بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين

بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين
May Allah the Almighty grant us more beneficial knowledge, accept our good deeds, forgive our mistakes, protect us from fitna, and join us with the righteous believers in Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen.

Sunday, April 10, 2022

Note: Describing 7 MBTI Personality Types I've Interacted With

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 


🗒️ Briefly describing seven extroverted MBTI personality types whom I've interacted with from among loved ones, relatives, acquaintances, colleagues and students: 
1🔹 ESFJs (FeSi): 
1] They can be remarkably accommodating hosts and event organizers. 
2] They tend to be good at remembering specific details about people which others may have forgotten about. 
3] They seem to enjoy reminiscing about enjoyable moments and memorable instances which occurred in the past with those whom they regard as close friends. 
⚠️ Turbulent ESFJs, ESFJ-T when insecure, unconfident or emotionally immature: 
1] They can be very gossipy or nosily interfere with people's personal matters which don't concern them. 
2] They can be passive-aggressive, rude and inconsiderate if they envy you or believe that you've treated them unfairly. 
3] They may scornfully remind you about your past mistakes whenever you argue with them, indicating their resentment for something which you probably don't do anymore.
2🔸 ESFPs (SeFi): 
1] They can be charismatic and talkative, especially in large gatherings. 
2] They can be spontaneous, quick, creative, playful and easygoing. 
3] They seemingly enjoy making people laugh with their jokes and sense of humor. 
⚠️ Turbulent ESFPs, ESFP-T when insecure, unconfident or emotionally immature: 
1] Insecure ESFPs can be somewhat selfish and self-absorbed. 
2] They can be stubborn and uncooperative if they're uninterested in accomplishing tasks which are boring or too tiring for them. 
3] They can be extremely sensitive and easily misconstrue your good intentions.
3🔹 ENFPs (NeFi): 
1] They are generally friendly and approachable, not judgmental of others. 
2] They can be more flexible, adaptable, open-minded, understanding and imaginative than ESFPs. 
3] They tend to be incredibly expressive with their emotions. You can usually determine how an ENFP is feeling, whether confused or excited, by the way they conduct themselves. 
⚠️ Turbulent ENFPs, ENFP-T when insecure, unconfident or emotionally immature:  
1] They can be vindictive and feel the need to get even with those whom they believe didn't give them their rights. 
2] They can be impulsive, making a lot of brash decisions without carefully thinking about the consequences of their choices and actions. 
3] Immature ENFPs can be more selfishly concerned with their own wants than with others' needs.
4🔸 ENFJs (FeNi): 
1] A lot of them are competent and eloquent at public speaking. They can be charming, well-spoken, approachable, diplomatic and popular as leaders, managers, employers, teachers or motivational speakers. 
2] They generally value group harmony and dislike seeing anybody deal with bullying or embarrassing situations. Often they're the first to speak up when counteracting injustice.
3] They can be fabulously helpful at offering sincere advice and reassurance when you require counseling.
⚠️ Turbulent ENFJs, ENFJ-T when insecure, unconfident or emotionally immature:  
1] Insecure ENFJs tend to be overly conscious about their overall status and image. 
2] Some of them may look down on you with disdain if they observe that you don't have as many friends as they do. 
3] They may react to stress in toxic ways if they have unhealthy coping mechanisms.
5🔹 ESTPs (SeTi): 
1] They can be really observant, alert and quick-witted.
2] They're not afraid of going on an adventure or taking risks if they perceive that doing so has more reasonable merits than staying inactive. 
3] Many ESTPs tend to be fascinatingly protective of their family and loved ones. 
⚠️ Turbulent ESTPs, ESTP-T when insecure, unconfident or emotionally immature:  
1] Since insecure ESTPs can struggle with big egos and get offended more easily than secure ones, they have the tendency to be vengeful and won't hesitate to insult or act like a bully to anybody who appears as a threat. 
2] They can be anxious and unsure when it comes to decision making. 
3] A lot of immature ESTPs may be awfully judgmental if they notice that your values and way of managing things clearly differ from theirs.
6🔸 ESTJs (TeSi): 
1] They typically have a commanding presence and find it easy to give instructions when necessary. 
2] They can be accurate when recalling significant moments and negative aspects about certain people.
3] As managers, employees and students, ESTJs are usually hardworking, productive and effective at accomplishing tasks. 
⚠️ Turbulent ESTJs, ESTJ-T when insecure, unconfident or emotionally immature:  
1] Turbulent ESTJs can be rather intolerant and impatient with those who aren't as capable as them. They usually appear bossy, authoritarian and tactless.
2] Like emotionally unstable ESFJs, insecure ESTJs may frequently indulge in gossiping about other individuals, particularly when they're triggered by jealousy or inferiority complex. 
3] A lot of them readily show animosity when they dislike someone, and making effort to sympathize with people doesn't come naturally to them.
7🔹 ENTJs (TeNi): 
1] They willingly take charge of most situations which they believe are manageable.
2] They are goal-oriented and enjoy making plans for the betterment of the future.
3] While they can confidently take leadership roles and give commands like ESTJs, ENTJs are overall more calmer and open-minded than traditionalist ESTJs.
⚠️ Turbulent ENTJs, ENTJ-T when insecure, unconfident or emotionally immature:  
1] They can be unpleasantly insensitive with their feedback and criticism, not caring if they make enemies along the path to achieving their objectives. 
2] Some ENTJs struggling with insecurity issues may have difficulty trusting others, even those whom they've employed. They look more solitary or unsociable than the stereotypical ENTJ who's eager to build connections with those who have the same determination to complete a mission.
3] Insecure ENTJs may be reckless and/or not receptive to ideas and suggestions which oppose their long-term goals. 
✅ From the advantages of knowing somebody's MBTI type: Awareness of how to adjust your attitude and behavior to comply with theirs if you're genuinely interested in getting along peacefully.
~•~ 
📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe (not guilty of backbiting, telling lies, and knowingly committing injustice). The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil. By the One (Allah the Almighty) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515 
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut
https://personalitygrowth.com/most-likely-first-impressions-of-each-personality-type/ 
https://www.psychologyjunkie.com/2021/11/18/heres-the-first-impression-you-make-based-on-your-myers-briggs-personality-type/
https://personalitygrowth.com/heres-what-each-personality-type-looks-like-when-they-are-unhealthy/
https://www.psychologyjunkie.com/2017/10/13/people-judge-based-myers-briggs-personality-type/
📂 To discover what your MBTI personality type is, you're welcome to take these tests:
https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/5dab0e69919f5e0014ceba9f
https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test
https://www.truity.com/test/type-finder-personality-test-new
https://www.personalityperfect.com/test/free-personality-test/
http://www.michaelcaloz.com/personality/
https://www.humanmetrics.com/personality/test
https://personalitymax.com/personality-test/

Tips: Seven Signs That An INTJ Cares About You Through Chatting And Text Messaging

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

🗒️ Seven signs that someone with an INTJ personality type trusts you or cares about you, as a loved one or friend, through chatting and text messaging: 
1] If you're online and they're online, they are usually quick when answering your messages. 
2] Occasionally they take the initiative to send you a message, not only when it's necessary but to thoughtfully ask how you and your family are doing. 
3] When chatting, you notice that a lot of their messages are long or wordy. The more an INTJ likes you, as a loved one or friend, the faster they tend to type their messages especially if they're enthusiastic about the conversation and topics being discussed. 
4] If an INTJ actually trusts you, they'd willingly give you a call and promptly answer your calls once in a while, instead of communicating with you only through texting. 
5] If an INTJ respects and feels close to you, as a loved one or friend, they'd oftentimes address you with one of your nicknames or offer compliments, sincere Du'a and helpful advice to make you smile. 
6] If an INTJ is outdoors while chatting with you, for instance at an airport or some social event, they may take a photo of the place where they're currently at simply because they wanted to or to somehow feel more connected.
7] You can tell that an INTJ cares about you when they avoid frequently leaving your messages on "seen" mode. If they're eager to continue chatting with you, they'd ask you a lot of questions to become more familiar with you and they know when to refrain from asking certain queries if they sense that inquiring further would lead to unwanted problems. 
An INTJ would rather talk to you face to face regularly than merely chat when they regard you as somebody whom they can trust, and the number of individuals whom INTJs deem reliable and trustworthy is typically few.
~•~ 
📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe. The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil. 
By the One (Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515 
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/02/poem-friendship-with-intjs-what-are.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/01/tips-intjs-when-they-like-you-in.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/12/tips-intj-acquaintance-vs-intj-friend.html 
https://youtu.be/0CyjrYq0ECE
📂 To discover what your MBTI personality type is, you're welcome to take these tests:
https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/5dab0e69919f5e0014ceba9f
https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test
https://www.truity.com/test/type-finder-personality-test-201105
https://sintesa.net/mbti/
https://www.personalityperfect.com/test/free-personality-test/
http://www.michaelcaloz.com/personality/
https://personalitymax.com/personality-test/

Saturday, April 9, 2022

Note: Permissibility To Continue Drinking Your Last Drink Of Water While Taking Suhoor Meal Even If The Adhaan Of Salat Al-Fajr Is Being Called As Long As The Sun Hasn't Started Rising

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful


🗒️ Allah the Almighty knows best. If the Adhaan of Salat Al-Fajr is called, while you're taking your Suhoor meal or last drink of water, it is allowed to continue finishing your meal and sips of water even if the Adhaan of Salat Al-Fajr is going on, as long as it is evident that the sun hasn't started rising. You don't need to interrupt your Suhoor meal if the skies still appear dark and there's no indication yet of the start of sunrise, particularly if the Muadh-dhin mistakenly called the Adhaan too early or several minutes before the actual time of the Fajr prayer.
~•~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "When one of you hears the call to prayer (the Adhaan of Salat Al-Fajr) while eating the pre-fasting meal (while still having Suhoor) and his vessel (or glass) is in his hand, let him not put it down until he fulfills his need from it."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 2350
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
https://binbaz.org.sa/fatwas/4646/%D9%85%D8%B9%D9%86%D9%89-%D9%82%D9%88%D9%84%D9%87-%D8%B9%D9%84%D9%8A%D9%87-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%B5%D9%84%D8%A7%D8%A9-%D9%88%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%B3%D9%84%D8%A7%D9%85-%D8%A7%D9%84%D9%81%D8%AC%D8%B1-%D9%81%D8%AC%D8%B1%D8%A7%D9%86 
https://abukhadeejah.com/sahur-in-ramadan-if-you-hear-the-adhan-for-fajr-and-you-have-food-in-your-mouth-or-a-glass-of-water-in-your-hand/
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/03/tips-some-tips-on-how-to-deal-with.html 

Thursday, April 7, 2022

Poem: Words Of Encouragement To Striving Muslim Husbands

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
🗒️ Some words of encouragement to each Muslim husband, 
Whether he works abroad to obtain halal income 
Or the kind of profession he has prevents him from 
Properly relaxing or seeing his fam often, 
And whether he has one child, none or many children: 
~•~ 
Deeds you do for Allah aren't wasted. Keep striving. 
For each nap you sacrifice, moments when you're working, 
And for each tear that drops when loved ones aren't watching, 
With Allah's Will you earn rewards. Strive and stay patient. 
Allah loves those who try to pass His tests with patience. 
~•~
While Sabr isn't simple, not sweet for everyone, 
And by those weak in faith it's not readily welcome, 
Steadfastness and facing Allah's Plans with contentment 
Can bring pleasant outcomes as one's Imaan gets strengthened. 
Efforts to please Allah lead to joy everlasting.
~•~ 
Recall that life's a test. View marriage as a blessing.
Remind yourself there's no human without a problem. 
Imagine the route to Jannah as a high mountain 
Whose peak can't be reached if you lack strength and resilience.
Climbing becomes tiring if you can't maintain patience.
~•~
Thank Allah that He blessed you with an occupation, 
With guidance to the truth Islam and comprehension 
Of how the problems in this world aren't permanent. 
Allah's Prophets also ('alaihim as-salaam) had their own predicaments. 
Earth is for testing. In Jannah is true enjoyment.
~•~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Nothing afflicts a Muslim of hardship, nor illness, nor anxiety, nor sorrow, nor harm, nor distress, not even the pricking of a thorn, but that Allah will expiate his sins by it."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5318
Sahih Muslim 2573
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 
📖 Anas ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The most privileged people in the world among the people of the Hellfire will come on the Day of Resurrection to be dipped in the Hellfire, then it will be said: 'O son of Adam, did you see any good? Did you get any blessing?' He will say: 'No, by Allah, my Lord!' Then the most miserable people in the world among the people of Paradise will come on the Day of Resurrection to be dipped in Paradise, then it will be said: 'O son of Adam, did you see any hardship? Did you have any distress?' He will say: 'No, by Allah, my Lord! I did not once see hardship or distress.'"
Source: Sahih Muslim 2807
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 
📖 Abdullah Ibn Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. The leader of the people is a guardian and is responsible for his subjects. A man is the guardian of his family and he is responsible for them. A woman is the guardian of her husband's home and his children, and she is responsible for them. The servant of a man is a guardian of the property of his master and he is responsible for it. No doubt, every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6719
Sahih Muslim 1829
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1162
Grade: Sahih 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/12/poem-encouragement-to-bring-up.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/11/poem-real-men-are-strong-enough-to-not.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/10/poem-its-easy-to-stay-in-love-with-your.html 
https://abukhadeejah.com/be-in-the-world-as-a-stranger/

Tuesday, April 5, 2022

Poem: Take It As A Compliment When The Jealous Treat You Badly

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Sometimes Allah may test you with someone's misconduct, 
Through meeting toxic people who want you to react 
In a way that would soothe their sadness or disturbed nafs, 
And the best way to respond is to ignore their acts, 
Let their rudeness assert that their envy is a fact. 
~•~ 
Take it as a compliment when the rude and unjust 
Insult you when you err, yet when you thrive they shut up. 
Their scowls and discourtesy are signs that it's obvious 
They're jealous of your good traits and strong faith which they lack. 
Be glad you're not insecure, wanting what each soul has.
~•~
When treated unkindly, when some mock you just like that, 
And when crowds begrudge you for Allah's gifts which you've got, 
Smile, as you thank Allah for not having what they have - 
A soul that doubts Allah's Wisdom and which can't relax.
Self-hatred is why they treat you with scornful conduct.
~•~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Faith and envy do not combine within a believing servant."
In another narration, the Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Greed and faith are never combined in the heart of a servant."
Source: Sunan Al-Nasā’ī 3109
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, who are the best people?” The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “One with a heart swept clean and truthful in speech.” We said, “O Messenger of Allah, we know truthful in speech. What is a heart swept clean ("al-qalb al-makhmoom")?” The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One that is mindful of Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) and pure, in which there is no sin, nor aggression, nor envy." We said, “Who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One who hates worldliness and loves the Hereafter." They said, “And who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A believer with good character."
Source: Shu'ab Al-Imān 4457
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-thank-allah-for-blessings-he-chose.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/12/poem-pure-hearts-believe-in-allah-and.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/06/poem-tips-on-how-to-manage-negative.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/05/poem-seven-signs-that-indicate-jealousy.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/05/poem-distance-yourself-from-jealous.html 
https://www.salafisounds.com/ten-evil-consequences-of-envy-jealousy-by-abu-khadeejah-abdul-wahid/