๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
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๐ If I were told, "That's weird, why won't you regularly
Check on your husband's phones to ensure he never cheats?
The more handsome he is, charismatic or wealthy,
The smarter or more successful he is seemingly,
The more likely he'll attract females who are flirty.
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It's your right to spy on his cellphones. Don't be naive!"
My response would be: So you're saying he's like candy?
He is my one and only sweet, he belongs to me,
Nobody can flirt with him, whoso audaciously
Attempts to contact him should earn my consent firstly?
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Do you suggest that I treat him like he's a fluffy
Pet on a tight leash and I prevent him from freely
Moving about? Like he's meant to be enslaved by me?
Do you expect my spouse to feel respected if he
Sees that I suspect him and deem him untrustworthy?
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Do you suppose he'll enjoy it if I constantly
Checked what he's up to on his phones like he's a baby
Who should avoid vids which are not family-friendly?
I doubt it. My life goal isn't to make sure that he
Never falls into strange women's traps and treachery.
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He's my husband, my other half and travel buddy
To Jannah Paradise. He is not my enemy
Whose moves I must scrutinize and spy on frequently.
He's my friend. I pray that Allah guides my spouse to be
Trustworthy and eager to improve in piety.
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If ever he's guilty of misconduct, I believe
That my husband is smart enough to reform while he
Is a human being like me, and he is worthy
Of my ability to forgive him eagerly.
shaytan mustn't succeed in spoiling this blessed journey.
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I won't disrespect my husband's need for privacy.
Even if he grants me full permissibility
To use his gadgets, I'd find it unnecessary
To inspect their contents since doing so would mostly
Invite drama and fitna which I don't want near me.
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Alhamdulillah. I'm okay with polygyny.
I'd rather continue loving my spouse patiently
While he cares for many wives and a big family
Than leave him for another guy who can't guarantee
That he'll never get tempted by shaytan's trickery.
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๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi
Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."
Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātīḥ 5/2125
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A woman is married for four things: Her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman otherwise you will be a loser."
Sahih Al-Bukhari 5090
In-book reference: Book 67 Hadith 28
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 27
๐ Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
