Note: The 13th, 14th And 15th Of This Year's Sha'baan 1443 (2022)

⚪ The three white days (Ayyaam al-beedh) this Sha'baan (March 2022): 

13th of Sha'baan: Wednesday, March 16

14th of Sha'baan: Thursday, March 17

15th of Sha'baan: Friday, March 18

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📖 Narrated Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: My friend (the noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) advised me to observe three things: To fast three days of each month; to pray two rak'aat of Duha prayer (forenoon prayer); and to pray Salat Al-Witr before sleeping."

Sahih Al-Bukhari 1981 In-book reference: Book 30, Hadith 88 USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 3, Book 31, Hadith 202

📖 Abu Dharr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "O Abu Dharr, if you are going to fast three days of the month, then fast on the thirteenth, fourteenth, and fifteenth days."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 761

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Hadith: The Virtues Of Fasting A Lot Of Sunnah Fasts In Sha'baan / Sha'ban

📖 Usamah ibn Zayd RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, I do not see you fasting any month as much as you fast during Sha'ban.” The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "It (Sha'baan) is a month which (a lot of) people neglect between the months of Rajab and Ramadan. It is a month in which the deeds are raised to the Rabb (Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) of the worlds and I like for my deeds to be raised while I am fasting."

Source: Sunan An-Nasā’ī 2357

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Albani

Note: Five Signs That You Are Contented With Being Your Husband's Loyal Wife

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

📑 Five signs that you're completely contented with your marriage and you don't regret marrying your husband at all: 

1] It's easy to love your husband for Allah's sake sincerely and unconditionally. When he makes mistakes, you don't feel upset easily and whether he apologizes immediately or eventually, you forgive him to please Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala readily. 

2] Seeing other couples portray their affection to one another, attending weddings and listening to a friend gush over how much she loves her husband regularly can't arouse jealousy but rather they inspire you to love your husband even more for Allah's sake with admirable loyalty. 

3] You don't have a single crush on anybody besides the man whom Allah the Almighty wisely chose as your husband and soulmate. If ever you find some individuals attractive for their steadfast faith/Imaan, confident personality and integrity, you're capable of avoiding needless interactions with them faithfully. 

4] You wholeheartedly believe that even if you couldn't spend time with your husband as often as you liked, as you're in a polygynous marriage or he works in a different city, he's the only guy on earth whom you'd stay married to for as long as he's alive. His frequent absence doesn't cause your love for him to decrease. Thanking Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala for having a lovable husband is something you do dedicatedly.

5] You can imagine unapologetically rejecting every marriage proposal from interested suitors if ever your spouse asked for divorce, and you'd await his request for a second or third wedding with him patiently.

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📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim  

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan." 

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664 

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/01/poem-effect-of-loving-my-husband-for.html  

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/12/poem-dont-regret-marrying-someone.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/11/poem-advice-for-muslim-wives-to-not.html 

Poem: Don't Marry This Kind Of Guy

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 To single Muslim females who sincerely aspire 

To get married someday, become dedicated wives, 

And aim to please Allah more through a blessed marriage life: 

Don't accept marriage proposals from the kind of guys 

Who desire you after liking your photos online. 

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Don't marry a guy who just likes you for looking fine, 

Who enjoys staring at women with wandering eyes, 

And who'd quickly desert you anytime he desires 

When he finds another woman who looks more sublime, 

Like a child who leaves unfinished meals for sweeter bites. 

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Most boys who prefer brief joys to beauty from inside 

Wouldn't care about how you feel and what you require 

If you gained weight or revealed blemishes for some time.

Why bother agreeing to be a devoted wife 

Of one who demands perfection while he's flawed likewise? 

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The man whom you can marry for Allah the Most Wise 

Should be one who strives to be pious and who acquires 

Income through lawful means and he's sincere from inside, 

Willing to take good care of you, and what caught his eye 

Isn't your status but your striving for Paradise. 

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Marry a Muslim whose belief and manners are right, 

Despite not being rich yet or he has a first wife, 

As long as loving you is not something he would hide. 

Pray Salat Al-Istikhaara before you decide, 

And throughout life seek blessings from Allah day and night.

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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If someone proposes marriage to you whose religion and character satisfies you, then you should accept it. If you do not do so, there will be trials (fitna / fitan) on the earth and the spread of corruption."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1084

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 

📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e. her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a loser."

Sahih Al-Bukhari 5090

In-book reference: Book 67 Hadith 28

USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 27 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/09/poem-way-you-perceive-marriage-can.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/09/tips-when-to-reject-and-when-to-accept.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/10/note-can-woman-accept-muslims-marriage.html 

https://youtu.be/8ECAp7_t3zg 

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