Note: INTJs - From The Most Introverted Of Introverts - They Care About The Quality Not Quantity Of Friends

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

🗒️ Seven things which could happen when you've become one of the few close friends of an INTJ Muslim: 

1. A lot of your problems integrate with their lists of problems to solve. They'd do whatever they can for Allah's sake to help you with your struggles even if their concern involves offering sincere advice, frequently checking your well-being, or wholeheartedly mentioning your name in many of their loving Du'as / supplications / prayers. 

2. If you're managing a halal business and own a number of Facebook pages, they'd do what they can for Allah's sake to support you, grant reactions to some of your online posts, and regularly recommend a lot of your products to others without necessarily being evident about how genuinely supportive they are. 

3. They'd try their best for Allah's sake to develop their approachability with the individuals who matter to you and maintain courtesy with them instead of remaining distant, mysterious or indifferent to your loved ones. 

4. Whenever they find the opportunity to share something or be more generous, you'll usually witness them giving you freebies, gifts or snacks without expecting anything in return from you. This is an extremely rare occurrence if there's no actual connection between you two.

5. As long as they're not preoccupied with other tasks and responsibilities, plus the internet speed in their area is not unstable, they are generally quick to answer your emails and messages rather than consistently delaying in responding or not even bothering to open the conversation thread (since it's typical for most INTJs to refuse to pay attention to negative whiners, envious gossipers and inauthentic people). 

6. When an INTJ truly cares about you, they'll invite you on a regular basis to join them in attending Islamic lectures or gatherings which they believe are of value, or send links to several articles, websites and educative or motivational videos that they hope can benefit you one way or another.

7. When an INTJ regards you as a real friend, not merely an acquaintance or coworker, you'll notice how they're surprisingly patient, forgiving and lenient or easygoing towards you compared to dozens of other individuals whom they're eager to avoid whenever possible. Also from time to time they may go out of their way to ask if they can visit you and seldom overreact when you postpone or cancel plans to meet up (on very rare occasions).

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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The Mufarridun (the isolated or those who like to isolate themselves) have gone ahead (in gaining rewards)." He was asked, "Who are the Mufarridun?" He Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam replied, "Those men and women who remember Allah much."

[Sahih Muslim]

Arabic/English book reference: Book 16, Hadith 1436 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his best friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are troops collected together. They come close upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109

Sahih Muslim 2638

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/02/note-can-intj-personality-type-feel.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2023/08/tips-its-not-must-to-be-part-of.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/02/poem-friendship-with-intjs-what-are.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/08/note-choosiness-of-most-intjs-when-it.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/12/tips-intj-acquaintance-vs-intj-friend.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/07/note-why-lot-of-intjs-are-not-very.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/08/note-how-most-intj-personality-types.html 

Poem: Immature Guys Lack Good Ethics And Values

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

📝 A good Muslim husband isn't an immature guy - 

A little boy behaving like a girl who's disguised

As a male adult whose huge ego exceeds his height, 

Since the weight of his values is zero he's unwise

And lives much of his lifetime acting like a bored spy - 

~•~

Nosily spying on strangers online and offline, 

Watching pointless vlogs, not doing anything worthwhile

But like a jealous female he envies others' lives, 

While plotting to cause trouble nearly each day and night - 

He lacks ethics and ambition - this immature guy.

~•~

Quick to laugh at people's mistakes, this immature guy  

Is emotionally disturbed and empty inside. 

His foolishness can't be denied when he often fights 

With women like he's controlled by despicable pride. 

He's guilty of ugly manners - this immature guy.

~•~

Remind your husband to not be that immature guy 

Who never bothers to learn Islam but wastes his time 

On nonsense and earning sins which could spoil his next life. 

A guy is immature and so ugly from inside 

When most donkeys are more decent than him and his lies.

~•~

📖 Abu Dharr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Fear Allah (The Almighty) wherever you are, follow a bad deed with a good deed and it will erase it, and behave well with good character towards the people."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1987

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "I enjoin you to treat women well, for the woman was created from a rib and the most curved part of the rib is its highest point. If you try to straighten it, you will break it. If you leave it as it is, it will remain bent. Thus, I enjoin you to be good to women."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3153, Sahih Muslim 1468

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2023/02/note-adult-bullies-and-mean-girls-dont.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-signs-of-immature-adults-what-it.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/03/poem-dont-marry-this-kind-of-guy.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/03/tips-seven-things-you-stop-doing-when.html 

Note: Are All INTJs Always Arrogant?

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

🗒️ Question: A lot of individuals with the INTJ personality type seem very "arrogant", "unapproachable", "scary", "intimidating" or "snobby" while arrogance usually signifies that a stuck-up individual is insecure. In what ways do you, as an INTJ-A, display humility instead of "arrogance"?

📝 Answer: Allah the Almighty knows best. Many individuals may view most INTJs as "arrogant" because generally we: 

1. Are not afraid of speaking the truth and pointing out what needs to be rectified or corrected. 

2. Remain indifferent regarding people's opinions and assumptions about us. 

3. Stay unaffected when we can sense how certain people dispise us, while we are not bothered at all whenever we receive animosity, criticism or negative remarks online and offline.

4. Display absolute indifference when a number of individuals frequently exclude us from their artificial, pretentious or aimless gatherings while denying their undeniable envy, toxicity and insecurities.

5. Enjoy selecting my close friends cautiously and filtering out the inauthentic, unsupportive or incompatible ones when necessary. 

~•~

🌻 How I as an INTJ-A 1w9 can appear and behave more humbly at times, when I: 

1. Acknowledge my fault and mistakes then directly apologize to the person whom I've unintentionally or unknowingly offended. 

2. Try my best for Allah's sake to avoid all sorts of debts, ensuring that I, as much as possible, don't owe any human being anything.

3. Deliberately refrain from taking part in futile gossip and nonsensical debates. 

4. Gladly distance myself from those who fail to reciprocate my attempts to get to know them better and they make it obvious that they're too terrified to connect or they lack integrity.

5. For Allah's sake dismiss and want nothing to do with content and people whose goals, values or temperament immensely differ from mine yet showing readiness or willingness to learn from others if what they can teach can bring me closer to self-development.

6. Unapologetically desist from acting like an obnoxious and inwardly miserable bully.

7. Don't bother altering any aspect about my attitude and personality if I know or firmly believe that I'm not intentionally trying to disrupt anybody's peace. 

8. Refuse to judge people according to their looks and financial status.

9. Return favors and gifts often whenever I'm able to do so rather than treating a connection as though it's one-sided. 

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Charity does not decrease wealth, no one forgives another but that Allah (The Almighty) increases his honor, and no one humbles himself for the sake of Allah but that Allah (Subhanaahu wa Ta'aala) raises his status."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2588

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No one who has the weight of a seed of arrogance (atom's weight of kibr / blameworthy pride) in his heart will enter Paradise." A man said, “But a man likes to have nice clothes and nice shoes.” The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) is Beautiful and He loves beauty. Arrogance is to disregard (or reject) the truth and to look down on the people."

Source: Sahih Muslim 91

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim  

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/02/note-those-with-true-confidence-are-not.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/10/note-some-qualities-of-humble-people.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/poem-what-it-means-to-be-actually.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/02/poem-ways-to-describe-most-intj.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/07/note-some-qualities-of-arrogant-people.html  

https://personalitygrowth.com/heres-how-humble-you-are-according-to-your-personality-type/

Note: What I As An INTJ-A Have Learned From Some MBTI Personality Types

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

📑 Some advice or lessons which we can learn Alhamdulillah from some of the 16 MBTI personality types - from an INTJ: 

1. INFJ - Trust Allah the Almighty always while listening to your intuition without allowing emotions and people's perceptions to negatively influence decision making.

~•~ 

2. ENFJ - The size of a person's social circle doesn't necessarily determine their worth. Just because an individual is carefully selective concerning their choice of close friends it does not mean that they are "lonely" nor concealing bad intentions.

~•~

3. ESFJ and ISFJ - Regularly talking about other people or discussing personal matters isn't reliable evidence that they're special to you. Oftentimes one way to prove that your affection for somebody is true is by respecting their privacy and refusing to disclose sensitive information, particularly if such info actually has nothing to do with you. 

~•~

4. ISTJ - While it's an admirable trait to be organized and diligent, there are occasional moments when it is wiser or way more efficient to try being lenient and flexible.

~•~

5. ESTJ and ENTJ - While it's a positive thing to focus on obtaining results, completing tasks and accomplishing goals, make sure that your deliberate choice at times to disregard some individuals' sensitivity does not compromise your values nor conflict with your beliefs.

~•~

6. ENFP and INFP - While being creative or very imaginative can make you an interesting individual to work with (for some), don't allow excessive hope and yearning for a wide range of possibilities to cause you to become delusional or distracted from the main goal, theme, plan, purpose or idea. 

~•~

7. ISTP and INTP - Never assume that everybody whom Allah the Most Wise decrees you'll meet on earth already knows and comprehends all your thoughts and expectations. There are instances when you need to be clear and more vocal about them if you wish to see more outcomes than wishful thinking. In my opinion, it's okay to remind and emphasize one's instructions even if many may find the reminders superfluous or "annoying".

~•~

8. ESFP and ESTP - While being observant, alert and attentive to details are helpful qualities most of the time, not every single person, thing and online content always deserves your full attention. Know what and who to avoid for Allah's sake. In order to thrive or succeed

Inn-sha-Allah as a Muslim, ensure that your choices and overall conduct don't mislead you into acting like an irrational bully (some ExTPs) due to an offended ego.

~•~

9. ISFP - Sometimes what you want and desire isn't beneficial or for your own good in both worlds. Realize (to some ISFPs who selfishly care more about their wants than the consequences of their actions) that intentional stupidity, stubborn ignorance and unreasonable self-entitlement are not attractive at all.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah (The Almighty) than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2023/07/note-quiz-if-you-are-curious-about.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/11/note-answering-some-questions-regarding.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/10/note-nine-things-which-dont-impress-me.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/04/tips-some-advice-on-how-to-avoid-mbti.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/06/note-more-reflections-on-mbti-typing.html 

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Poem: Some Tips On Dealing With Those Who Mistreat You Due To "Religious Arrogance"

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

🗒️ If I were asked "How would you deal with someone older 

Acting arrogant and "religiously superior" 

And clearly towards you they display ugly manners? 

They exclude you often, loathe it when you've got answers, 

And scowl when you've got some knowledge to share with others?"

~•~

I'd say: Avoid them for Allah's sake. Maintain Sabr. 

Following their Facebook timelines don't even bother. 

If they've got uploads on YouTube don't watch them either. 

Sly and spiteful words from them likewise mustn't matter. 

They lack inner peace with all that envy and rancor.

~•~

If they were truly contented, enriched with Sabr 

And strong faith Imaan distanced them from foul character, 

You wouldn't notice them disclosing ugly manners, 

And doubting your motives is not something they're after 

Daily, so you wonder if they're guilty of kibr -

~•~

...the kind of kibr which makes their eyes roll whenever

You ask questions, have some knowledge to share with others, 

Or correct and advise them when they're caught with errors - 

Wretched pride which compels them to presume "Whatever. 

Only I should speak. I'm religiously much better."

~•~

Whether they're sad, jealous or inwardly insecure, 

Know that Allah shall deal with them in the hereafter. 

Them being a lot older doesn't mean they're wiser. 

Wise people don't let feelings spoil values and manners. 

Rude souls train us to not copy their bad behaviors.

~•~

📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No one who has the weight of a seed (or atom) of arrogance in his heart will enter Paradise." Someone said, "But a man loves to have beautiful clothes and shoes." The beloved Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah (The Almighty) is Beautiful and He (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) loves beauty. Arrogance means rejecting the truth and looking down on the people."

In another narration, the noble Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No one who has the weight of a seed of faith (Imaan) in his heart will enter Hellfire."

Source: Sahih Muslim 91

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/02/note-those-with-true-confidence-are-not.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/poem-what-it-means-to-be-actually.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/07/note-some-qualities-of-arrogant-people.html 

https://www.troid.org/the-culture-of-arrogance-and-entitlement-that-may-befool-the-young-student/