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๐ "What tips can you share so my husband will never cheat?"
"How can I ensure that my husband won't cheat on me?"
And "Steps to prevent my zawj from cheating - advise, please?"
If I were to receive those queries, I'd say: Let's see...
So you wanna make sure that your hubby never cheats?
~•~
So your husband never cheats, ensure absolutely
That every night and day, while he's awake and asleep,
That each moment when he moves about, and as he breathes,
That you're the only pretty female he likes to see,
The only soul on earth who can sweep him off his feet.
~•~
Make sure that all his colleagues are males and straight fully,
That all his patients or clients and whoever deals
With him directly and indirectly are only
Males who are married and loyal or who'd never dream
Of going anywhere near lust and adultery.
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Ensure that no female ever shows up on his screens,
And no female catches his attention in the streets,
Not even one whisper from females flirtatiously
Trying to talk to him, while he is contentedly
Wed to just one wife - no urge to break his loyalty...
~•~
...like he's a machine or android compliant puppy
Ready to follow orders and unable to feel
Emotions - feelings which can make pretence appear real
At times or cloud judgment so one can't decide clearly.
Your husband's not flawless. He's like you - human being.
~•~
Let him learn from his mistakes. You're flawed similarly.
If ever you find out, through a loved one or colleague,
That your husband has been acting overly friendly
With another woman, keep calm and think carefully
Of the causes that led to him behaving oddly?
~•~
Perhaps your disrespectful tone inspires him to flee,
Or some jealous outsiders carried out sorcery?
Or the lass he seems to like found him delightfully
Attractive so she tried a love spell ignorantly?
Or shaytan spoiled the peace when your faith/Imaan was weak.
~•~
Trust Allah always. Pray for your husband frequently.
Care for your spouse without being doubtful and clingy.
Make your ego much smaller than your ability
To forgive. Join the brave who welcome polygyny.
Love Allah more than your spouse. Love your man patiently.
~•~
๐ Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibban 4252
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
