Notes: Some Reminders During These First Ten Days Of Dhul-Hijjah

 الله أكبر. الله أكبر. الله أكبر. 

لا إله إلا الله. 

الله أكبر. الله أكبر. 

و لله الحمد.

🌼

لا حول و لا قوة إلا بالله.

💐

أستغفر الله العظيم و أتوب إليه 

🌻

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Note: Some Reminders From An INTJ Muslimah (36)

 

Note: Some Reminders From An INTJ Muslimah (35)

Poem: When You Seem Intimidating To Some, Expect To Be Envied Or Ignored Sometimes

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

📜 When you've been described as "intimidating" by some 

Or "somewhat scary" by someone whether old or young, 

While you trust Allah the Almighty whilst His servants' 

Opinions and complaints don't affect your decisions, 

Stay firm, don't change yourself to appease Allah's servants.

~•~

When you're intimidating to clowns whose confidence 

Is clearly low or non-existent, very often 

You may go through exclusion in most situations - 

A lot may shun sitting near you while others would run 

Away from any chance to prolong conversations.

~•~

At times you're the topic discussed by jealous women 

Through disgusting rumors or unjust accusations, 

Badly mentioned by snakes who envy your achievements, 

Then ignored on purpose in countless situations, 

Avoided like how the sun's hot rays are sometimes shunned.

~•~

You're too bright or too fierce for some, and that's fine as long 

As you don't purposely aim to oppress anyone.

If you're assertive and don't fear seeming different, 

Those threatened by your strong presence may do what they can 

To make you feel left out or like a lonesome alien.

~•~

Don't be influenced by their nonsense. As a Muslim, 

Strive to pass Allah's tests with patience and resilience. 

Continue researching to enhance intelligence, 

And when you're eschewed by some childish jealous women, 

Move on, thank Allah you're not like insecure humans.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his best friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi

📖 Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu said: "A righteous companion is better than loneliness, and loneliness is better than an evil companion. A good writer is better than one silent, and one silent is better than an evil writer."

Source: Rawdat Al-‘Uqalā 56

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: "If only I had done something else." Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

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Notes: INFJ Door Slam vs INTJ Detachment

 In The Name Of Allah 

The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

Both the INFJ door slam and the INTJ detachment are coping mechanisms used by these personality types to deal with situations or individuals that they find overwhelming or harmful. While there may be some overlap in how they manifest, there are also distinct differences between the two.

1. **INFJ Door Slam**:

   - The INFJ door slam refers to the tendency of INFJs to abruptly cut off contact or emotionally distance themselves from someone who has repeatedly hurt or disappointed them.

   - This action is often a last resort for INFJs after they have tried to address the issues or conflicts in the relationship but have not seen any improvement.

   - The door slam can be triggered by a single significant event or a culmination of smaller incidents that have eroded the INFJ's trust or emotional well-being.

   - INFJs may feel a deep sense of betrayal or sadness when they execute the door slam, as it goes against their desire for harmony and connection.

2. **INTJ Detachment**:

   - INTJ detachment involves withdrawing emotionally from a situation or person in order to maintain objectivity and preserve their mental and emotional energy.

   - Unlike the INFJ door slam, which is often a response to personal hurt or disappointment, INTJ detachment is primarily driven by a rational assessment of the situation.

   - INTJs may detach themselves from a project, goal, or individual if they determine that it is no longer beneficial or aligned with their long-term objectives.

   - Detachment for INTJs is a strategic decision rather than an emotional reaction, and they may continue to interact with the person or situation in a detached manner, focusing on logic and efficiency rather than emotional investment.

In summary, while both the INFJ door slam and the INTJ detachment involve creating distance from something or someone, the door slam is typically an emotional response to personal hurt or betrayal, whereas detachment for INTJs is a strategic decision based on rational evaluation.

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