💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
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💌 Divorce is despicable, simply adds more problems,
Stirs up drama in most cases in my opinion,
And shows that those who gave up weren't truly trying
Their best to save the union since what's more important
Is foul pride which exceeds their drive to find solutions.
~•~
Divorce is like doors designed with fake advertisements
Directing to false bargains which I don't want opened,
Even if those who access them are wealthy women
Who regard divorce as "courage" and "independence" -
It's a trap, in my opinion, increasing problems.
~•~
Divorce is like a bridge that leads to dismal islands.
Those who cross it often greet grief instead of "freedom",
And thoughts like "I shouldn't have left" may sometimes tease them,
If the former lovers had a child or some children,
Or the woman's ex was well-received by her parents.
~•~
Divorce is like a neon sign, I can imagine,
Flickering at night and catching drivers' attention,
Causing more destruction and remorse than enjoyment.
Even if large crowds bought its message, I'd stay stubborn
And resilient for Allah's sake with my dear husband.
~•~
Even if divorce disguised itself as a close friend
Pleading, "if you choose me, I guarantee contentment",
I'd likely ditch it with "you're lawful but revolting.".
Most divorcees actually lacked strong faith and patience,
And more than sincere love their ego was important.
~•~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e. her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious (righteous Muslimah) woman (otherwise) you will be a loser."
Sahih Al-Bukhari 5090
In-book reference: Book 67 Hadith 28
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 27
📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whenever a woman asks her husband for a divorce without a strong reason, the fragrance of Paradise (Jannah) becomes forbidden for her."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 2226
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut
📖 Jabir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, shaytan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations (mischief, trouble). One of them says: 'I have done this and this.' shaytan says: 'you have done nothing.' Another one says: 'I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife.' shaytan embraces him and he says: 'you have done well!'"
Source: Sahih Muslim 2813
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
