بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين

بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين
May Allah the Almighty grant us more beneficial knowledge, accept our good deeds, forgive our mistakes, protect us from fitna, and join us with the righteous believers in Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen.

Tuesday, July 13, 2021

Note: Three Likely Reasons Why Some People Are Not Affected By The Evil Eye

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
💌 On the day after our wedding, some time in Shawwal 2006, I remember my husband strangely suffering from fever or high body temperature, when he seemed okay, energetic and cheerful the other day. When I was a teenager during our travel to Indonesia at an Islamic institute, there was a crowd of female students sitting around me, staring while some of them were telling me how pretty I looked. My late mom (Allah yarhamha. Ameen.) and I were in the females' section at a Masjid so we temporarily took off our niqab/face-veil. Immediately the next day I had fever and pimples or multiple rashes around my face. That took place when I was a "music addict", occasionally drew sketches of living beings which Muslims aren't supposed to draw, and wasn't religious so much so that I didn't know the virtues of saying the morning and evening Adhkaar unlike now Alhamdulillah.
The evil eye isn't a myth. It is real. A lot of individuals from different cults even believe that it's not a joke, which is why some non-Muslims wear talismans, amulets or special accessories designed to safeguard themselves from witchcraft, voodoo spells and negative energy. Such methods of shielding oneself obviously contradict the tradition of the noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam and since many of these self-preserving practices involve requesting assistance from jinn or demons, they could ultimately lead to kufr/disbelief or shirk/polytheism. 
Some people though, in spite of being exposed to the public a lot, don't show any signs of being affected or badly impacted by the evil eye. For instance, a number of celebrities, bands, politicians, instagrammers, or famous YouTubers, despite performing several times on stage, being interviewed in front of a large audience, or broadcasting their lavish lifestyles through frequently uploaded photos and vlogs... they still seem fine and unaffected by 'ayn or evil eye which usually occurs when an intensely envious person emits jealous vibes or hatred towards those whom they envy.
📋 Three possible reasons why some people are immune or incapable of receiving any impact from someone's evil eye:
1] Their trust and faith in Allah the Almighty are very high. They regularly say Du'a, as well as the morning and evening Adhkaar, and effectively shield themselves with steadfast Taqwa, frequent recitation of Ayatul Kursi along with other verses and chapters from the Noble Qur'an. Plus they try their best for Allah's sake to abstain from sins which can make humans more vulnerable to shaytan's deception and cunning tricks. 
2] Allah the Almighty knows best. Since the evil eye may generally be transmitted from dark souls or individuals whose hearts are spiritually impure (due to jealousy, suspicion and wishing evil on others), their effects cannot reach similarly dark souls or hearts that are already broken, disturbed or spoiled. If you were to hold two magnets with the negative sides or north poles pointing towards each other, you'd notice that the two resembling points cause an instant repelling reaction. No matter how much you try to place the same poles of two magnets near each other (blue side with blue, or red with red), they quickly repel one another because their energy is completely identical, just as fictional zombies won't run after other zombies and vampires normally don't attack fellow vampires. 
3] They likely protect themselves from bad energy by relying on magic spells, incantations or jewelry specially worn to counteract and prevent the evil eye. This way of protecting oneself must be strictly avoided, to stay away from kufr/disbelief and shirk/polytheism. 
Of course nothing on earth can occur unless Allah the Most Wise destines it. While the evil eye may overtake Allah's Qadr/Decree (for example if it was decreed that a certain man would live until his late 50s, his vulnerability to the evil eye or negligence with regard to his faith/Imaan may shorten his lifespan so he dies from a car accident before his preordained age), the negative impacts of the evil eye come with a reason - to remind us, as Allah's servants, to: 
1] Keep trusting Allah the Most Loving, remembering Him day and night with humility as many times as we can. 
2] Stay away from pridefully showing off what Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala gave us, as if we're the ones who invented them, unless displaying them and helpfully informing others about them (while remaining grateful to Allah the Almighty) are done for a good purpose. 
3] Continue striving to be worthy of Jannah Paradise where no evil eye nor envious souls can steal anybody's happiness and sources of perfect joy.
~•~
📖 Ibn Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu' alaihi wa sallam said, "The evil eye is true. If anything could outrun the decree (Qadr/Destiny), it would be outran by the evil eye. When you perform a ritual bath, wash well."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2188
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Take up your shields." They said, “O Messenger of Allah, is the enemy present?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No, rather your shields from the Hellfire are to declare the Glory of Allah, the Praise of Allah, there is no God but Allah, and Allah is The Greatest. (Say 'SubhanAllah', 'Alhamdulillah', 'Laa ilaaha ilAllah', 'Allahu Akbar') Verily, they (Adhkaar) will come on the Day of Resurrection as saviors and guardian angels, and they are the ‘righteous deeds everlasting.’" (The Noble Qur'an 18:46)
Source: Al-Sunan Al-Kubrá lil-Nasā’ī 10204
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/06/note-fear-allah-more-than-fearing-evil.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/poem-fear-allah-almighty-more-than-evil.html 
https://binbaz.org.sa/fatwas/21562/%D8%AF%D8%B1%D8%AC%D8%A9-%D8%AD%D8%AF%D9%8A%D8%AB-%D8%A7%D9%83%D8%AB%D8%B1-%D9%85%D9%88%D8%AA-%D8%A7%D9%85%D8%AA%D9%8A-%D9%85%D9%86-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%B9%D9%8A%D9%86

Monday, July 12, 2021

Poem: A Few Tips On Dealing With Awkward Moments

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Some tips on how to deal with awkward situations, 
How to keep cool, defeat feelings of embarrassment, 
And seem confident or unfazed when some are laughing 
At you or blushing when embarrassing things happen, 
As you're here to serve Allah, not amuse His servants: 
~•~
When you stumble or slip while you're casually walking, 
Rise back up and confidently continue moving. 
If you're surrounded by friends or spectators staring, 
Wave your right hand and greet them with dashing confidence, 
Or resume strolling like your fall is not a problem.
~•~ 
If you're in a group, and wish to ask or say something, 
But nobody seemed to hear your question or statement, 
Repeat it but with louder and clearer utterance, 
Or calmly sigh and tell yourself "oh well..." from within, 
"Maybe Allah wants that I skip it and stay silent.".
~•~
If an item fell while you were holding tons of things, 
Or portions of a dish dropped while serving or eating, 
And some cringe at your clumsiness in most gatherings, 
Laugh about it, or embrace the fact you're different.
How Allah sees us matters more than what His slaves think.
~•~
Understand you're human, with flaws and imperfections. 
Other humans too go through awkward moments often. 
Learn from your mistakes and people's random shortcomings.
Allah may grant awkwardness as a hidden blessing 
To always seek His Guidance and avoid arrogance.
~•~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan." 
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664 
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/poem-what-insecure-people-do-and-tips.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-five-insecure-habits-that.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/poem-eleven-signs-of-people-with-strong.html 
https://socialpronow.com/blog/uncomfortable-around-people/

Sunday, July 11, 2021

Poem: Signs That A Much Older Person Is Jealous Of You

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Three obvious signs that an elder person envies you, 
Whether they're your aunt who can't admit they're insecure, 
A teacher who doesn't want you to succeed at school, 
A professor who finds faults with many things you do, 
Or an older cousin who disdains what you value: 
~•~
First sign: Despite being older, they seem immature. 
They'd go out of their way to spoil your plans and good moods, 
Make you feel ignored online and offline, and exclude 
You from events while they invite friends you know and knew, 
And, all in all, they treat you in a manner that's rude. 
~•~
Second: Since they're jealously threatened by your virtues 
And your confidence or strong faith frightens their repute, 
Sincere advice and tips towards success they refuse 
To share, in spite of having done the same things you do. 
Envy prevents them from wanting to see you improve.
~•~ 
Third: They're quiet when you thrive or express gratitude, 
Yet as soon as they spot mistakes in the things you do, 
They quickly criticize you, ridicule and rebuke, 
As if your faults and failures rejuvenate their mood. 
Intense jealousy proves they're not morally mature.
~•~ 
How to deal with an older person who envies you: 
Firstly, thank Allah that you're unlike them - insecure. 
Jealous souls are unhappy from inside, that's for sure. 
Withhold secrets from them, and convos with them reduce. 
Maintain grateful, composed, and confident attitude.
~•~  
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of envy, for it devours good deeds just as fire devours wood or grass."  
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4903 
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti  
📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Envy consumes good deeds just as fire burns wood. Charity (Sadaqah) extinguishes sinful deeds just as water extinguishes fire. Prayer is the light of the believer and fasting is his shield from the Hellfire." 
Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 4210 
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Ibn Asakir 
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Faith and envy do not combine within a believing servant."
In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Greed and faith are never combined in the heart of a servant."
Source: Sunan Al-Nasā’ī 3109
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/poem-clear-signs-of-jealous-people-even.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/05/poem-seven-signs-that-indicate-jealousy.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/poem-advice-on-how-to-deal-with-people.html 

Saturday, July 10, 2021

Poem: To Receive Allah's Mercy, Don't Cut Off Ties With Your Family And Relatives Purposely

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 In the past many from the pious had enemies 
And critics from their own flesh and blood, their families, 
Who opposed them due to a difference in beliefs, 
Who refused to support them because of jealousy, 
And who abandoned them despite being family. 
~•~ 
From them were Prophet Muhammad (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) who was unjustly 
Rebuked by Abu Lahab who stuck to misbelief, 
Ibrahim ('alaihis salaam) who tried to advise his father kindly, 
Nuh ('alaihis salaam) who did his best to save his son from fallacies, 
And Yusuf ('alaihis salaam) who put up with his half-brothers' envy. 
~•~
So if you receive unkind treatment from some aunties, 
If you've been the victim of some cousins' mockery, 
If you have a sibling who despises your hobbies, 
A child who often deals with you disrespectfully, 
Or loved ones who ignore you online and locally,
~•~ 
Maintain ties with them for Allah's sake courageously 
With patience applied sincerely and consistently. 
Say salaam to them and respond whenever they greet, 
Don't act like you didn't see them when you're in the streets, 
And grant them what they need whenever you have the means. 
~•~
From contacting you don't prevent them arrogantly, 
And unblock them if you've blocked their accounts previously. 
Try to visit them when you have the ability, 
Advise them when you can and pray for them frequently. 
Maintain family ties to deserve Allah's Mercy.
~•~ 
📖 AbdurRahman Ibn 'Awf RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Allah said: 'I am Allah and I am the Merciful (Ar-Rahman). I created the womb (rahm) and I derived it from My Name. Whoever upholds it, I will uphold him. Whoever severs it, I will deprive him of My Mercy.'"
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1907
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi 
📖 Aisha RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The bond of family (rahm) is suspended from the Throne and it says: 'Whoever upholds me (tries to keep the connection with one's family and relatives), Allah will uphold him. Whoever severs me (purposely cuts off family ties), Allah will sever him.'"
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5989 
Sahih Muslim 2555
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that a person said: "O' Allah's Messenger, I have relatives with whom I try to have close relationship with but they cut off ties. I treat them well, but they treat me badly. I am good to them but they are harsh towards me." Upon this the Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "If it is so as you say, then it is as if you are throwing hot ashes (upon them) and there would always remain with you on behalf of Allah (an Angel to support you) who would keep you dominant over them so long as you adhere to this (path of righteousness)."
Reference: Sahih Muslim 2558
In-book reference: Book 45, Hadith 25
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Book 32, Hadith 6204 
Jubayr Ibn Mut'im RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The one who severs his family ties will not enter Paradise."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5638 
Sahih Muslim 2556
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/05/poem-note-to-my-relatives-wherever-they.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/note-patience-with-our-relatives.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/04/poem-warning-against-purposely-cutting.html 

Poem: Clear Signs Of Jealous People Even If They Deny Their Jealousy

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Not every adult would admit they're jealous of you, 

Since envy shows they feel inferior and insecure, 

Unsatisfied with Allah's Qadr, awfully consumed 

With jealousy that provokes them to be foul and rude.

~•~

Signs that indicate someone's feeling very jelly: 

You're not friends online yet they stalk you quite hatefully, 

Scanning your posts for mistakes and inaccuracies, 

And searching for your mishaps to laugh at miserably.

~•~

They claim you're a "narcissist", that you're "full of yourself", 

When you're trying to educate, motivate or help. 

The light within your heart intimidates their dark selves 

And your bright confidence only causes them to wilt.

~•~

These envious darkened hearts that breed their own sadness 

Typically use people as topics for cheap gossip. 

Too cowardly to confront you, they get all quiet 

When you glance at their scowls that show they're lost in unrest.

~•~

Feel sorry for those guilty of crab mentality 

Who question Allah's Wisdom and Qadr/Destiny, 

Who grant you some of their good deeds each time they envy 

Or carry your sins when they mistreat you jealously.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of envy, for it devours good deeds just as fire devours wood or grass."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4903

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Envy consumes good deeds just as fire burns wood. Charity (Sadaqah) extinguishes sinful deeds just as water extinguishes fire. Prayer is the light of the believer and fasting is his shield from the Hellfire."

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 4210

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Ibn Asakir

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, who are the best people?” The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One with a heart swept clean and truthful in speech." We said, “O Messenger of Allah, we know truthful in speech. What is a heart swept clean?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One that is mindful of Allah and pure, in which there is no sin, nor aggression, nor envy." We said, “Who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One who hates worldliness and loves the Hereafter." They said, “And who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A believer with good character."

Source: Shu’ab Al-Imān 4457

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Faith and envy do not combine within a believing servant."

In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Greed and faith are never combined in the heart of a servant."

Source: Sunan Al-Nasā’ī 3109

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/poem-advice-on-how-to-deal-with-people.html