually embarrass themselves more than impress anyone.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid making a scene in public over minor inconveniences because people who do that appear emotionally unstable and difficult to be around.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid blindly following trends that contradict your principles because people who do that eventually lose their identity and integrity.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid interrupting or talking over others to seem important because people who do that end up looking rude and insecure.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid overspending on luxury items just to impress others because people who do that often struggle financially while trying to maintain a false image.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid tolerating a relationship where you are consistently disrespected because people who do that slowly lose their confidence and happiness.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid changing your personality just to be liked because people who do that attract shallow relationships based on pretense.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid allowing others to humiliate you without standing up for yourself because people who do that are often seen as weak and easy to manipulate.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid clinging to past friendships that have become toxic because people who do that keep themselves stuck in unhealthy cycles.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid acting irrationally or inappropriately just for attention because people who do that end up being seen as desperate rather than likable.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid reacting impulsively to every negative comment or slight because people who do that allow others to control their emotions.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid constantly comparing yourself to others because people who do that never find peace or satisfaction in their own journey.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid forcing your way into social circles that clearly don’t welcome you because people who do that end up looking needy and out of place.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid staying silent when someone disrespects you because people who do that teach others that they can continue treating them poorly.
⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT
💻 ChatGPT: You know that someone truly respects themselves if they walk away from relationships that consistently drain or disrespect them.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they set boundaries and enforce them without feeling guilty.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they speak with confidence without needing to prove themselves to others.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they don’t tolerate being belittled or humiliated, no matter who it comes from.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they prioritize personal growth over seeking external validation.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they stay true to their principles, even when faced with social pressure.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they take care of their appearance and hygiene without relying on others’ approval.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they know when to be silent and when to speak up for themselves.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they don’t waste time begging for attention from people who ignore them.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they take responsibility for their mistakes instead of making excuses.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they don’t overshare personal struggles with just anyone.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they don’t change their personality just to fit in.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they can handle criticism without feeling personally attacked.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they walk with confidence and maintain good posture in public.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they choose to stay silent instead of engaging in petty arguments.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they don’t lower their standards just to be in a connection or toxic friendship.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they choose quality over quantity when it comes to establishing and maintaining friendships.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they maintain emotional control instead of reacting impulsively.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they invest their time in meaningful goals instead of mindless distractions.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they refuse to let others guilt-trip them into doing things they don’t want to do.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they dress appropriately for different occasions while still staying true to their style.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they don’t seek validation through excessive social media posting.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they focus on improving their skills rather than just showing off.

💻 ChatGPT: You're not respecting yourself if you keep chasing people who don’t value you. Instead, do more self-improvement and surround yourself with those who appreciate you.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep tolerating disrespect just to avoid confrontation. Instead, do more setting firm boundaries and enforcing them.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep apologizing for things that aren’t your fault. Instead, do more standing up for yourself with confidence.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep oversharing personal problems with people who don’t care. Instead, do more confiding in trusted individuals who genuinely support you.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep comparing yourself to others. Instead, do more focusing on your own progress and personal growth.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep accepting one-sided friendships. Instead, do more surrounding yourself with people who sincerely reciprocate your kindness and effort.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep pretending to be someone you're not to fit in. Instead, do more embracing your true self and connecting with those who value integrity and authenticity.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep overextending yourself for people who wouldn’t do the same for you. Instead, do more prioritizing your own well-being.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep making decisions just to please others. Instead, do more choosing what aligns with your values and happiness.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep engaging in gossip to feel included. Instead, do more meaningful conversations that add value to your life.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep seeking validation through social media likes and comments. Instead, do more finding fulfillment in real-life achievements and connections.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep letting people use you for their benefit. Instead, do more recognizing your worth and walking away from manipulative relationships.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep dressing in a way that contradicts your values just for approval. Instead, do more expressing yourself in a way that aligns with your beliefs.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep accepting toxic behavior in relationships. Instead, do more prioritizing self-worth and demanding mutual respect.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep holding onto grudges that drain your energy. Instead, do more letting go and focusing on your peace.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep sacrificing your goals to satisfy others. Instead, do more pursuing your dreams with determination.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep overreacting emotionally to minor issues. Instead, do more practicing patience and self-control.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep lowering your standards for temporary companionship. Instead, do more waiting for relationships that truly value and uplift you.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep allowing fear of rejection to hold you back. Instead, do more taking risks and believing in your abilities.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep making yourself small to make others comfortable. Instead, do more embracing your intelligence and confidence unapologetically.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep seeking closure from people who hurt you. Instead, do more creating your own closure and moving forward for Allah's sake.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep dwelling on past mistakes. Instead, do more learning from them and growing into a better version of yourself.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep wasting time on petty or unimportant things that don’t align with your values. Instead, do more investing in activities that truly enrich your life (in both worlds).
⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

Note: Being Famous Online Or Having Lots Of Supporters Does Not Always Mean Allah Loves Them

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

The message "Being "famous vloggers" & "influencers" w/ many fans isn't proof that Allah loves them. shaytan is popular & worse of all servants." emphasizes that having fame, followers, and influence is not necessarily a sign of Allah’s love or favor. It warns against equating worldly popularity with divine approval, as even the worst of beings—shaytan (satan)—has significant influence and countless followers. Popularity does not guarantee righteousness or nearness to Allah the Almighty.

Core Meanings in 33 Sentences:

Many people assume that having a large audience means someone is blessed or favored by Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

However, fame and influence can be a test rather than a reward.

shaytan is widely known and has led billions of people astray.

Despite his popularity, he is the worst of all created beings and the most despised servant of Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

Likewise, many influencers and vloggers may be admired by millions but engage in sinful or harmful behavior.

A large following does not reflect moral superiority or divine favor.

Some influencers spread materialism, vanity, and immoral values.

Having a lot of wealth, fans, or status does not mean someone is truly successful in the sight of Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

Real success is attaining Allah’s pleasure, not human admiration.

A person with no or few followers but sincere worship is better than an influencer leading others astray.

The world often values entertainment over righteousness.

Many people follow influencers who promote haram activities.

shaytan misleads countless individuals and his fate is Hell jahannam.

Likewise, influencers who mislead others may be accountable on the Day of Judgment.

True guidance comes from Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, not from social media trends.

Some famous individuals may use their platform for good.

Others may use it for deception, pride, or corruption.

Having many fans can feed arrogance and distance one from humility.

Popularity can sometimes be a tool of fitnah (trial).

People who seek fame for worldly gain may lose in the Hereafter.

Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala tests His servants with wealth, beauty, and status.

Just because something is popular does not mean it is right or worth following and admiring.

The majority can be misguided.

In the Noble Qur'an there are some warnings against blindly following the crowd.

The noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam was not the most followed person in his time, yet he was the most beloved to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

Those who call to good may have fewer followers than those who promote falsehood.

Influencers should be mindful of the responsibility that comes with their reach.

They will be questioned about how they used their influence.

Even religious influencers should guard their intentions.

Seeking Allah’s pleasure should be the priority, not seeking validation from people.

Followers can be a blessing or a curse depending on how they are influenced.

True honor comes from Allah the Most Wise, not from social media metrics.

One’s status in the Hereafter matters far more than their status online.

7 Examples for Clarification:

A vlogger posts extravagant lifestyle content, promoting materialism and greed—millions admire them, but this does not mean Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala loves them.

A famous influencer encourages sinful behavior like immodesty and haram relationships—many follow them, yet they are spreading what displeases Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

A social media star mocks religious people and gains millions of supporters—despite their popularity, their actions distance them from Allah’s Mercy.

A wealthy YouTuber flaunts luxury cars and encourages envy—having riches and lots of followers or subscribers does not mean they are loved by Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

A celebrity influencer promotes arrogance and self-obsession—despite their fans, they may be failing in their spiritual journey.

A lesser-known scholar teaches Islam sincerely—though they have fewer followers, their sincerity makes them more beloved to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

The noble Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam sometimes faced opposition yet he was and is the most beloved servant of Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

In summary, fame is not proof of righteousness, and true success is measured by Allah’s standards, not by human admiration.
⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

⚠️ Never solely rely on AI (artificial intelligence) regarding fatawa or religious verdicts.