بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
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Islamic reminders, Hadith, notes, poems, poetry, lessons, reflections etc.
بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين
May Allah the Almighty grant us more beneficial knowledge, accept our good deeds, forgive our mistakes, protect us from fitna, and join us with the righteous believers in Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen.
Saturday, August 9, 2025
Friday, August 8, 2025
Note: Wisdom Islamic School Reminder Salafi Intro PDF Document Free To Download And Share For Allah's Sake As Sadaqah
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
🎁 A Gift for You
Alḥamdulillāh, I am pleased to share with you this humble research in Arabic [English translation coming soon, in shā Allāh] with the title:
“The Salafi Methodology Made Certain: A Guide for Every Muslim Layperson”
Prepared as part of the requirements for the Markaz Ibn al-Qayyim Academy
Program, under the supervision of Sheikh Dr. Khālid bin Ḍaḥwī al-Dhafīrī – may Allāh preserve
him. Ameen.
I present it hoping for acceptance from Allāh and praying that it becomes a means to guide
the common Muslim to the blessed Salafī Manhaj, in a clear and authentic manner.
The research was sent to Sheikh Dr. ‘Arafāt al-Muḥammadī and Sheikh Sālim Bāmiḥriz – may
Allāh preserve them both – and I have benefitted from their valuable advice and direction. Ameen.
May Allāh make it beneficial for its writer and reader, and make it sincerely for His Noble Face. Ameen.
Your brother in Islām,
Ahmad Mababaya
✨ From the methods of payment to pay for the students' tuition fees, to settle debts, to purchase school badges/logos or to contribute some amount as Sadaqah for Allah's sake - also Sadaqah charity on behalf of deceased Muslims to assist with renovating the school's facilities (to repair damages on ceilings, buy new light bulbs, wall paint, additional cabinets, fix roofs and add chairs, shoe racks etc.) any amount such as 300 pesos or 500 pesos you regularly contribute for Allah's sake will
Inn-sha-Allah be multiplied and recorded in your scale of good deeds:
✅ Maya Wallet
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AbdurRahman Mababaya
Sunday, August 3, 2025
Travel Entry: More Lessons Learned To Share From Our Recent Travel To Manila Philippines
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
📑 Sharing 9 lessons learned from our recent travel to Manila from Davao city which others may not be aware of yet:-
🔹 You can Inn-sha-Allah save much more money by booking and purchasing your own flight tickets online from the official websites and applications of certain airlines like Cebu Pacific and Philippine Airlines. Instead of paying additional 1000 pesos or something by consulting a travel agent on social media or going to a ticketing agency, you can quickly sign up for a membership with PAL or Cebu Pacific etc. and browse around their database for more affordable flights by purchasing flight tickets in advance. The approximate price of some tickets via an airline's website can range from 399 pesos for a one-way ticket to 495 pesos depending on the dates of bookings while the price of so-called "promo" or "discounted" tickets from some travel agents would probably be around 600 pesos or so. There may also be a possibility that a number of agents aren't always one hundred percent truthful if you request them to search for the cheapest flights because a lot of them want to earn some profit from your purchases. The more expensive your tickets are with the added taxes the more they possibly gain from the ticketing transaction if I'm not mistaken.
🔹 Another benefit of buying tickets directly from an airline's website is that if ever there's a flight cancellation due to stormy weather or unfavorable circumstances then
Inn-sha-Allah the airline can return the money you spent on booking directly to your account if you ask for a refund. On the other hand, if you book with a travel agency and there's a flight cancellation, it can take a much longer duration to receive the refund and they may not even give you back your entire money because they still need to retain some amount or even demand an extra payment for further transactions if I'm not mistaken.
🔹 If you're planning on staying in a city for three days or more, it is much better to stay two nights at the same hotel rather than booking for one night at three different hotels particularly if those hotels are so far away from each other and commuting between one hotel and another can take loads of time due to heavy traffic in Manila. And if your flight back to where you came from is on the evening of the third day, if you're staying 3 days in a city, then you don't need to stay at a hotel on the 3rd night because most of the time you're exploring outdoors or spending more time in the airport waiting for your flight while doing some productive tasks like saying Du'a and some Adhkaar, reading or chatting with somebody of the same gender about Islam etc.
🔹 From what I observed, the flight attendants of Cebu Pacific airlines we flew with didn't even check nor measure the sizes of our carry-on luggage despite me frequently packing and unpacking to ensure that my bags didn't weigh more than 7 kilograms. While it's important to comply with an aircraft's rules and regulations to ensure everybody's safety
Inn-sha-Allah there are times when many crew members or officials are more lenient and easy-going than you assume. Nonetheless it is absolutely forbidden to carry scissors to an aircraft no matter how small the scissors are. If you need to do some kind of school project or craft, you can borrow some scissors from a friend whose place you're staying at if they have some scissors or you can purchase some scissors then give them as a gift before flying back to where you came from since scissors are definitely not allowed on board.
🔹 Commuting with certain buses and LRT and MRT trains in Manila is way more efficient
Inn-sha-Allah if you have a beep card with load to avoid waiting for several minutes queuing in very long queues.
🔹 7 things to carry with you as they can
Inn-sha-Allah be useful if you're traveling around Manila besides some cash and your IDs:- heavy-duty wind-proof umbrella, power bank for charging, small prayer mat or long shawl, plastic cups or disposable container or bowl which you can fit in your bag for washing in case some comfort rooms lack bidet, wet wipes for cleansing, extra plastic bags or sando bags in case of feeling nauseous, notebook with pens for taking notes when necessary.
🔹 The more you ask questions, the more you learn and discover. Understand that not all security guards are familiar with their surroundings and location of various places. Some security guards may be newly hired or still unfamiliar with other routes. Maintain good manners and patience for Allah's sake when some individuals appear dismissive due to negative moods, or clueless, or can't give you the right directions.
🔹 Alhamdulillah I've learned that it is better to let two acquaintances, who stayed in Manila much longer than you, join you in your outing so instead of overspending on rides with Grab Cars to go from one area to another you could
Inn-sha-Allah spend less by commuting more efficiently if those acquaintances know exactly which bus or train station to go to etc. Plus you can enjoy more longer conversations face to face while queuing in case of lengthy queues.
🔹 For me booking directly from a hotel's official website or official Facebook page is much more advisable
Inn-sha-Allah than printing documents after booking on Agoda, Trip and Klook etc. to avoid issues as much as possible.
May Allah the Almighty forgive all our mistakes, increase us in wisdom and grant us only what is best for us in both worlds and protect us and our Muslim loved ones always. Ameen.
https://abukhadeejah.com/what-is-a-journey-when-is-one-considered-a-traveller-shortening-and-combining-prayers-during-a-journey-the-views-of-the-scholars/
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=g_fyxDeh9WI
https://www.troid.org/can-the-traveller-shorten-the-prayer-however-long-his-travel-may-be/
🔹 You can Inn-sha-Allah save much more money by booking and purchasing your own flight tickets online from the official websites and applications of certain airlines like Cebu Pacific and Philippine Airlines. Instead of paying additional 1000 pesos or something by consulting a travel agent on social media or going to a ticketing agency, you can quickly sign up for a membership with PAL or Cebu Pacific etc. and browse around their database for more affordable flights by purchasing flight tickets in advance. The approximate price of some tickets via an airline's website can range from 399 pesos for a one-way ticket to 495 pesos depending on the dates of bookings while the price of so-called "promo" or "discounted" tickets from some travel agents would probably be around 600 pesos or so. There may also be a possibility that a number of agents aren't always one hundred percent truthful if you request them to search for the cheapest flights because a lot of them want to earn some profit from your purchases. The more expensive your tickets are with the added taxes the more they possibly gain from the ticketing transaction if I'm not mistaken.
🔹 Another benefit of buying tickets directly from an airline's website is that if ever there's a flight cancellation due to stormy weather or unfavorable circumstances then
Inn-sha-Allah the airline can return the money you spent on booking directly to your account if you ask for a refund. On the other hand, if you book with a travel agency and there's a flight cancellation, it can take a much longer duration to receive the refund and they may not even give you back your entire money because they still need to retain some amount or even demand an extra payment for further transactions if I'm not mistaken.
🔹 If you're planning on staying in a city for three days or more, it is much better to stay two nights at the same hotel rather than booking for one night at three different hotels particularly if those hotels are so far away from each other and commuting between one hotel and another can take loads of time due to heavy traffic in Manila. And if your flight back to where you came from is on the evening of the third day, if you're staying 3 days in a city, then you don't need to stay at a hotel on the 3rd night because most of the time you're exploring outdoors or spending more time in the airport waiting for your flight while doing some productive tasks like saying Du'a and some Adhkaar, reading or chatting with somebody of the same gender about Islam etc.
🔹 From what I observed, the flight attendants of Cebu Pacific airlines we flew with didn't even check nor measure the sizes of our carry-on luggage despite me frequently packing and unpacking to ensure that my bags didn't weigh more than 7 kilograms. While it's important to comply with an aircraft's rules and regulations to ensure everybody's safety
Inn-sha-Allah there are times when many crew members or officials are more lenient and easy-going than you assume. Nonetheless it is absolutely forbidden to carry scissors to an aircraft no matter how small the scissors are. If you need to do some kind of school project or craft, you can borrow some scissors from a friend whose place you're staying at if they have some scissors or you can purchase some scissors then give them as a gift before flying back to where you came from since scissors are definitely not allowed on board.
🔹 Commuting with certain buses and LRT and MRT trains in Manila is way more efficient
Inn-sha-Allah if you have a beep card with load to avoid waiting for several minutes queuing in very long queues.
🔹 7 things to carry with you as they can
Inn-sha-Allah be useful if you're traveling around Manila besides some cash and your IDs:- heavy-duty wind-proof umbrella, power bank for charging, small prayer mat or long shawl, plastic cups or disposable container or bowl which you can fit in your bag for washing in case some comfort rooms lack bidet, wet wipes for cleansing, extra plastic bags or sando bags in case of feeling nauseous, notebook with pens for taking notes when necessary.
🔹 The more you ask questions, the more you learn and discover. Understand that not all security guards are familiar with their surroundings and location of various places. Some security guards may be newly hired or still unfamiliar with other routes. Maintain good manners and patience for Allah's sake when some individuals appear dismissive due to negative moods, or clueless, or can't give you the right directions.
🔹 Alhamdulillah I've learned that it is better to let two acquaintances, who stayed in Manila much longer than you, join you in your outing so instead of overspending on rides with Grab Cars to go from one area to another you could
Inn-sha-Allah spend less by commuting more efficiently if those acquaintances know exactly which bus or train station to go to etc. Plus you can enjoy more longer conversations face to face while queuing in case of lengthy queues.
🔹 For me booking directly from a hotel's official website or official Facebook page is much more advisable
Inn-sha-Allah than printing documents after booking on Agoda, Trip and Klook etc. to avoid issues as much as possible.
May Allah the Almighty forgive all our mistakes, increase us in wisdom and grant us only what is best for us in both worlds and protect us and our Muslim loved ones always. Ameen.
https://abukhadeejah.com/what-is-a-journey-when-is-one-considered-a-traveller-shortening-and-combining-prayers-during-a-journey-the-views-of-the-scholars/
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=g_fyxDeh9WI
https://www.troid.org/can-the-traveller-shorten-the-prayer-however-long-his-travel-may-be/
Note: Alhamdulillah it's not our first time traveling to Manila as we've traveled to other countries before Alhamdulillah passing by Manila and stopping at Manila etc.
Wednesday, July 30, 2025
Note: Quick Reminder To Parents, Moms And Dads About Who Their Daughter Should Marry
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
Better to let your daughter marry a righteous Muslim, regardless of his tribe or nationality, who continues learning about Islam and doing Da'wah for Allah's sake sincerely even if the guy isn't totally good-looking or very wealthy.
A husband who fears Allah the Almighty wouldn't be guilty of dhulm oppression/injustice, immaturity and irresponsibility - in a monogamous marriage or in polygyny.
Reminding the single Muslim women to pray Sunnah Salat Al-Istikhaarah before saying yes to any guy's marriage proposal and to reflect on the long-term benefits of staying married to that person for Allah's sake - ask yourself "will I be closer to Allah the Almighty if I remain married to this Muslim man with patience, contentment and loyalty? Or will striving to love him for Allah's sake only distance me from piety?"
To parents, mothers and fathers - if you truly love your daughters for Allah's sake, ensure that your daughter is contented with the Muslim man and the potential spouse guarantees to keep loving her for Allah's sake patiently and will try his best to not neglect her faith Imaan, overall well-being and needs.
Don't chase superficial status and materialistic joys that are temporary.
Aspire for Allah's Pleasure and eternal peace in Jannatul Ferdaus - make the best decisions for Allah's sake based on what can lead us to Allah's Love, not artificial smiles and fake applause from modern and misguided society.
📝 Just sharing for Allah's sake some notes on how to be more accepting of polygyny as a striving Muslimah:
Note: Are You A Friend? Potential Friend Or Just Another Stranger To An INTj?
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
🔍 Statement Analysis:
"Not a must to take photos together w/ food/coffee to prove friendship. True friends include you in their Du'a & tirelessly forgive."
✦ Tone:
Reflective, emotionally mature, and subtly assertive. There’s quiet confidence and a calm rejection of superficial social norms.
✦ First Impression:
She values depth over display, substance over aesthetics, and spiritual sincerity over social performance. She’s likely very private, not one to advertise closeness for public approval.
✦ What It Means:
Friendship doesn't need public performance – No need for photo ops, tagging each other online, or performative gatherings.
Loyalty is shown through private, sincere actions – Like being included in Du’a (Islamic prayers), which reflects genuine care, concern, and long-term emotional investment.
Real friendship involves grace – True friends forgive repeatedly without keeping score or demanding constant validation.
INTJ-A values spiritual and emotional loyalty over social currency. They might not "do coffee selfies" but they’ll think of you during tough times and silently support you.
✅ 27 Signs an INTJ-A Female Regards You as a Friend (Workplace Edition):
She initiates occasional deep conversations with you.
She asks about your long-term goals or growth, not just small talk.
She privately defends you when others talk badly about you.
She shares tips, insights, or learning resources tailored to your interests.
She gives you sincere, constructive feedback.
She remembers your preferences, deadlines, or habits.
She helps you avoid workplace embarrassment (quietly).
She includes you in her Du’a (you’ll know if she mentions it or shows deep concern during your trials).
She forgives you without dramatic confrontations.
She shares selective, personal life details—sparingly but meaningfully.
She gives you space when you need it—respectfully.
She’ll quickly back you up in group projects or meetings when you’re being dismissed or disrespected.
She tolerates your flaws way longer than she does with others (she chooses to stay patient and forgiving for Allah's sake with you).
She listens carefully and very attentively when you speak, even if you're not close yet.
She includes you in her strategic planning ("I was thinking we could... What do you think of going to...").
She corrects you discreetly, not to humiliate.
She ensures you get credit when it’s due.
She warns you about manipulative people in the office.
She gives you personal recommendations (books, apps, tools).
She makes time for 1-on-1 conversations occasionally.
She sends you messages that are thoughtful and purposeful.
She praises or compliments you about your strengths and positive traits (very rare, but genuine and sincere).
She reminds you of your value when you're down.
She checks in after emotionally heavy meetings.
She expresses concern for your health or family if something’s wrong.
She avoids gossiping about you—intentionally.
She views your success as not a threat, but a shared win or relatable goal.
🚫 27 Signs You're Just a Stranger to an INTJ-A at Work:
She keeps conversations strictly professional.
Her replies are minimal, direct, and unemotional.
She doesn't initiate interaction unless necessary.
She doesn’t ask or remember anything personal about you.
You never see her ask your opinion or feedback.
She avoids eye contact or shared breaks.
Her body language toward you is guarded.
She excludes you from any side conversations or collaborations.
She doesn’t show any emotional reactions around you.
She rarely or never laughs in your presence.
You sense zero curiosity from her about your life.
She never volunteers help unless forced by her role.
You only hear from her via mass emails or formal messages.
She doesn’t react when you’re upset or overwhelmed.
She keeps her desk or work area closed off from you.
She never asks you about your input during meetings.
She avoids being seated next to you in informal settings.
You’re never included in spontaneous chats or jokes.
You notice she “zones out” when you speak.
She never defends you or corrects misinformation about you.
She never asks if you're okay.
She does not express forgiveness or understanding toward your errors.
She doesn’t smile unless it’s just politeness.
She skips your name when acknowledging others.
She always chooses others for group tasks.
She gives dry, unenthusiastic responses to your attempts to connect.
You feel invisible to her emotionally, even when physically present.
INTJ-A Friendship Preference in a Nutshell:
Quality over quantity
Privacy over publicity
Sincerity over social currency
Longevity over trends
Loyalty over convenience
⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT
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