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๐ Seven effective ways to cause someone with the INTJ personality type to despise you and unapologetically quit putting effort in trying to get to know you better:
1❎ Prove to them that you're truly untruthful and untrustworthy.
➡️ For instance: If they agreed to search around for some change for your 500 Pesos or Saudi Riyals and you clearly told them that you'd wait for them, make sure that you patiently wait for them instead of paying the courier by spending from your own money which you suddenly remembered. Otherwise find a way to properly compensate for showing them you can no longer be trusted.
2❎ Accuse them of arrogance or act as though you perceive them to be arrogant, while you don't really know them and have never even had a meaningful conversation with them which lasted for more than five minutes.
3❎ Show them that you're unreliable and/or disrespectful.
➡️ For instance: Frequently make grammatical errors and typos on purpose, and intentionally refrain from capitalizing the first letter of their name. Doing this persistently can guarantee the INTJ to become utterly (but gladly) disinterested in befriending you and instead more eager to avoid you (and possibly anybody who is directly affiliated with you) as much as possible.
4❎ Make it obvious that you're intensely envious of them by regularly excluding them from gatherings or outings in which mutual acquaintances are invited to, by gossiping and spreading negative rumors about them often, or by acting affectedly aloof.
5❎ Appear uneasy or irrationally offended whenever the INTJ asks you several questions regarding yourself intending to become more well-acquainted with you. The more unreasonably nervous, apparently intimidated or insecure you seem around most INTJs, the more they'd do what they can to stay away from your disconcerting vibes to steer clear of emotional drama.
6❎ Annoyingly poke them or be too touchy-feely when you've known them for less than a year and have never spent quality time together outside of school or the workplace.
7❎ Continue doing something which you're aware that they dislike, or obstinately refuse to take their advice when you requested for some tips and they sincerely want you to do what is right.
The above no-nos can also be applicable to other intuitive types, not just the INTJ personality.
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๐ Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is not stung twice from the same hole."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5782
Sahih Muslim 2998
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
๐ Abu Sa'eed Al-Khudri RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Keep only a believer for a companion and let only a righteous person eat your food."
At-Tirmidhi and Abu Dawud
Reference: Riyaad As-Salihin 366
In-book reference: Introduction, Hadith 366
