Random Note: Some Notes On Who To Invite And Who Not To Invite

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Each MBTI type would have different selection criteria based on their cognitive functions and social preferences. Here’s how each type might decide who to invite and who to leave out, in three ways:

Analysts (NTs)

INTJ

Selective Relevance – Invites people they see as intellectually or strategically valuable.

Minimal Drama – Avoids those who are emotionally draining or socially unpredictable.

Efficiency in Socializing – Prefers a small, meaningful group over a large, chaotic crowd.

ENTJ

Power Network – Invites people who can offer strategic or professional connections.

Energetic Engagement – Avoids passive or socially dull individuals.

Leadership Potential – Prefers ambitious, competent, and productive guests.

INTP

Stimulating Minds – Invites people who enjoy deep discussions and intellectual debates.

Avoids Small Talkers – Excludes those who rely on superficial conversation.

Experimental Vibe – Prefers quirky or unconventional thinkers over mainstream personalities.

ENTP

Chaos-Friendly – Invites fun, unpredictable, and lively individuals.

Avoids Boredom – Leaves out anyone who kills the energy or resists debate.

Opportunity-Based – Prefers people with interesting projects, ideas, or connections.

Diplomats (NFs)

INFJ

Depth Over Quantity – Invites those with whom they share deep emotional or intellectual connections.

Avoids Superficiality – Excludes those who lack authenticity or meaningful engagement.

Protects Energy – Prefers a small, emotionally safe group over an overwhelming crowd.

ENFJ

Community-Oriented – Invites people who foster harmony and positive group dynamics.

Avoids Disruptors – Excludes those who create tension or social awkwardness.

Uplifts the Group – Prefers guests who inspire or emotionally support others.

INFP

Values Match – Invites those who align with their deeply held beliefs and ideals.

Avoids Fake People – Leaves out those who seem insincere or judgmental.

Emotional Comfort – Prefers people who provide a sense of emotional safety.

ENFP

Exciting Energy – Invites spontaneous, fun, and open-minded individuals.

Avoids Control Freaks – Keeps out those who stifle creativity or impose rigid rules.

Potential for Adventure – Prefers guests who bring new ideas, experiences, or perspectives.

Sentinels (SJs)

ISTJ

Proven Reliability – Invites those they trust and who have shown loyalty.

Avoids Unpredictability – Excludes flaky or irresponsible individuals.

Structured Guest List – Prefers a well-organized, appropriate mix of people.

ESTJ

Strong Social Standing – Invites people with good reputations and competence.

Avoids Slackers – Excludes those who are lazy, unserious, or overly emotional.

Practicality First – Prefers guests who contribute something meaningful.

ISFJ

Long-Term Bonds – Invites people they have cared for or who have supported them.

Avoids Conflict – Keeps out people who might create tension or drama.

Familiarity Over Novelty – Prefers a warm, familiar crowd over new acquaintances.

ESFJ

Balanced Social Mix – Invites a range of people to ensure everyone feels included.

Avoids Social Misfits – Excludes those who might struggle to fit in.

People Who Need It – Prefers to invite those who might feel left out otherwise.

Explorers (SPs)

ISTP

No-Nonsense Vibes – Invites people they genuinely like and can be themselves around.

Avoids Neediness – Excludes overly emotional or dependent individuals.

Keeps it Open – Prefers a flexible, low-maintenance crowd with no pressure.

ESTP

Maximum Fun Factor – Invites people who bring energy and excitement.

Avoids Killjoys – Keeps out overly sensitive or rigid individuals.

Opportunities First – Prefers guests who bring status, connections, or significant value.

ISFP

Authenticity First – Invites those who share their artistic, creative, or deep values.

Avoids Insensitivity – Excludes those who dismiss emotions or personal expression.

Vibe Over Logic – Prefers an aesthetically and emotionally pleasing crowd.

ESFP

"Life of the Party" – Invites those who make things fun and lively.

Avoids Buzzkills – Keeps out judgmental or overly serious people.

Spontaneous Pick – Prefers an unpredictable but exciting mix of guests.

⤴️ ChatGPT

Each MBTI type has distinct preferences and dislikes when it comes to social gatherings. Here are 3 to 5 types of people that each MBTI would refuse to invite and why:

Analysts (NTs)

INTJ
❌ Attention Seekers – Drains energy and disrupts meaningful discussions.
❌ Emotionally Needy People – Creates unnecessary drama.
❌ Shallow Small Talkers – Wastes time with surface-level conversation.
❌ People Who Don’t Respect Boundaries – INTJs dislike forced socializing.
❌ Unreliable Guests – Late arrivals, cancelers, or those who overpromise.

ENTJ
❌ Passive-Aggressive People – Finds them inefficient and manipulative.
❌ Unambitious Slackers – No patience for people with no drive.
❌ People Who Fear Debate – A good conversation must be stimulating.
❌ Those Who Challenge Their Authority Without Merit – They respect competence, not defiance for defiance’s sake.
❌ Negative Thinkers – Hates defeatist attitudes.

INTP
❌ Rigid Rule Followers – Kills the free flow of ideas.
❌ People Who Demand Emotional Energy – INTPs prefer intellectual engagement over emotional labor.
❌ Fake or Pretentious People – Can’t stand superficiality.
❌ People Who Don’t Appreciate Their Theories – If you roll your eyes at their thoughts, you’re out.
❌ Judgmental Traditionalists – Clashes with their unconventional thinking.

ENTP
❌ Easily Offended People – Can’t handle their love for debate.
❌ Killjoys – Drains the fun out of spontaneous interactions.
❌ Overly Serious or Stiff People – ENTPs enjoy a relaxed, chaotic atmosphere.
❌ People Who Can’t Handle Roasting – ENTPs test relationships through playful teasing.
❌ People Who Fear Change – They get bored with rigid thinkers.

Diplomats (NFs)

INFJ
❌ Self-Absorbed People – Can’t stand those who don’t listen.
❌ Overly Aggressive or Confrontational Types – Prefers harmony over drama.
❌ Manipulative or Fake Individuals – Can detect inauthenticity from a mile away.
❌ Gossipers – Doesn’t want their private matters discussed elsewhere.
❌ Energy Drainers – Avoids "emotional vampires".

ENFJ
❌ Cold or Distant People – Needs emotional connection.
❌ People Who Refuse to Get Along – ENFJs value group harmony.
❌ Lazy or Indifferent People – Gets frustrated by a lack of passion.
❌ Rude or Disrespectful Guests – Cannot tolerate a lack of social grace.
❌ Chronic Complainers – Doesn’t want negativity at their event.

INFP
❌ Insensitive or Harsh People – Struggles with bluntness.
❌ Materialistic, Superficial Individuals – Values depth over appearances.
❌ People Who Mock Their Beliefs – INFPs take their values seriously.
❌ Overly Competitive or Status-Obsessed Guests – Feels drained by power-hungry types.
❌ People Who Don’t Appreciate Art or Creativity – Wouldn’t connect with them.

ENFP
❌ Controlling or Strict Rule Followers – Needs freedom.
❌ People Who Reject New Ideas – Hates close-mindedness.
❌ Serious, Uptight Individuals – Kills their fun energy.
❌ People Who Expect Predictability – ENFPs thrive on spontaneity.
❌ Debbie Downers – Won’t tolerate constant negativity.

Sentinels (SJs)

ISTJ
❌ Unreliable People – Hates no-shows and flaky guests.
❌ Loud, Attention-Seeking Individuals – Prefers calm and order.
❌ Disrespectful Guests – Does not tolerate bad manners.
❌ Lazy or Irresponsible People – ISTJs admire discipline.
❌ Rule-Breakers – They like things done properly.

ESTJ
❌ Overly Emotional or Sensitive People – Prefers logic over feelings.
❌ Indecisive or Passive Individuals – Hates inaction.
❌ People Who Can’t Take Constructive Criticism – ESTJs are blunt and direct.
❌ Lazy, Unmotivated Guests – Prefers hardworking, ambitious company.
❌ Messy, Disorganized People – Will find them frustrating.

ISFJ
❌ Rude or Disrespectful People – ISFJs value politeness.
❌ Loud, Overbearing Individuals – Prefers a peaceful environment.
❌ People Who Create Drama – Hates tension and conflict.
❌ Flaky Guests – Dislikes last-minute cancellations.
❌ People Who Ignore Social Norms – Favors tradition and etiquette.

ESFJ
❌ People Who Don’t Socialize Well – Doesn’t want anyone feeling left out.
❌ Those Who Are Too Self-Centered – Prefers guests who think about others.
❌ Harsh, Critical Individuals – Doesn’t want negativity in their space.
❌ Uncooperative Guests – Prefers team players.
❌ Unkind or Dismissive People – Wants warmth and connection.

Explorers (SPs)

ISTP
❌ Clingy, Overly Emotional People – Hates neediness.
❌ Rule-Enforcers – Prefers to do things their own way.
❌ Gossipers or Drama-Starters – Has zero patience for unnecessary talk.
❌ People Who Can’t Handle Sarcasm – ISTPs joke in a deadpan way.
❌ People Who Expect Too Much Planning – Prefers last-minute spontaneity.

ESTP
❌ Boring, Uptight Individuals – ESTPs need excitement.
❌ Overly Sensitive People – Will find them usually exhausting.
❌ Rule-Lovers – Prefers a relaxed, spontaneous atmosphere.
❌ People Who Need Too Much Emotional Support – Doesn’t want to play therapist.
❌ Fun Killers – Anyone who prevents a good time.

ISFP
❌ Judgmental or Controlling People – Needs personal freedom.
❌ Competitive, Aggressive Individuals – Prefers harmony.
❌ Fake, Pretentious Guests – Dislikes inauthenticity.
❌ People Who Disrespect Creativity – Art and self-expression matter to them.
❌ Energy Drainers – Prefers chill, laid-back company.

ESFP
❌ Overly Serious or Negative People – Will ruin the fun.
❌ People Who Can’t Handle Partying – Wants guests who enjoy spontaneity.
❌ Strict, Rule-Following Individuals – Prefers freedom.
❌ Overly Reserved or Awkward Guests – Wants high-energy socializers.
❌ People Who Judge Their Lifestyle – ESFPs dislike being restricted.

If you're given permission to invite anyone to someone else's event, you should approach it ethically and respectfully. Here are some dos and don’ts to ensure that your invitations align with social etiquette and the host's expectations.

✅ DOs (Best Practices for Ethical Inviting)

Ask the Host for Clarifications

Before inviting anyone, confirm with the host if there are any limits (e.g., number of guests, preferred crowd).

Check if there are specific preferences (e.g., close friends only, family-friendly).

Consider the Host’s Comfort

Invite people who will enhance the gathering rather than cause discomfort or awkwardness.

Avoid bringing someone the host dislikes or has had issues with.

Stay Within the Event’s Purpose & Vibe

If it’s a casual get-together, invite people who match that tone.

If it’s an intimate gathering, don’t turn it into an open party.

Inform Your Invitees Properly

Let them know it’s not your event and that they are guests of a guest.

Share any relevant details (dress code, expectations, contributions, etc.).

Be Mindful of Space & Resources

Consider the venue’s capacity—don’t invite too many people.

If food and drinks are provided, don’t bring extra guests who will overconsume without contributing.

Check if RSVP is Needed

If the event has limited space or seating, confirm with the host before finalizing invitations.

Take Responsibility for Your Guests

Ensure that the people you invite behave appropriately and don’t cause issues.

If someone you invited misbehaves, be ready to step in and handle the situation.

❌ DON’Ts (Mistakes to Avoid)

Don’t Assume Unlimited Invitations

Just because you’re allowed to invite others doesn’t mean you should invite a whole crowd.

Don’t Invite Someone the Host Wouldn’t Want

Avoid people who have had past conflicts with the host.

If unsure, ask before inviting.

Don’t Change the Event’s Dynamic

If it’s a professional or intimate setting, don’t invite someone who might be loud, disruptive, or out of place.

Don’t Make It About You

Don’t use the opportunity to invite only your friends and make it feel like your personal gathering.

Don’t Bring Plus-Ones Without Warning

Avoid last-minute “Oh, by the way, I brought a friend.” Always confirm extra guests beforehand.

Don’t Invite People Who Might Cause Drama

If you know someone tends to argue, get jealous, or dominate conversations, think twice before inviting them.

Don’t Ignore the Host’s Instructions

If they say “only close friends,” don’t bring acquaintances.

If it’s a quiet dinner, don’t bring someone with the potential to cause unnecessary noise and drama.

Don’t Pressure People to Accept Your Invitation

Let them decide whether they want to attend.

Bottom Line

✔ Always prioritize the host’s comfort, event purpose, and guest experience.
✔ If in doubt, ask before inviting.
✔ Be mindful of space, resources, and social harmony.

⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

❓ Question: As an INTJ-A one of the qualities of people I wouldn't invite are those who are inconsistent with their replies to many of my messages, as though they answer only if doing so is of benefit to them and they won't respond depending on their fluctuating moods. What does that say about me?
💻 ChatGPT: That says a lot about your values in relationships and communication. As an INTJ-A, you likely prioritize consistency, reliability, and mutual respect in interactions. Here’s what this preference reveals about you:

You Value Reciprocity & Intentionality

You’re not interested in one-sided interactions where people only engage when it serves them.

You expect genuine effort in communication, not just convenience-based responses.

You Dislike Emotional Volatility & Unreliability

People who respond based on fluctuating moods appear unstable and unpredictable, which likely frustrates your need for structured interactions.

You prefer people who are consistent and rational, rather than emotionally reactive.

You Have Strong Boundaries

You don’t entertain relationships where you feel like an option rather than a priority.

If someone’s inconsistent behavior signals lack of respect or reliability, you remove them from your circle unapologetically.

You Prefer Efficiency & Clarity

Unclear communication patterns waste your time and mental energy.

You prefer people who state their intentions clearly rather than leaving you to guess whether they’ll engage or not.

You See Through Manipulative or Opportunistic Behavior

If someone only replies when they benefit, it signals self-serving tendencies, which you quickly detect and reject.

You don’t tolerate people who exploit connections rather than genuinely nurture them.

Bottom Line

You expect rational, reliable, and intentional communication, and you don’t entertain people who play mind games, act inconsistently, or fail to respect mutual effort.

⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

Note: Some Reminders From An INTJ Muslimah (79)

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Note: Self-Respect VS Embarrassing Oneself

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If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid chasing after people who clearly do not value you because people who do that often end up feeling used and unappreciated.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid oversharing personal struggles with strangers or on social media because people who do that often invite unnecessary judgment and gossip.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid begging for attention from others because people who do that usually end up being pitied rather than admired.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid constantly apologizing for things you didn’t do wrong because people who do that train others to take advantage of their guilt.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid dressing in a way that contradicts your values just to impress others because people who do that often feel uncomfortable and regretful afterward.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid gossiping about others to fit in because people who do that become untrustworthy and eventually find themselves gossiped about too.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid tolerating mistreatment from friends or family out of fear of being alone because people who do that end up drained and undervalued.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid forcing friendships with people who clearly don’t reciprocate your efforts because people who do that waste their energy on one-sided relationships.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid posting desperate or attention-seeking content online because people who do that often lose credibility and self-worth in the process.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid speaking too loudly or inappropriately in public just to be noticed because people who do that usually embarrass themselves more than impress anyone.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid making a scene in public over minor inconveniences because people who do that appear emotionally unstable and difficult to be around.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid blindly following trends that contradict your principles because people who do that eventually lose their identity and integrity.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid interrupting or talking over others to seem important because people who do that end up looking rude and insecure.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid overspending on luxury items just to impress others because people who do that often struggle financially while trying to maintain a false image.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid tolerating a relationship where you are consistently disrespected because people who do that slowly lose their confidence and happiness.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid changing your personality just to be liked because people who do that attract shallow relationships based on pretense.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid allowing others to humiliate you without standing up for yourself because people who do that are often seen as weak and easy to manipulate.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid clinging to past friendships that have become toxic because people who do that keep themselves stuck in unhealthy cycles.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid acting irrationally or inappropriately just for attention because people who do that end up being seen as desperate rather than likable.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid reacting impulsively to every negative comment or slight because people who do that allow others to control their emotions.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid constantly comparing yourself to others because people who do that never find peace or satisfaction in their own journey.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid forcing your way into social circles that clearly don’t welcome you because people who do that end up looking needy and out of place.

If you truly have some self-respect, then avoid staying silent when someone disrespects you because people who do that teach others that they can continue treating them poorly.
⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT
💻 ChatGPT: You know that someone truly respects themselves if they walk away from relationships that consistently drain or disrespect them.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they set boundaries and enforce them without feeling guilty.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they speak with confidence without needing to prove themselves to others.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they don’t tolerate being belittled or humiliated, no matter who it comes from.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they prioritize personal growth over seeking external validation.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they stay true to their principles, even when faced with social pressure.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they take care of their appearance and hygiene without relying on others’ approval.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they know when to be silent and when to speak up for themselves.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they don’t waste time begging for attention from people who ignore them.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they take responsibility for their mistakes instead of making excuses.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they don’t overshare personal struggles with just anyone.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they don’t change their personality just to fit in.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they can handle criticism without feeling personally attacked.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they walk with confidence and maintain good posture in public.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they choose to stay silent instead of engaging in petty arguments.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they don’t lower their standards just to be in a connection or toxic friendship.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they choose quality over quantity when it comes to establishing and maintaining friendships.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they maintain emotional control instead of reacting impulsively.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they invest their time in meaningful goals instead of mindless distractions.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they refuse to let others guilt-trip them into doing things they don’t want to do.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they dress appropriately for different occasions while still staying true to their style.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they don’t seek validation through excessive social media posting.

You know that someone truly respects themselves if they focus on improving their skills rather than just showing off.

💻 ChatGPT: You're not respecting yourself if you keep chasing people who don’t value you. Instead, do more self-improvement and surround yourself with those who appreciate you.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep tolerating disrespect just to avoid confrontation. Instead, do more setting firm boundaries and enforcing them.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep apologizing for things that aren’t your fault. Instead, do more standing up for yourself with confidence.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep oversharing personal problems with people who don’t care. Instead, do more confiding in trusted individuals who genuinely support you.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep comparing yourself to others. Instead, do more focusing on your own progress and personal growth.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep accepting one-sided friendships. Instead, do more surrounding yourself with people who sincerely reciprocate your kindness and effort.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep pretending to be someone you're not to fit in. Instead, do more embracing your true self and connecting with those who value integrity and authenticity.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep overextending yourself for people who wouldn’t do the same for you. Instead, do more prioritizing your own well-being.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep making decisions just to please others. Instead, do more choosing what aligns with your values and happiness.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep engaging in gossip to feel included. Instead, do more meaningful conversations that add value to your life.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep seeking validation through social media likes and comments. Instead, do more finding fulfillment in real-life achievements and connections.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep letting people use you for their benefit. Instead, do more recognizing your worth and walking away from manipulative relationships.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep dressing in a way that contradicts your values just for approval. Instead, do more expressing yourself in a way that aligns with your beliefs.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep accepting toxic behavior in relationships. Instead, do more prioritizing self-worth and demanding mutual respect.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep holding onto grudges that drain your energy. Instead, do more letting go and focusing on your peace.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep sacrificing your goals to satisfy others. Instead, do more pursuing your dreams with determination.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep overreacting emotionally to minor issues. Instead, do more practicing patience and self-control.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep lowering your standards for temporary companionship. Instead, do more waiting for relationships that truly value and uplift you.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep allowing fear of rejection to hold you back. Instead, do more taking risks and believing in your abilities.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep making yourself small to make others comfortable. Instead, do more embracing your intelligence and confidence unapologetically.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep seeking closure from people who hurt you. Instead, do more creating your own closure and moving forward for Allah's sake.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep dwelling on past mistakes. Instead, do more learning from them and growing into a better version of yourself.

You're not respecting yourself if you keep wasting time on petty or unimportant things that don’t align with your values. Instead, do more investing in activities that truly enrich your life (in both worlds).
⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

Note: Being Famous Online Or Having Lots Of Supporters Does Not Always Mean Allah Loves Them

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The message "Being "famous vloggers" & "influencers" w/ many fans isn't proof that Allah loves them. shaytan is popular & worse of all servants." emphasizes that having fame, followers, and influence is not necessarily a sign of Allah’s love or favor. It warns against equating worldly popularity with divine approval, as even the worst of beings—shaytan (satan)—has significant influence and countless followers. Popularity does not guarantee righteousness or nearness to Allah the Almighty.

Core Meanings in 33 Sentences:

Many people assume that having a large audience means someone is blessed or favored by Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

However, fame and influence can be a test rather than a reward.

shaytan is widely known and has led billions of people astray.

Despite his popularity, he is the worst of all created beings and the most despised servant of Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

Likewise, many influencers and vloggers may be admired by millions but engage in sinful or harmful behavior.

A large following does not reflect moral superiority or divine favor.

Some influencers spread materialism, vanity, and immoral values.

Having a lot of wealth, fans, or status does not mean someone is truly successful in the sight of Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

Real success is attaining Allah’s pleasure, not human admiration.

A person with no or few followers but sincere worship is better than an influencer leading others astray.

The world often values entertainment over righteousness.

Many people follow influencers who promote haram activities.

shaytan misleads countless individuals and his fate is Hell jahannam.

Likewise, influencers who mislead others may be accountable on the Day of Judgment.

True guidance comes from Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, not from social media trends.

Some famous individuals may use their platform for good.

Others may use it for deception, pride, or corruption.

Having many fans can feed arrogance and distance one from humility.

Popularity can sometimes be a tool of fitnah (trial).

People who seek fame for worldly gain may lose in the Hereafter.

Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala tests His servants with wealth, beauty, and status.

Just because something is popular does not mean it is right or worth following and admiring.

The majority can be misguided.

In the Noble Qur'an there are some warnings against blindly following the crowd.

The noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam was not the most followed person in his time, yet he was the most beloved to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

Those who call to good may have fewer followers than those who promote falsehood.

Influencers should be mindful of the responsibility that comes with their reach.

They will be questioned about how they used their influence.

Even religious influencers should guard their intentions.

Seeking Allah’s pleasure should be the priority, not seeking validation from people.

Followers can be a blessing or a curse depending on how they are influenced.

True honor comes from Allah the Most Wise, not from social media metrics.

One’s status in the Hereafter matters far more than their status online.

7 Examples for Clarification:

A vlogger posts extravagant lifestyle content, promoting materialism and greed—millions admire them, but this does not mean Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala loves them.

A famous influencer encourages sinful behavior like immodesty and haram relationships—many follow them, yet they are spreading what displeases Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

A social media star mocks religious people and gains millions of supporters—despite their popularity, their actions distance them from Allah’s Mercy.

A wealthy YouTuber flaunts luxury cars and encourages envy—having riches and lots of followers or subscribers does not mean they are loved by Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

A celebrity influencer promotes arrogance and self-obsession—despite their fans, they may be failing in their spiritual journey.

A lesser-known scholar teaches Islam sincerely—though they have fewer followers, their sincerity makes them more beloved to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

The noble Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam sometimes faced opposition yet he was and is the most beloved servant of Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

In summary, fame is not proof of righteousness, and true success is measured by Allah’s standards, not by human admiration.
⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

⚠️ Never solely rely on AI (artificial intelligence) regarding fatawa or religious verdicts.

Note: More Info About The 16 MBTI Personality Types - Most Likable To Least

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Top 5 Most Likable MBTI Types & Why People Like Them

ESFJ ("The Caregiver")

ENFP ("The Campaigner")

ENFJ ("The Protagonist")

ESFP ("The Entertainer")

ISFJ ("The Defender")

7 Reasons Behind Their Likability:

Warm & Friendly – They easily create a welcoming atmosphere, making people feel comfortable around them.

Emotionally Supportive – These types often provide comfort and encouragement, which draws people in.

Good Social Skills – They excel at small talk, reading emotions, and making others feel valued.

Charismatic & Engaging – Their enthusiasm, humor, or ability to inspire others makes them magnetic.

Helpful & Considerate – They genuinely enjoy assisting people and making life easier for others.

Adaptable to Different Social Groups – They can shift between different crowds with ease.

People-Oriented – They genuinely enjoy human interaction and invest in relationships, making them naturally well-liked.

Top 5 Most Unapproachable / Unpopular MBTI Types (But They Don't Mind)

INTJ ("The Mastermind")

ISTP ("The Virtuoso")

ISTJ ("The Logistician")

ENTP ("The Debater")

INFP ("The Mediator")

7 Things That Make Them Unlikable to Many:

Blunt or Unfiltered – They often say what they think, which can come off as harsh or rude.

Detached or Emotionally Reserved – They usually don't engage in social niceties and may seem indifferent or uninterested in others' lives most of the time.

Private & Hard to Read – People often feel they can’t “figure them out” or connect with them emotionally.

Dislike of Social Norms – They reject superficial interactions and may challenge traditions or expectations at times.

Selective with Friendships – They don’t give time or attention to just anyone, making them seem cold or elitist.

Love for Debate or Solitude – They may argue for fun (ENTPs) or prefer being alone (INTJs, ISTPs), which can put people off.

Disinterest in People-Pleasing – They don’t care about conforming to social expectations or making people feel comfortable.

Why They’re Fine with Not Being Liked:

They Value Depth Over Popularity – They prefer a few meaningful connections over shallow approval.

They Prioritize Logic Over Social Harmony – Many would rather be right than be liked.

They See Socializing as Optional – They enjoy solitude or intellectual pursuits more than people-pleasing.

They Have Their Own Standards – They measure success by personal goals, not social validation.

They Find Most Social Norms Draining – Engaging in small talk or pretending to be friendly feels pointless.

They Attract the Right People Naturally – They know that those who genuinely appreciate them will stick around.

They’re Confident in Who They Are – They don’t need external validation to feel good about themselves.

Top 5 Most Likable MBTI Types & Why People Like Them (7 Points Each)

1. ESFJ ("The Caregiver")

Warm & Hospitable – Naturally friendly and welcoming to everyone they meet.

Loves Helping Others – Goes out of their way to assist people, making them feel valued.

Excellent Social Skills – Skilled at making conversations flow effortlessly.

Emotionally Expressive – Openly shows love, affection, and appreciation for people.

Strong Sense of Community – Loves group activities, traditions, and making people feel included.

Good at Conflict Resolution – Skilled at smoothing over disagreements and keeping peace.

Reliable & Responsible – People trust them because they always show up when needed.

2. ENFP ("The Campaigner")

Infectious Enthusiasm – Their excitement and energy make them fun to be around.

Great Storyteller & Conversationalist – Naturally engaging and full of interesting ideas.

Genuinely Curious About Others – Shows real interest in people’s thoughts and feelings.

Non-Judgmental & Accepting – Makes everyone feel seen and appreciated.

Spontaneous & Fun-Loving – Brings a sense of adventure and excitement to any social setting.

Emotionally Supportive – Quick to uplift others and offer encouragement.

Charismatic & Persuasive – Naturally draws people in with their charm and optimism.

3. ENFJ ("The Protagonist")

Deeply Empathetic – Easily understands and shares the feelings of others.

Inspiring & Encouraging – Motivates people to be their best selves.

Great at Building Connections – Forms strong relationships quickly and meaningfully.

Natural Leader – People feel comfortable following their guidance and wisdom.

Good at Conflict Mediation – Finds solutions that make everyone feel heard and respected.

Passionate & Expressive – Their energy and drive are contagious.

Loyal & Protective – Will go to great lengths to defend and support loved ones.

4. ESFP ("The Entertainer")

"Life of the Party" – Always brings excitement and fun to any gathering.

Highly Charismatic – Draws people in with their humor and charm.

Spontaneous & Adventurous – Loves trying new things and keeping life exciting.

Emotionally Expressive – Openly shares their joy, making people feel connected.

Great at Making People Laugh – Naturally witty and entertaining.

Inclusive & Friendly – Makes sure no one feels left out.

Optimistic & Energetic – Their positive energy makes them uplifting to be around.

5. ISFJ ("The Defender")

Deeply Caring & Thoughtful – Always looking out for others’ well-being.

Reliable & Trustworthy – Consistently dependable, making people feel secure.

Attentive to Others' Needs – Notices small details and makes people feel cared for.

Values Harmony – Prefers peace over drama and tension.

Humble & Modest – Doesn’t seek attention, making them easy to be around.

Patient & Kind – Willing to listen and offer gentle advice.

Loyal to Friends & Family – Forms strong, lasting bonds with loved ones.

Top 5 Most Unapproachable / Unpopular MBTI Types (But They Don't Mind) (7 Points Each)

1. INTJ ("The Mastermind")

Cold & Emotionally Reserved – Doesn't openly express feelings, making them seem very distant most of the time.

Blunt & Direct – Prioritizes logic over social niceties, which can seem harsh to more sensitive types of individuals.

High Standards for Relationships – Only values deep, intellectual connections, ignoring small talk.

Dislikes Group Activities – Prefers working alone and finds socializing exhausting.

Arrogant or Condescending – Can come off as "superior" in some situations due to their knowledge and independence.

Hard to Impress – Not easily swayed by emotions, trends, or social validation.

Doesn’t Care About Being Liked – Sees popularity as meaningless and prefers respect over approval.

2. ISTP ("The Virtuoso")

Quiet & Detached – Often keeps to themselves and doesn't engage in unnecessary conversations.

Dislikes Small Talk – Prefers practical, hands-on experiences over chatting about feelings.

Appears Emotionless – Can seem indifferent even in emotional situations.

Independent & Non-Conforming – Doesn’t follow social rules just for the sake of fitting in.

Risk-Taker but Unpredictable – Can suddenly disappear or act on impulse, confusing others.

Doesn’t Open Up Easily – Keeps personal thoughts and emotions private.

Fine Being Alone – Genuinely enjoys solitude and doesn’t need social validation.

3. ISTJ ("The Logistician")

Serious & Reserved – Doesn’t engage in casual banter or social pleasantries.

Rule-Oriented & Strict – Prefers structure and discipline over flexibility.

Emotionally Unexpressive – Not comfortable with expressing emotions or dealing with them.

Dislikes Spontaneity – Prefers routine and finds unpredictability stressful.

Harsh but Honest – Doesn’t sugarcoat things, which can make them seem overly critical.

Prefers Work Over Socializing – More focused on duties and responsibilities than fun.

Doesn’t Care About Popularity – Finds validation in hard work and personal success rather than approval.

4. ENTP ("The Debater")

Loves Arguing & Challenging Ideas – Often debates for fun, which can be exhausting for others.

Can Be Overwhelming – Talks fast, jumps between topics, and dominates conversations.

Blunt & Sarcastic – Can come off as rude or dismissive.

Dislikes Conventional Thinking – Questions traditions and rules, which can be unsettling.

Unpredictable & Impulsive – May drop certain friendships or cancel some commitments if they get bored.

Values Intelligence Over Friendliness – Prefers engaging discussions over emotional connections.

Fine Being Misunderstood – Enjoys being the outsider or the controversial figure.

5. INFP ("The Mediator")

Deep but Distant – Prefers meaningful one-on-one conversations over socializing with groups.

Highly Idealistic – Can seem disconnected from reality, making them hard to relate to.

Easily Offended – Extremely sensitive to criticism, which can make some people walk on eggshells around them.

Prefers Deep Conversations – Finds casual socializing meaningless.

Prone to Moodiness – Can withdraw suddenly and become difficult to reach or connect with.

Doesn’t Like Social Pressure – Hates forced interactions and fakeness.

Prefers Selective Friendships – Would rather have a few deep connections than be widely liked.

Why These Types Are Okay With Not Being Liked:

They Have Their Own Priorities – Popularity isn't a priority; personal goals matter more.

They See Social Approval as Superficial – They prefer respect, independence, or knowledge over being liked.

They Don’t Need Many Friends – A small, trusted circle is enough for them.

They Find Social Norms Limiting – They prefer living by their own rules rather than conforming.

They Value Depth Over Socializing – Superficial interactions drain them.

They Enjoy Their Alone Time – Solitude is energizing for them rather than "lonely".

They Know Their Worth – They don’t rely on others’ opinions for validation.
⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

✅ Question: List 5 things which each of the 16 mbti personality types would notice in someone if they can sense that person is intensely jealous of them and they know for sure they're guilty of extreme jealousy and what 5 things would make those types realize "oh she's not jealous of me, that's a green flag, she's okay".

💻 ChatGPT: Here’s how each MBTI type might notice intense jealousy in someone and what would reassure them that the person is not jealous (a green flag).

Analysts (NTs)

INTJ

✔ Jealousy Signs:

Tries to undermine their plans or downplay achievements.

Copies them in a passive-aggressive way (not out of admiration).

Competes in things they didn’t care about before.

Gives backhanded compliments disguised as intellectual critique.

Watches them too closely, looking for flaws.

✔ Green Flags:

Respects their space and independence.

Acknowledges their success without making it a competition.

Shares valuable knowledge without trying to one-up.

Doesn’t mimic their behavior unnaturally.

Can engage in deep discussions without making it about status.

ENTJ

✔ Jealousy Signs:

Tries to sabotage their leadership or reputation.

Asks leading questions to find weaknesses.

Mimics their strategies but refuses to acknowledge them.

Smirks when they struggle.

Tries to gain authority over them.

✔ Green Flags:

Competes fairly and with integrity.

Shows admiration without being manipulative.

Seeks advice without ulterior motives.

Gives direct and constructive feedback.

Stands their ground without trying to dethrone them.

INTP

✔ Jealousy Signs:

Challenges their logic in a dismissive way.

Downplays their intelligence while secretly imitating their ideas.

Gets visibly uncomfortable when they’re praised.

Contradicts them for the sake of it.

Tries to prove they’re the "true intellectual."

✔ Green Flags:

Enjoys discussing ideas without competing.

Admits when they learn something from them.

Can handle different viewpoints without resentment.

Encourages their creativity instead of nitpicking.

Doesn't act defensive when they're right.

ENTP

✔ Jealousy Signs:

Turns every conversation into a debate to prove superiority.

Jokes in a way that subtly undermines them.

Avoids acknowledging their innovative ideas.

Tries to outshine them socially.

Dismisses their achievements as "mere coincidence." (Note: No such thing as "luck" in Islam.)

✔ Green Flags:

Engages in debates with mutual respect.

Laughs at their jokes instead of making everything a competition.

Supports their ideas and builds upon them.

Can celebrate their wins without sarcasm.

Treats them as an equal rather than a rival.

Diplomats (NF)

INFJ

✔ Jealousy Signs:

Tries to manipulate people against them subtly.

Acts overly sweet while harboring resentment.

Seems disappointed rather than happy for their success.

Tries to imitate their depth but lacks authenticity.

Passive-aggressively questions their decisions.

✔ Green Flags:

Supports their goals without hidden motives.

Respects their emotional depth.

Can share personal insights without trying to "out-intuit" them.

Genuinely enjoys deep conversations.

Doesn’t turn everything into a psychological battle.

ENFJ

✔ Jealousy Signs:

Acts overly charming but subtly excludes them.

Turns people against them using emotional appeal.

Gets visibly annoyed when they get attention.

Compliments them but then overshadows them immediately.

Mirrors them but takes credit for their ideas.

✔ Green Flags:

Promotes their success in social settings.

Encourages others to support them.

Listens actively without trying to shift the spotlight.

Shares their influence instead of hoarding it.

Celebrates their wins genuinely.

INFP

✔ Jealousy Signs:

Becomes cold and distant when they succeed.

Writes cryptic, bitter social media posts.

Acts as if their success is a personal betrayal.

Subtly undermines their values.

Criticizes them indirectly through poetry, art, or posts.

✔ Green Flags:

Respects their uniqueness instead of resenting it.

Remains emotionally warm even when they succeed.

Supports their dreams without comparing.

Encourages their creativity without jealousy.

Doesn’t guilt-trip them for doing well.

ENFP

✔ Jealousy Signs:

Becomes passive-aggressive when they get attention.

Copies them but pretends it's just a "coincidence."

Criticizes them in a way that seems lighthearted but stings.

Steals their ideas and acts like they’re original.

Tries to outdo them in social situations.

✔ Green Flags:

Celebrates their success instead of competing.

Encourages their ideas instead of stealing them.

Genuinely enjoys their company without hidden resentment.

Doesn’t make everything about themselves.

Shares their enthusiasm rather than trying to take the spotlight.

Sentinels (SJ)

ISTJ

✔ Jealousy Signs:

Criticizes their achievements as "overrated."

Ignores their success instead of acknowledging it.

Discredits their hard work.

Tries to make them seem irresponsible.

Enforces unnecessary rules to limit them.

✔ Green Flags:

Recognizes their competence without feeling threatened.

Gives fair and objective feedback.

Respects their work ethic.

Doesn’t engage in passive-aggressive competition.

Works with them instead of against them.

ESTJ

✔ Jealousy Signs:

Tries to assert authority over them.

Downplays their competence in front of others.

Criticizes them excessively.

Competes aggressively for status.

Gets visibly irritated when they outperform them.

✔ Green Flags:

Respects their efficiency.

Gives credit where it's due.

Competes fairly instead of sabotaging.

Can collaborate without trying to dominate.

Genuinely recognizes their leadership skills.

ISFJ

✔ Jealousy Signs:

Gets overly critical about minor things.

Acts sweet but gossips behind their back.

Becomes passive-aggressive.

Avoids them when they succeed.

Over-explains their own accomplishments as a defense.

✔ Green Flags:

Shows consistent kindness regardless of success.

Supports their growth instead of feeling insecure.

Doesn’t compare achievements.

Remains emotionally steady around them.

Offers encouragement without resentment.

ESFJ

✔ Jealousy Signs:

Plays the victim when they achieve something.

Tries to turn mutual friends against them.

Smiles but gives condescending compliments.

Acts excessively competitive in social settings.

Becomes visibly uncomfortable when they’re praised.

✔ Green Flags:

Treats them warmly even when they succeed.

Genuinely enjoys their accomplishments.

Supports them socially instead of excluding them.

Doesn’t engage in social drama.

Expresses happiness for them without hidden resentment.

Each MBTI type perceives jealousy differently, but in general, jealous people act passive-aggressively, subtly sabotage, or compete unnecessarily. Green flags include respect, support, and genuine happiness for the other person’s success.

Note: Some Reminders From An INTJ Muslimah (78)

 بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Note: As Much As Possible Avoid Being Silly And Asking Silly Questions

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

❓ 11 Reasons Why Some Muslims Believe Asking Nonsensical Questions Shows a Lack of Good Etiquette

Wasting Time – Islam encourages using time wisely, and pointless questions distract from more beneficial discussions.

Lack of Adab (Manners) – Knowingly asking unnecessary or ridiculous questions can show a lack of respect for the teacher or scholar.

Mockery of Knowledge – Some questions may seem like they are mocking Islamic rulings or the seriousness of religious learning.

Leading to Confusion – Unnecessary debates and hypothetical questions can lead to confusion rather than clarity.

Islam Encourages Beneficial Knowledge – The noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam ﷺ discouraged excessive questioning (asking absolutely unnecessary questions related to religious duties and obligations) that serves no purpose.

Possible Disrespect to Allah and Islam – Asking inappropriate or unnecessary questions can sometimes border on irreverence.

Following the Ways of Past Nations – Some past nations (e.g., bani Israel) were condemned for excessive questioning that complicated simple commands.

Avoiding Arrogance – Some people ask unnecessary questions just to show off their eloquence or challenge authority.

Preventing Fitnah (Trials & Discord) – Questions that stir unnecessary controversies can divide the Muslim community.

Avoiding Condemnable / Blameworthy Curiosity – Islam warns against prying into matters that do not concern a person at all.

Simplicity in Religion – Islam is meant to be simple; overcomplicating matters with extreme questions makes it burdensome.

11 Examples of Silly Questions to Avoid Due to Their Ridiculousness

“If I pray Salah upside down, will it still count?”

“If someone eats pork by accident, will they turn into a pig?”

“What is the exact number of angels that fit inside a Masjid?”

“Can I fast on Mars if I ever go there?”

“Will I have to pay zakat if I win the lottery?”

“Can I recite the Noble Qur'an while standing on one leg?”

“What’s the Islamic ruling on eating ice cream with chopsticks?”

“If someone sneezes 30 times in a row, do I have to say ‘YarhamukAllah’ every time?”

“Is it haram to name my pet cat ‘shaytan’?”

“If I make wudu in the ocean, will I become extra pure?”

“Is drinking water in one sip better than in three sips?” (while overlooking the merits or virtues of following the beautiful Sunnah of the noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam).

11 Questions We Can Often Ask Since They're Not Silly Queries

“What are the conditions for a valid prayer?”

“What should I do if I miss Fajr unintentionally?”

“How do I perform wudu/ablution correctly?”

“What are the etiquettes of making Dua?”

“How can I improve my khushu (concentration) in Salah?”

“What are the rights of parents in Islam?”

“What is the best way to give charity in secret?”

“How do I balance between dunya (worldly life) and deen (religion)?”

“What are the Sunnah acts before and after Salah?”

“How do I repent sincerely?”

“What are the key signs of a good Islamic marriage partner?”

By asking meaningful questions, we gain beneficial knowledge and improve our understanding of Islam without wasting time on unnecessary inquiries.

11 More Silly Questions to Avoid Due to Their Ridiculousness

“If I wear seven layers of socks, do I still have to wash my feet in wudu?”

“Can I recite Surah Al-Fatihah backwards and still get rewards?”

“If I pray so fast that I finish before the Imam, do I get extra blessings?”

“Can I give my zakat to my pet cat?”

“If I say ‘Bismillah’ before lying, does it make my lie halal?”

“If I sleep during my fasting and dream of eating, does it break my fast?”

“Can I make wudu by rolling around in the snow?”

“If I make Dua for unlimited wishes, will it work?”

“Can I pray Tahajjud before sleeping to save time?”

“If I hold my breath while sneezing, does shaytan still say ‘Achoo’?”

“If I recite Ayat-ul-Kursi a hundred times, can I fly?”

These types of questions either mock Islamic teachings, show a lack of seriousness, or focus on extreme technicalities that are unnecessary. Instead, it's better to ask meaningful questions that increase one's knowledge and practice of Islam.

11 More Silly Questions to Avoid Asking Trustworthy Scholars

“If I make wudu/ablution with Zamzam water, will my sins be forgiven twice?”

“If I wear a turban while praying, do I get extra rewards?”

“Can I fast every other day so I only have to do half of Ramadan?”

“Is my wudu invalid if I forget to say ‘Bismillah’ before washing my face?”

“If I do Hajj in virtual reality, does it count?”

“Can I make Dua to live for 1,000 years?”

“If I hear the Adhan in my dream, do I have to wake up and pray?”

“Is it permissible to put perfume on my prayer mat so my sujood smells nice?”

“If I name my son ‘Jannah,’ will he automatically go to Jannah?”

“If I drink Zamzam while standing on one foot, does it double the blessings?”

“If I perform Salah really fast, can I make up for all the prayers I missed in one day?”

These types of questions show a lack of seriousness and may waste the scholar’s time. Instead, it's best to focus on learning useful and practical Islamic knowledge (through reliable sources).

⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

⚠️ Never solely rely on AI (artificial intelligence) regarding fatawa or religious verdicts.

11 Disadvantages of Deliberately Acting Silly on a Regular Basis

Loss of Credibility – People may not take you seriously, even when you need them to.

Underestimation of Intelligence – Others may assume you lack knowledge or competence.

Difficulty in Leadership Roles – People prefer leaders who show composure and rationality.

Missed Opportunities – Some may overlook you for promotions, collaborations, or serious discussions.

Annoying or Alienating Others – Excessive silliness can be exhausting or irritating to certain people.

Misinterpretation of Intentions – People may assume you’re not paying attention or don’t care about more important issues.

Damaged Professional Reputation – In work or academic settings, a silly demeanor can undermine respect.

Erosion of Personal Boundaries – Others might not respect you if they see you as unserious all the time.

Becoming a Source of Mockery – Some might use your behavior as an excuse to belittle or ridicule you.

Loss of Self-Discipline – Habitual silliness can lead to a lack of focus or an inability to shift to serious matters when needed.

Not Being Trusted in Critical Situations – When something important happens, people may not rely on your judgment.

MBTI Types Less Likely to Act Silly on Purpose

These types tend to value control, seriousness, and logical precision:

INTJ – Prefers calculated behavior and dislikes unnecessary distractions. Acting silly feels inefficient and unproductive.

ISTJ – Practical and duty-driven, they focus on rules and responsibility rather than playful behavior.

ENTJ – Goal-oriented and strategic, they don’t usually see the point of being silly unless it serves a purpose.

MBTI Types More Comfortable Being Silly

These types are more playful, spontaneous, or lighthearted:

ESFP – Enjoys entertaining others and finds joy in fun, lighthearted moments.

ENFP – Expressive and creative, they embrace playfulness as part of their enthusiasm for life.

ENTP – ENTPs enjoy intellectual humor, playful banter, and pushing boundaries for fun. They feel comfortable being silly, especially when it allows them to challenge ideas or entertain others.

When to Act Silly vs. When to Be Serious

When It's Okay to Act Silly:

In casual social settings where humor is welcomed.

Around close friends or family who appreciate playful behavior.

When bonding with children or in creative activities.

To lighten the mood in a tense but non-critical situation.

When to Take Things More Seriously:

During professional meetings, academic settings, or job interviews.

In emergencies or serious decision-making scenarios.

When discussing sensitive topics (e.g., personal struggles, ethics, or critical issues).

In formal or cultural events where respect and decorum are expected.
⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT