Tips: Some Advice On How Not To Be Controlled By One's Emotions | Part 2

📚 Islamic PDF book "Tips on how not to be controlled by one's emotions" some advice from sister Mariam Mababaya. You're welcome to share with others for Allah's sake and print as charity sadaqah jaariya:

https://drive.google.com/file/d/12gTUajTyjI0Gnamiw436EMquzE43qzxf/view?usp=drivesdk

Tips: Some Advice On How Not To Be Controlled By One's Emotions | Part 1

📚 Islamic PDF book "Tips on how not to be controlled by one's emotions" some advice from sister Mariam M, you may share with others for Allah's sake and print as charity sadaqah jaariya:

https://drive.google.com/file/d/12gTUajTyjI0Gnamiw436EMquzE43qzxf/view?usp=drivesdk

Tips: 5 Things To Avoid When You Discover That Some Jealous People Backbite About You Regularly

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

🌺 Five things to avoid doing when you discover that several jealous and insecure individuals gossip about you regularly: 

1] Do not doubt nor question your self-worth. Never believe a single word, no matter how slightly true or awfully nonsensical it is, which those gossipmongers maliciously say about you, particularly if they don't really know your life story and complete background. 

2] Don't bother investigating how the silly gossip started, and don't interrogate those gossipers about their actual intent behind the ridiculous jokes and rumors they spread about you. You don't want to waste your time listening to more nonsensical lies which they cowardly invent to relieve their self-hatred, envy and boredom.

3] Never stalk their online posts. Block those toxic users for Allah's sake on social media if necessary. Don't be curious to know what other statements those miserable gossipers have circulated about you. 

Focus on doing whatever you must do to please Only Allah the Almighty Who can avenge you at His own timing.

4] Don't imitate their stupidity by similarly spreading rumors about them or disclosing the secrets which they've told you in the past. Catching a sad clown inventing rumors about you isn't an invitation for you to play the role of an oppressed stand-up comedian in front of naive fans and you begin entertaining them by criticizing the clown who's already overwhelmed by intense jealousy and severe misery. 

5] Don't assemble your team or circle of trusted friends to behave like obnoxious bullies towards those morally inept gossipmongers, attempting to start your own world war or battle of idiocy.

Simply abstain from having unnecessary conversations with those badly brought up species, as much as possible, and take them as ideal examples of the kind of person you would never want to admire, become and copy.

~•~

📖 AbdurRahman Ibn Ghanm RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best servants of Allah (the Almighty) are those who remind you of Allah when they are seen. The worst servants of Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) are those who carry gossip, separating between loved ones and seeking misery for the innocent."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 17998

Grade: Hasan li ghayrihi according to Al-Arna'ut

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do you know who is the bankrupt?" They said, “The one without money or goods is the bankrupt.” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, the bankrupt of my nation are those who come on the Day of Resurrection with prayers, fasting, and charity, but also with insults, slander (gossipping, falsely accusing and spreading rumors), consuming wealth, shedding blood, and beating others. The oppressed will each be given from his good deeds. If his good deeds run out before justice is fulfilled, then their sins will be cast upon him and he will be thrown into the Hellfire."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2581

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever wrongs his brother in his honor or anything else should resolve the matter today before it cannot be resolved with gold and silver coins. If he has good deeds to his credit, they will be taken from him according to the measure of his injustice. If he has no good deeds left, he will bear the evil deeds of the one he has oppressed."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 2317

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do you know what backbiting is?" They said, “Allah and His Messenger (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) know best." The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "It is to mention your brother in a way that he dislikes." It was said, "What do you think if what I said about him is true?" The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If what you say about him is true, it is backbiting. If it is not true, it is slander."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2589

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his best friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/10/tips-on-dealing-with-adult-bullying.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/07/note-avoid-being-close-friends-with.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/09/note-gossip-is-done-by-insecure-and.html 

https://abukhadeejah.com/only-true-friends-and-righteous-companions-will-benefit-you/

Poem: To Every Muslimah Who's Envied By Insecure Gossipmongers

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Dear Muslimah, the subject of most jealous ladies
Who are experts at gossiping when they feel empty -
Don't worry. Don't doubt your worth. By their stupidity
And immature acts triggered by intense jealousy
Don't be affected. Simply pity their misery.
~•~
Most baby donkeys on earth behave more maturely
Than these gossipmongers who if you were to place near
Chimpanzees, most monkeys surpass their maturity.
These gossipers who pat their own backs with such ugly
Words backbite about you due to their grief and envy.
~•~
They can't control their mouths because they're morally weak,
Overcome by envy each time they see you succeed
At showing better manners with grace and dignity.
Your countless achievements disturb their ego while peace
Is something they lack inwardly due to jealousy.
~•~
There's no need to confront them on their buffoonery,
Since they'll probably add more lies to their baloney,
Bunch of nonsense to soothe emotional injury.
Avoid them for Allah's sake. Shun their idiocy.
Feel sorry they loathe themselves for their low self-esteem.
~•~
Maybe they resent the fact that you're clearly pretty,
So blessed in many ways by Allah the Almighty,
And your confidence intimidates them massively.
Rumors are nothing. Jokes can't define reality.
Rise above sad clowns with more patience and piety.
~•~
📖 AbdurRahman Ibn Ghanm RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best servants of Allah (the Almighty) are those who remind you of Allah when they are seen. The worst servants of Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) are those who carry gossip, separating between loved ones and seeking misery for the innocent."
Source: Musnad Ahmed 17998
Grade: Hasan li ghayrihi according to Al-Arna'ut
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do you know who is the bankrupt?" They said, “The one without money or goods is the bankrupt.” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, the bankrupt of my nation are those who come on the Day of Resurrection with prayers, fasting, and charity, but also with insults, slander (gossipping, falsely accusing and spreading rumors), consuming wealth, shedding blood, and beating others. The oppressed will each be given from his good deeds. If his good deeds run out before justice is fulfilled, then their sins will be cast upon him and he will be thrown into the Hellfire."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2581
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever wrongs his brother in his honor or anything else should resolve the matter today before it cannot be resolved with gold and silver coins. If he has good deeds to his credit, they will be taken from him according to the measure of his injustice. If he has no good deeds left, he will bear the evil deeds of the one he has oppressed."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 2317
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do you know what backbiting is?" They said, “Allah and His Messenger (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) know best." The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "It is to mention your brother in a way that he dislikes." It was said, "What do you think if what I said about him is true?" The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If what you say about him is true, it is backbiting. If it is not true, it is slander."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2589
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his best friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/10/tips-on-dealing-with-adult-bullying.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/07/note-avoid-being-close-friends-with.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/09/note-gossip-is-done-by-insecure-and.html 

https://abukhadeejah.com/only-true-friends-and-righteous-companions-will-benefit-you/

Poem: Emotions Are Temporary Tests. Don't Be Controlled By Them.

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

📝 Emotions are like the storm or cold snowy weather. 

Like this world, they're temporary. Most feelings later 

Subside. Emotions are tests which don't last forever. 

Remember that Allah's enemy, shaytan, whispers 

Into people's hearts, hence don't obey shaytan's orders.

~•~

It's from the devil's tactics to promise there's pleasure

And so-called "success" in sinning, so we surrender

Our faith and connection with Allah the Creator. 

Don't listen to what shaytan tells your heart; this liar 

Seeks your failure so he gathers roommates in Hellfire.

~•~

Don't let grief lead to suicide nor cause you to injure 

Yourself. Don't let envy urge you to mistreat others. 

Don't let wrath bring forth injustice. Don't allow anger 

And pride to prevent you from forgiving your mother, 

Father and siblings so you treat them like mere strangers.

~•~

Don't let severe anxiety make you forgo Dhikr. 

Fear Only Allah and trust Him Who has full power 

To control everything on earth and what it covers. 

Don't let unlawful lust compel you to dishonor

Your values due to someone's deceptive exterior.

~•~

Don't let joy make you selfish, greedy for life's "glitter" 

And "treasures" which distract souls from more serious matter. 

If ever you've acted on foul emotions, since you're

Just human, pray that Allah forgives all your errors. 

From your mistakes learn to be more careful and wiser.

~•~

If emotions are like the storm, while the temperature 

Outdoors can't be controlled, then take protective measures.

Shield yourself with firm Taqwa and consistent prayers.

Choose close friends cautiously. Never let your sight wander.

Safeguard your Imaan with true knowledge and reminders.

~•~

That your 'Aqeedah belief is right always ensure, 

Because there's no use in controlling feelings if your 

Actions contain bid'ah and of Tawheed you're unsure. 

Learn more about Islam and stay sincere to secure 

Your heart from the schemes of shaytan the cursed and impure.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Remember often the destroyer of pleasures," by which he meant death.

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2307

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Dharr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah (the Almighty) has pardoned my nation for their mistakes, their forgetfulness, and what they are coerced (forced, compelled) into doing."

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 2043

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Some of the companions came to the Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam and they asked him, "We find within ourselves that which is too grievous to speak of." The noble Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "You have indeed found it so?" They said "yes". The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "That is (a sign of) sincere faith (Imaan)."

In another narration, the Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "That is (evidence or sign of) pure faith (recognizing that shaytan is attempting to distract you because he sees the strength of your faith/Imaan or potential to be pious)." 

Source: Sahih Muslim 132

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.’ Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase 'if only' opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

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📚 Islamic PDF book "Tips on how not to be controlled by one's emotions" some advice from sister Mariam Mababaya, you may share with others for Allah's sake and print as charity sadaqah jaariya:

https://drive.google.com/file/d/12gTUajTyjI0Gnamiw436EMquzE43qzxf/view?usp=drivesdk

May Allah the Almighty accept our good deeds, forgive all our mistakes and make us among the people of Jannatul Ferdaus with Allah's Mercy. Ameen.

~•~

💎 Link to the article on how to deal with five types of emotions as Muslims:

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1q2UKiDvujDdjyAp3LrKnoN8u0UQlO1wB/view?usp=drivesdk 

~•~

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