💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
🗒️ Question: As an INTJ-A personality type, what do you like and dislike about INFJs and ENFJs? How do you differentiate between those two personality types?
📝 Answer: 🔸What I like or admire about most INFJs:
•¶ Their overall quiet confidence, if they're not struggling with low self-esteem.
•¶ Their ability to compassionately see people's good side and give plenty of excuses to those who behave questionably or inappropriately.
•¶ How a lot of INFJs are capable of having understanding, empathy and patience towards INTJs much more than other MBTI personality types can, particularly if they have numerous goals and interests in common.
❎ What I dislike about some INFJs:
¶• When they oftentimes say yes to somebody asking for a favor while it is more advantageous if the INFJ said no, and when they refuse to do something just to maintain "group harmony".
¶• When sometimes they can't provide you with immediate solutions or frank advice which can be put into action, anticipating your "satisfaction" with the fact that at least they attentively listened to you describe a problem.
🔹What I like or admire about many ENFJs:
•¶ How it seems easy for most ENFJs to conduct regular gatherings and speak confidently to a large audience.
•¶ Their generosity and love for sharing what they have a surplus of.
•¶ Their intuitiveness and frequent accuracy in determining people's actual emotions, a skill granted by Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala if they're Muslim and not insecure. For instance, if they can sense that something makes you uncomfortable, they purposely avoid mentioning that thing or placing you anywhere near it as much as possible.
❎ What I dislike about some ENFJs:
¶• When some ENFJs would assume you're "unhappy" or "lonesome" upon witnessing that you're not part of any clique or they feel sorry for you if it's obvious that you don't socialize a lot.
¶• When they side with the majority or crowd at times just to avoid conflict.
📑 How to distinguish ENFJs from INFJs:
•|° INFJs, because they're introverts like INTJs, would be more carefully selective regarding their choice of close friends and/or more reclusive, reserved and mysterious than ENFJs.
•|° Some ENFJs are more likely to give unsolicited advice than INFJs.
INFJs may offer tips only after you've politely requested them to advise you.
•|° Most ENFJs could get lonely if they haven't had meaningful conversations with loved ones in a long time. After several interactions with people online and offline, most INFJs would require some rest or quiet solitude to feel reenergized.
•|° Usually if they regard you as a very close friend, an ENFJ would try to persuade you to join them for a group outing, while an INFJ would give you lots of space and not make it a big deal if you are unable to always meet up with them.
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📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe (not guilty of backbiting, telling lies, and deliberately committing injustice). The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil. By the One (Allah the Almighty) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut
📖 Abu Dharr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Fear Allah wherever you are, follow a bad deed with a good deed and it will erase it, and behave well with good character towards the people."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1987
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi
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