🗒️ Three obvious signs that a person with the INTJ personality type doesn't consider you as a friend:
1] They intentionally refrain from asking you many questions. The more interested an INTJ is in developing a friendship or connection with you, the more they ask you, out of care and curiosity, about your concerns and personal life. The more they dislike you, the more indifferent, apathetic, unapproachable, serious and quiet they seem when you're around.
2] While you may be neighbors or work in the same workplace, they go out of their way to avoid unnecessary interactions with you. If there's a requirement to approach you, they do their best to keep the conversation as concise as possible.
3] They never check or go through any of your accounts on social media. When an INTJ is unwilling to connect with you, whatever you say online and offline doesn't matter to them.
💬 Five things which would cause most INTJs to distance themselves from you:
1] You've said or done something in the past which bothered them and you haven't properly apologized for that misunderstanding.
2] You've displayed that you have the potential to cowardly gossip and criticize people behind their backs.
3] They discovered that you've lied to them numerous times and you have proven to be very unreliable.
4] They can sense that you're a greedy opportunist who selfishly cares a lot more about their own wants than others' needs.
5] They realized that they can't learn anything valuable from you and your presence doesn't inspire them in any way.
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📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
Al-Azimabadi said, “That he hates for the sake of Allah does not mean he harms the one he hates. Rather, the hatred is for his unbelief and disobedience.”
Source: 'Awn Al-Ma’būd 4681
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