Poem: When To Interfere Or Enjoin Good Deeds And When To Mind Your Business

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Three instances when it's better to enjoin what's right, 

When it's wiser to not keep certain info inside, 

And when speaking out brings you closer to Paradise: 

When the one you advise is your relative or child, 

When untold truth can harm, and informing is required. 

~•~ 

Trying to mind your business is a move that's unwise 

If someone making mistakes is a loved one or child, 

If your silence leads to their loss in this worldly life 

While they could've listened if you enjoined what is right, 

And if pride makes you fear people more than Allah's Might. 

~•~

When is it sensible to hate a sin from inside, 

And fleeing is safer than inviting needless fights, 

While still hating inwardly all that Allah dislikes? 

When correcting someone is more harmful than worthwhile, 

And they're too proud to listen despite frequent advice. 

~•~

No use in pushing a donkey if numerous times 

You've asked it to move but it refuses to give rides. 

Know that Allah is the One Who inspires, helps, and guides.  

If Allah decrees and decides that some souls don't thrive 

In terms of faith, they can't change, even if you remind. 

~•~ 

Inspire Muslims to do good, and warn against vice / crimes, 

If those whom you're advising can wisely recognize 

The need for Taqwa and the real purpose of our lives, 

And attempting to correct errors doesn't incite 

Avoidable fitna which could complicate one's life.

~•~

📖 Ali Ibn Husayn RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, part of perfection in Islam is for a person to leave what does not concern him."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2318

Grade: Sahih li ghayri (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 

📖 Abu Sa'eed Al-Khudri RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever among you sees evil, let him change it with his hand (by stopping it physically). If he is unable to do so, then with his tongue (verbally, by warning or speaking against that wrongdoing). If he is unable to do so, then with his heart (by at least hating the sin instead of admiring the wrongdoers), and that is the weakest level of faith." 

Source: Sahih Muslim 49 

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "There will be rulers (in the future, before the Day of Judgment) from whom you will see both goodness and corruption. One who recognizes their evil and hates it will maintain his innocence; but one who is pleased with it and follows them (in committing the wrongdoing) will be sinful." It was said, “Shall we not fight them?” The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "No, as long as they pray." 

Source: Sahih Muslim 1854 

Grade: Sahih 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is a mirror to his faithful brother. He protects him against loss and defends him behind his back." 

Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu said, 'The believer is a mirror to his brother. If he sees something wrong in him, he should correct it.' 

Source: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 239 

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Albani 

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Note: My Brief Story On How I Started Including Tahajjud As Part Of My Routine

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 The first time I was interested in including Tahajjud / Qiyaam Al-Layl as part of my regular routine was when I was around twelve or thirteen years old. I remember waking up late at night often to go to the bathroom and while most of the lights in the apartment were switched off, one of the living rooms would be brightly lit and I could overhear my parents (Allah yarhamhuma. Ameen.) praying together a special night prayer which I thought was only prayed during Ramadan and done by older individuals or adults. Alhamdulillah with Allah's Guidance I gradually became interested in praying Qiyaam Al-Layl often after conducting some thorough research about it and with frequent encouragement from my dear mother (Allah yarhamha. Ameen.) to never quit praying Tahajjud. 

In the beginning I wasn't very regular in praying Qiyaam Al-Layl though until I discovered that there was a huge difference between starting your day after having prayed Tahajjud and facing the day without having prayed Tahajjud whether it was due to oversleeping, having my monthly excuse, or not feeling motivated due to temporary stress or sadness. 

On days when I missed out on the virtues and rewards of praying Tahajjud, since I was in my teens up till now in my early thirties, I realized that I felt "more vulnerable to fitna" and more susceptible to mood swings or annoyance. It was as if I didn't have a significant shield needed to be more careful, wiser, or strong enough to pass certain tests and challenges. Alternatively whenever I was able to wake up anywhere from 2:30 am to some minutes before Salat Al-Fajr, I noticed that my motivation to do good deeds was stronger, felt more inspired, and my intuition (from Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) seemed more accurate than on days in which I missed out on Tahajjud's countless blessings. 

Praying Tahajjud for Allah's sake regularly is one of the distinctive qualities of pious Muslims who sincerely strive to be close allies and loyal supporters of Allah the Almighty and His noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Try to include it as one of your best habits and 

Inn-sha-Allah you can witness the quality of your Deen and dunya improve a lot.

~•~ 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, 'Our Rabb (Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) descends to the lowest Heaven in the last third of every night, and He Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala says: "Who is calling upon Me, so that I may answer him? Who is asking from Me, so that I may give him? Who is seeking My forgiveness, so that I may forgive him?"'

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 1094

Sahih Muslim 758

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 

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Poem: Distinguishing Traits Of People Who Can't Be Trusted

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Some adjectives that suit those whom you can never trust, 

So you shield yourself from traitors who put on an act 

For their selfish gains which they conceal beneath fake masks: 

Jealous, insecure, untrustworthy or dishonest, 

Unstable, and unfaithful or morally corrupt. 

~•~ 

If you've noticed some ignore your salaams on purpose 

Often online and offline, and it's a bad habit 

Of theirs to disregard simple greetings, don't expect 

Them to be kindhearted souls who keep every promise. 

Whoso treats you based on current moods can't be trusted. 

~•~

Rolling their eyes like they're performers in a circus 

Or giving you dirty looks whenever you express 

A thought or feeling could indicate they're envious. 

Whoever envies you can't be given your secrets, 

Dreams told in detail, and tips to personal success. 

~•~

If more than thrice someone's acts confused, disappointed, 

Or frustrated you, and you felt unjustly treated, 

As they refused to make up for broken promises, 

Then realize they don't deserve to be supported. 

No merits can be derived in one-sided friendships. 

~•~

Overall, don't trust anyone who can get tempted 

To do the kind of actions which shaytan would suggest, 

From lying and stealing to revealing a secret, 

Or betraying at some point, even with excuses. 

Just trust Allah, not fellow mortals He created.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is not stung twice from the same hole." 

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5782 

Sahih Muslim 2998 

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 

📖 Ibn Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "When Allah gathers together the earlier and later generations on the Day of Resurrection, He will raise a banner for every (betrayer) treacherous person. It will be announced that this is the treachery of this person, the son of this person."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5823

Sahih Muslim 1735

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 

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Note: Five Things That Most INTJs Want Others To Know

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Five things that most INTJ personality types want others to know: 

1] If we've done some research on body language, how narcissists try to use people to reach their selfish goals, and psychology-related articles, we can usually detect, with intuition from Allah the Almighty, that a person is most likely telling a lie or deliberately being toxic to get a reaction out of us. If the individual who's guilty of putting up a front, pretending to be someone whom they aren't, or behaving immaturely, is close to us, we go out of our way to address the issue at an ideal timing and check on their well-being. If they're only strangers, we play along out of courtesy, while remaining uninterested in discovering more about their personal lives. 

2] We don't chase people, beg them to stay, nor enjoy playing hard to get. If we can acutely sense that a number of individuals despise us, we don't bother adjusting ourselves or altering our values to earn their approval. Just as we can't force ourselves to become fond of something which we find unappealing, we won't compel anybody to befriend us if they regard us as unrelatable, incompatible, or intimidating. 

3] Asking acquaintances lots of questions doesn't necessarily mean we're desperate to become their besties. It's one of our ways to evaluate if they're truly worthy of our energy, companionship, attention, loyalty, and trust. 

4] A lot of us won't label somebody as a friend until: they've seen us shed tears before while we showed them our emotional side, we've traveled with them or went to gatherings together several times, or they received multiple messages from us asking for their tips and advice. 

5] Almost always we prefer solitude to unwillingly socializing with those whom Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala didn't decree that we connect with genuinely. If we realize that someone's absurd acts are meant to make us feel "lonely", we smile or laugh inwardly, wondering why until now they haven't got the memo that true introverts, as long as we have Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, can move on without constant communication and contact with human species.

~•~ 

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe. The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil. By the One (Allah) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."

Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515 

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut  

📖 Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Nothing is heavier upon the scale of a believer on the Day of Resurrection than his good character. Verily, Allah hates the vulgar and obscene person (prone to wicked conduct and vile speech such as knowingly telling lies, backbiting, spreading rumors)."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2002

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut 

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https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/07/poem-whats-it-like-being-muslim-and-intj.html 

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Poem: Three Signs That You're Confident Which Is Why You Seem Intimidating To Some People

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Three signs that you're confident, and you're not faking it, 

That your good vibes cause some to feel intimidated, 

As you trust Allah, not fearing those He created, 

While your efforts to stay real, not one bit pretentious, 

Scare off souls who are insecure or inauthentic: 

~•~

One: You don't care if you seem weird. In fact, you like it 

When you stand out and side with the few who are correct. 

You'd rather be a lone gem amidst a dark forest 

Than follow decomposing leaves and falling branches. 

With Allah's Love and Guidance you're more than contented. 

~•~

Two: You can't doubt your worth when you don't get invited 

To gatherings where you are not urgently needed. 

You give people space, your loved ones' choices you respect, 

And you're not one to expect much as you haven't met 

Everybody's needs, and Allah's Qadr you accept. 

~•~

Three: Aiming to please just Allah, you don't fear gossip. 

What critics think about you is none of your business. 

So long as it's the right thing, you don't require permit 

Or support from puppets to remain motivated. 

Journey to Allah goes on even if cowards quit.

~•~

The more you strive for Allah and the more you're guided, 

The less susceptible you are to feeling upset 

By people's misconduct and lousy moves they select. 

Any mess they put themselves in is theirs to cherish. 

Live to serve Allah, not cling to those He created. 

~•~ 

📖 Suhayb RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Amazing is the affair of the believer, as there is good for him in every matter. This is not the case for anyone but for the believer. If he goes through ease (or happy moments), he thanks Allah and it is good for him. If he goes through difficulty, he shows patience and it is good for him."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2999

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan." 

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664 

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

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