💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
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🗒️ Some things about you which could justify the jealousy of a number of females who treat you disrespectfully to pacify their insecurities (still their envy is unreasonable since Allah the Most Wise is the One Who granted you these):
1] You were born in the city which they wish they were born in.
2] Your mother and father are clearly more educated, knowledgeable, affluent, caring and/or supportive than their parents.
3] Your parents did a better job than theirs in making sure that you learn about Islam and attain the right education.
4] You can understand and speak in Arabic language much better than they can.
5] They acknowledge the fact that you are more good-looking than they are.
6] You married earlier than they did, or you're blessed with a spouse while they are single.
7] Your good manners surpass theirs, and seeing you deal with others in general politely makes them feel incompetent.
8] You have a skill or talent which they wish they had.
9] They resent how you can effortlessly move on from awkward situations and conflict while they struggle a lot with low self-esteem.
10] You traveled to more countries than they have, Alhamdulillah, or you've been to Makkah and Madinah while they haven't done the same yet.
11] Your overall assertiveness, confidence and strong personality as well as the ability to control your emotions intimidate them a lot.
12] All in all your life story, from their viewpoint, is evidently more interesting, fascinating and meaningful than theirs.
13] Your empathy, resilience, determination to seek the truth, awe-inspiring patience in marriage, and enthusiasm to uplift others for Allah's sake signify that you're inwardly at peace while they despise their internal misery which triggers them to act obnoxiously.
14] You're more aware of certain topics or issues than they are. Your eagerness to improve your knowledge makes them feel morally or intellectually inferior.
15] They witness how your connection with Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala seems stronger or a lot more rewarding than theirs currently.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of envy, for it erases good deeds just as fire devours wood or grass."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4903
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Faith and envy do not combine within a believing servant."
In another narration, the Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Greed and faith are never combined in the heart of a servant."
Source: Sunan Al-Nasā’ī 3109
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
