Note: Eleven Sweet Things From Countless Favors Done By My Dear Husband As An Ambitious ESFJ 3w2

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💚 Eleven cute and sweet things which my dear husband has done, as an ESFJ 3w2, that inspired me to love him even more for Allah's sake (Alhamdulillah):

1🔹 Frequently cooking and preparing many of our meals during the first weeks of us getting married (our marriage Alhamdulillah took place in Shawwaal, after Ramadan. He was 28 while I was 20 that time) Alhamdulillah while I set the table and did the dishes.

2🔹 Playing badminton with me before he became busy with work and being admirably patient with how I'm not really good at sports in general. 

3🔹 Answering a lot of my questions whenever he's in the mood to talk even if some of them are so random and weird. 

4🔹 Feeling visibly upset when he tried his best to send me with one of his cars to the house of a Tausug family for a visit and he had a tough time searching for their residence, then looking so concerned when I told him it's okay I can try walking to their place since it's not far away. 

5🔹 Cheerfully making the Korean finger heart gesture when saying goodbye to us after we quickly visited him at the clinic where he works as a medical doctor. 

6🔹 Thoughtfully reminding me to make sure that I pray all of my prayers as properly as I can with Khushoo' tranquility. 

7🔹 Encouraging me to be more lenient, empathic and understanding towards others. 

8🔹 Easily telling jokes and observing how his cute sense of humor makes him more handsome whenever he tries to share some smiles and laughter. 

9🔹 Regularly buying souvenirs for his family and loved ones after arriving from a long trip or travel (even for some of his colleagues at the clinic he works in) whenever he can afford (like when he traveled to China some years ago and Saudi Arabia recently).

10🔹 Accepting some of the strange requests I often ask him to do like that time when I asked him to have his voice recorded so I can use his recording as the sound for my cellphone alarm and when he accepted my invitation to take some MBTI personality and enneagram tests online.

11🔹 When he lovingly demonstrated and taught me how to wash clothes by hand (including several of my niqabs) since I was more accustomed to using the washing machine back in Riyadh city.

~•~

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best of you are the best to their women."

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 1978

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

https://abukhadeejah.com/characteristics-of-a-righteous-wife-in-light-of-the-quran-and-sunnah-part-1/

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/07/note-esfj-husband-and-intj-wife.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/12/note-how-intj-wife-connects-with-her.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/07/note-esfj-husband-and-intj-wife.html 

https://personalitygrowth.com/a-better-understanding-of-the-esfj-male/

Note: Some Reminders From An INTJ Muslimah (30)

 

Poem: Have Good Thoughts About Allah The Almighty And Think Well Of Yourself

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Don't just be kind to others but be nice to yourself.

Think well of Allah and positive thoughts that can help 

You as a Muslim and in your emotional health.

With trust in Allah and good mindset, good moods are felt.

~•~

Instead of thinking, "I failed again. I'm a failure.

A loser." Believe that you're a winner with Sabr.

You thrive if you patiently accept Allah's Qadr, 

Inspired to do better to win in the Hereafter.

~•~

Instead of thinking, "I'm crazy for falling in love

Irresistibly with someone whom I cannot have." 

Believe you are being tested by Allah Above. 

Pass tests with Taqwa and Du'as. Know you're strong enough.

~•~

Instead of thinking, "I'm useless, boring as can be.

I'm worthless." Recall your purpose and best qualities.

To be Allah's loyal slave is a noble duty. 

By serving Allah rightly, you're special already.

~•~

Instead of thinking, "I'm lonely. Nobody loves me."

Be contented with Allah's Love, Guidance and Mercy, 

Aware that Angels are nearby recording daily, 

And what remain with you after death are your good deeds.

~•~

Instead of thinking, "I'm ugly. I hate my physique."

Remember Allah designed you so you look unique. 

Adorn your heart with faith, accepting Allah's Decree, 

And note your acts, not appearance, are what Allah sees.

~•~

Instead of thinking, "I'm so poor. I can't afford much." 

Understand that your wealth come from Allah the Most Just.

Focus on what Allah chose for you, not what you lack.

Aim for Jannah's rewards, not dunya's joys that distract.

~•~ 

Instead of thinking, "I'm too tired. Stressed. Can't live this way."

Believe that when Allah loves you, trials escalate.

Whenever you slip, rise and stand wiser from mistakes.

To stop shaytan's plots for you to quit be unafraid.

~•~

Think well of Allah Almighty, the Most Kind and Just.

Practice positive self-talk. Pursue what Allah loves.

Acknowledge that hardships are there for sins to be washed 

And Allah often tests us because by Him we're loved.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "Allah the Almighty says: 'I am as My servant expects Me and I am with him as he remembers Me. If he remembers Me in himself, then I will remember him in Myself. If he mentions Me in a gathering, then I will mention him in a larger gathering. When he draws near to Me by the span of his hand, I draw near him by the length of a cubit. When he draws near Me by the length of a cubit, I draw near him by the length of a fathom. When he comes to Me walking, I will come to him running.'"

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6970

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah has pardoned my nation for what occurs within themselves (evil thoughts or feelings), as long as they do not speak of it or act upon it."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6287

Sahih Muslim 127

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

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https://abukhadeejah.com/how-to-ask-allah-for-wellbeing-safety-security-in-these-difficult-times/