Poem: Don't Listen To Your Heart Where shaytan Whispers

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 As Muslims we're in a constant battle for Allah,
Against shaytan with our shields being faith and Taqwa,
With weapons that include patience, Dhikr and Du'as,
And a mission to be admitted straight to Jannah.
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Use your mind which Allah gave. Don't listen to your heart.
The heart is where shaytan whispers schemes that tear apart
Integrity and dignity, so morals depart.
It's the fragile body part which often wants what's dark.
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When you're "in love" with someone, when crushing really hard,
Seek Allah's Guidance, and have shaytan's waswaas unheard.
Redirect your attention to Allah Whom you fear.
Through Tawbah and thoughts of death, bad thoughts can disappear.
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When shaytan tries to tempt you with evil fantasies,
Distracting you with tracks to zina so stubbornly,
Drawing images of those you adore wrongfully,
Defeat him with Istighfaar, recall he's enemy.
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Twenty minutes of haraam make-out isn't worth it.
Desire to be touched by your crush should be avoided.
You're Muslim, not an uncontrolled beast, be reminded.
Adhere to what's halal, whether single or married.
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Not all feelings that you feel must be acted upon,
Especially if an emotion leads to what's wrong.
While there's no problem in admiring certain persons,
Don't let your liking be transformed to vile temptations.
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As you trust Allah always and pray He keeps you whole,
Have self-control. Prevent shaytan from harming your soul.
Accept how love-related tests can be tough trials,
And know Allah loves you. Strive for Jannah, not this world.
~*~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah has pardoned my nation for what occurs within themselves, as long as they do not speak of it or act upon it."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6287, Sahih Muslim 127
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Some of the companions came to the Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam and they asked him, "We find within ourselves that which is too grievous to speak of." The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "You have indeed found it so?" They said "yes". The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "That is sincere faith."
In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "That is (evidence of) pure faith."
Source: Sahih Muslim 132
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

Poem: Don't Compare Your Life Journey To Others' Tests

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Be wise enough to realize why Allah made you,
Strong enough to accept His Qadr with gratitude,
Brave enough to not compare friends' skills with what you do,
Competing against no one; just striving to improve.
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When most women would brag and get jealous easily,
Claiming things like "I'm wealthy", "I got married early",
"My hair is fancy", "I have twins", "My hubby's Saudi",
Be among the few content with Allah's Destiny.
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We're not in a competition for worldly pleasures,
Not here to prove who's richer and whose house is bigger.
Instead of working to show you're better or smarter,
Do more of Allah's Orders to gain extra ajar.
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You're pretty? Good for you. Don't let your looks be misused.
Wear hijab. Ditch the selfies. Know modesty's virtues.
Finding others prettier shouldn't shrink your value.
Recall the disabled and put yourself in their shoes.
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You run a business? Pray to Allah that it is blessed.
Ensure your earnings are halal to pass Allah's tests.
When other entrepreneurs succeed, don't be upset.
Focus on what Allah gave to reach your own success.
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Still single? Few kids or no children yet? Don't worry.
Stay chaste and pray. Allah's timing is always timely.
Your worth isn't based on the size of your family,
Nor marital status, but your faith and piety.
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While many people compete for fame or tons of likes,
Or they work hard to achieve a luxurious lifestyle,
Join Allah's allies enriched with contentment inside,
At peace, free from envy, as they strive for Paradise.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If one of you looks at those blessed over him in wealth and appearance, let him look at those below him."
In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do not look to those above you, lest you view the favors of Allah as trivial."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6125, Sahih Muslim 2963
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Envy consumes good deeds just as fire burns wood. Charity extinguishes sinful deeds just as water extinguishes fire. Prayer is the light of the believer and fasting is his shield from the Hellfire.”
Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 4210
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Ibn Asakir
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of envy, for it devours good deeds just as fire devours wood or grass."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4903
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti

Note: Think Twice Before Rejecting A Marriage Proposal

💌 If a woman receives several marriage proposals and she keeps rejecting them simply because the suitors don't look as handsome as the K-pop icons or Bollywood actors whom she finds are more good-looking, it may take a very long time for her to find an ideal husband. When you're waiting for Allah's Qadr/Decree to get married, saying Du'as frequently and praying to Allah the Most Wise to grant you a pious spouse, and that time finally comes when your guardians or parents inform you of a guy who's interested in marrying you, and you both get to see each other in a formal setting while some mahrams are around, don't mainly judge him by how tall, muscular or physically attractive he is. As long as his Aqeedah is sound/correct, he has the financial capability to support you, and his looks are decent enough, then you could consider him as a potential soulmate after you've prayed two Sunnah Rak'ahs of Salat Al-Istikhaarah and you're willing to say yes.
Your decision to agree to a man's marriage proposal shouldn't be based on whether or not there is "chemistry" between you or you've felt mutual "love at first sight". In Islam, true love is learned and experienced only after marriage.
After marrying him for Allah's sake, with sincere intention to complete the other half of your Deen or to raise a righteous Muslim family together, you gradually fall in love with each other.
Some of the things that if your husband does would trigger you to be intensely attracted to him include:
1) Being enthusiastic to learn more about Islam from you or with you.
2) Reminding you to pray on time, to wear the hijab and dress modestly.
3) Encouraging you to forgive others and to maintain good ties with your family.
4) Being a fun-loving friend who's playful with you and cheerfully making lighthearted jokes to see you happy.
5) Patiently listening to your complaints and rants, then coaching you to stay patient.
6) Showing you his gentle side when he enjoys playing with cats and children.
7) Surprising you with romantic gestures like a tight hug, a sweet text message, a calming massage, cooking a meal or taking you out to a restaurant.
8) Preferring you without make-up and not criticizing any of your flaws.
9) Displaying a healthy amount of gheerah or protective jealousy if he notices you speaking to non-mahram men like staff and salespersons.
Once you fall in love with your husband's soul, faith/Imaan and personality, you won't regret being his wife, regardless of the age gap or he doesn't meet everyone's high expectations. You can be grateful to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala that He chose for you a special lover through whom you're trained to excel in patience, contentment and realization that this dunya isn't permanent.
Jannah Paradise is where you can reunite forever with your husband and view his perfect version.
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If someone proposes marriage to you whose religion and character satisfies you, then you should accept it. If you do not do so, there will be trials on the earth and the spread of corruption."
Source: Sunan Al-Tirmidhi 1084
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Note: Virtues Of Respecting One's Husband

💌 Your value as a wife isn't measured by how much money or gold your husband can provide you. What makes your marriage blessed isn't financial stability or affluence but through this destined bond you're able to practice gratitude, patience and contentment. Part of being your husband's loyal wife is to avoid overspending as much as possible. Instead of spending above your means or demanding a luxurious lifestyle, try to be content with whatever allowance your husband is capable of giving you, and learn to appreciate the good things in life that are simple. This is for every wife whose husband is employed in a faraway city or country, who is currently struggling financially trying to ensure all his debts are paid fully, or who in a polygynous marriage is doing whatever he can to look after his multiple wives fairly.
Wives whose husbands are well-off but they're too selfish, negligent or miserly to at least meet their families' basic needs should remind their husbands about the importance of taking care of one's household responsibly. To avoid being the recipient of abuse in any way, the wife must speak to her soulmate calmly and respectfully. If he doesn't change his ways, she shouldn't be too quick to give up on him but include him in her Du'as, praying to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala to soften his heart and make his realize what his responsibilities are as a Muslim husband.
Whenever you and your spouse go through any trial or challenging moment, remind yourself of the virtues of patience, how the wives of the noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam survived with a simple lifestyle, and look forward to everlasting bliss in Jannah Paradise where all worldly worries can be forgotten.
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."
Source: Sunan Al-Tirmidhī 1159
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Tirmidhi
Ali al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah."
Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātīḥ 5/2125

Hadith: Allah Hears Our Du'as And Prayers

📖 ‘Ubadah Ibn As-Samit RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "There is no Muslim on earth who calls upon Allah in supplication but that Allah will grant it to him or divert some evil away from him, so long as he does not ask for something sinful or to cut off family ties.” A man said, "In that case we will ask for more." The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Allah has even more."
Source: Sunan Al-Tirmidhī 3573
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Tirmidhi

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Every one of you will have his supplications answered, as long as he is not impatient and says: 'I have supplicated but I was not answered.'"
In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The servant will continue to have his supplications answered as long as he does not ask for sin or cutting family ties and he is not impatient." They said, "O Messenger of Allah, what is its impatience?" The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "He says: 'I have supplicated again and again, but I have not seen an answer.' He becomes frustrated with that and gives up supplicating."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5981, Sahih Muslim 2735
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Poem: Silence With Dhikr Is Better Than Gossip

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 I don't understand how some people enjoy small talks
Which involve gossiping and people's lives are discussed,
Discussing who got married, proposed, which couples fought,
What one thinks of a celeb, how much one's estate costs,
What degree a person holds, and what cool things you've bought.
~*~
Tell me about our God Allah Who created us.
Share tips on how to be more worthy of Allah's Love.
Speak of the ways you remain patient when life gets tough.
Remind me to have Sabr and Allah is Enough.
Comfort me with Allah's Speech, the Qur'an, and Du'as.
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One sentence from you which causes my faith to go up
Is more special than an hour of gossipy chit-chat.
Time invested on reading Islamic books and facts,
Benefiting from lectures that enlighten our hearts,
And Dhikr, is better than disclosing private thoughts.
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I'm not interested in what's trending and what's not,
What videos went viral, and what fashion styles are hot,
Which items for sale are discounted at nearby shops,
What recipes one knows, restaurants tried, and whatnot.
I want to know how to make it to Jannah above.
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So forgive me when I go quiet as you all laugh,
When I excuse myself from gossip or sinful talk.
My choice to isolate at times does not signal grudge.
Just want you to note there are better things to discuss,
Subjects that inspire, which don't cause rewards to be lost.
~*~
📖 Abdur Rahman Ghanm RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best servants of Allah are those who remind you of Allah when they are seen. The worst servants of Allah and those who spread gossip, separating between loved ones, and causing misery to the innocent."
Source: Musnad Ahmed 17998
Grade: Hasan li ghayrihi (Fair due to exeternal evidence) according to Al-Arna’ut
📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "May Allah have mercy on a person who spoke rightly and was rewarded, or who was silent and remained safe."
Source: Shu’b Al-Imān 4579
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Albani
📖 Mu'adh Ibn Jabal RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, you will continue to be safe as long as you remain silent. If you speak, it will be recorded for you or against you."
Source: Al-Mu’jam Al-Kabīr 16591
Grade: Hasan li ghayrihi (Fair due to external evidence) according to Al-Albani

Note: On Friendship For Allah's Sake

💌 If your niyyah/intention of befriending a person is to seek worldly gain, to network with them mainly to take part in the material joys that they're enjoying, or to upgrade your reputation by being connected, your connection isn't guaranteed to last long since it's not meant for Allah's sake and dunya matters are temporary.
A friendship is more likely to continue Inn-sha-Allah even until you and your friends reunite in Jannah Paradise if it is founded upon good intention, regardless of living in different cities and without making it a necessity to have daily communication.
Since Jannatul Ferdaus is the ultimate destination which you and your chosen companions strive for, you are content loving one another genuinely for Allah's sake, cherishing the good memories with them in your heart and mentioning their names in frequent Du'as/supplications.

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No supplication is quicker to be answered than a supplication on behalf of one who is absent."
Source: Sunan Al-Tirmidhi 1980
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Suyuti
📖 Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No Muslim servant supplicates for his brother behind his back but that the angel says: 'And for you the same.'"
Source: Sahih Muslim 2732
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are troops collected together. They unite upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109, Sahih Muslim 2638
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Note: Be Contented With Simple Lifestyle

💌 You can spend several hours watching vloggers on YouTube vlog about their lives, showcase their OOTD (outfit of the day), or unbox random items they've bought online, or you can make use of your time doing something more productive, like reading articles on Islam or self-improvement, to develop yourself instead of prying into someone's life. It's strange how the number of Saudi and Filipino vloggers is gradually increasing, and how it is easy for a lot of them to gain hundreds of subscribers. This shows that more and more users allow themselves to compare their lives to others', which can be detrimental if they're not satisfied with what they already have or they lack self-esteem.
Watching a stranger's house tour, honest reaction to some viral videos, and review of products that you don't own cannot benefit your faith/Imaan nor enhance your well-being. Most of the popular YouTubers who indirectly advocate materialism, consumerism and extravagance, especially when they deliberately waste tons of food for mere entertainment which could be distributed to the less fortunate worldwide, can trigger feelings of insecurity, dissatisfaction and depression in many youths who aren't aware yet of the true significance of this temporary dunya.
Train yourself to mind your own business and be mindful of the kind of videos you view on YouTube, so you can stay grateful with what Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala has given you and you're not a victim of inferiority complex or ingratitude.

📖 Ali Ibn Husayn RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, part of perfection in Islam is for a person to leave what does not concern him."
Source: Sunan Al-Tirmidhi 2318
Grade: Sahih li ghayri (Authentic due to external evidence) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, simple living is part of faith, simple living is part of faith."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4161
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If one of you looks at those blessed over him in terms of wealth and appearance, let him look at those below him (who have less)."
In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do not look to those above you, lest you view the favors of Allah as trivial."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6125, Sahih Muslim 2963
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Poem: Independence While Trusting Allah

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 With Allah watching over me since I was inside
My mother's womb, caring for me, always by my side,
Allah is the Only One on Whom I can rely.
Allah knows what I need, and He understands my cries.
~*~
Yet again, although I had a vivid dream last night,
Though I have a strong urge to tell it to those I like,
I won't, since their untrustworthiness can't be denied.
I've heard them ridicule others, tell lies and backbite.
~*~
When I'm asked, "How are you?", "Alhamdulillah I'm fine,"
And "I am okay," are my usual, concise replies.
I refuse to rant about my woes, complain and whine,
When I can rest with Dhikr and Du'as day and night.
~*~
I could write pages and talk for hours on my past life,
Chat with close friends for long periods whenever I liked,
And have whiny moments, but keep most thoughts in my mind
When confidants aren't available all the time.
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In selected companions I wanted to confide,
But chose to withhold my words when I did realize
How they aren't so reachable online and offline.
I'm content with confiding in Allah the Most Wise.
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I get it. At times Allah removes "friends" from our lives
Or exposes their true colors in order to guide,
To remind us that Only He Allah the Most Kind
Should be trusted with our secrets and sorrow we hide.
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Dear Allah, as each minute and second would fly by,
I turn to You Allah with Tawbah seeking Your Light,
Praying for Your Guidance and entrance to Paradise.
Ameen. Allah's Trust and Might I can never deny.
~*~
📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of the supplication of the oppressed, even if he is an unbeliever, for there is no barrier between it and Allah."
Source: Musnad Ahmed 12140
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti
📖 Ibn Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Two supplications have no barrier between them and Allah: The supplication of the oppressed, and the supplication of a man for his brother (for another Muslim) behind his back."
Source: Al-Mu’jam Al-Kabīr 11232
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti
📖 Sa’d Ibn Abi Waqqas RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah loves a servant who is righteous, independent, and obscure (discreet, unknown, private)."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2965
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

Hadith: Be Careful When Choosing Friends

📖 Sa’d Ibn Abi Waqqas RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah loves a servant who is righteous, independent, and obscure (discreet, unknown, private)."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2965
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his best friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan Al-Tirmidhī 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi

📖 Abu Al-Ahwas reported: Abdullah Ibn Mas’ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu said, "Remember Allah the Almighty often. You must not accompany anyone unless they help you to remember Allah the Almighty."
Source: Shu’ab Al-Imān 8998

Poem: Avoid Having Bad Thoughts Of Others

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 While it's true Allah is the Only One we can trust,
We must train ourselves to avoid suspecting others,
Assuming this user and those are just showing off,
Since Allah is the Only One Who can see our hearts.
~*~
Without being naive, careless or too distracted,
When disappointed by some, give them some excuses.
Remind yourself: They're human too. No soul is perfect.
Not all can be clarified by judging the surface.
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Strike a balance between being careful and clement,
Between being cautious regarding your choice of friends
And being wise enough to evade false assumptions,
Knowing that Only Allah knows His slaves' intentions.
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It's not your job to analyze people's condition,
Just as it isn't right for them to have suspicions,
Accusing you of doing things that are forbidden,
Without valid reason or tangible evidence.
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If you got nothing good to say, withhold your statements.
Keep your opinions to yourself, if you're not helping.
Focus on serving Allah, don't judge His creation,
And wait for truth to disclose on the Day of Judgment.
~*~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of suspicion, for suspicion is the most false of tales. Do not seek out faults, do not spy on each other, do not contend with each other, do not envy each other, do not hate each other, and do not turn away from each other. Rather, be servants of Allah as brothers."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5719, Sahih Muslim 2563
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Poem: How I Prove My Love To My Husband

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 To the man whom Allah chose to be my other half,
Dear husband, the following are some proofs of my love,
Without saying "I love you", without doubting your trust.
The weight of true love outweighs temporal crush and lust.
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The three words "I love you" are shown in certain actions
Done to impress none but Allah out of devotion,
Loving you for Allah's sake with sincere intention,
Meanwhile inspiring wives to honor their dear husbands.
~*~
"I love you" is proven whenever I say your name,
Mentioning you in loving Du'as each night and day,
Praying to Allah the Most Kind to keep my spouse safe,
Protected from anything that could lead you astray.
~*~
"I love you" is demonstrated when you're in my thoughts,
When my heart beats in harmony as you are thought of,
Letting you remarry if one wife isn't enough,
Pleased that our marriage brought us closer to Allah's Love.
~*~
True love is illustrated each time I smile at you,
Hold hands, rest my palms on your lap, express gratitude,
Share knowledge of Islam, give info you never knew,
Maintain patience and forgive errors you often do.
~*~
True love reveals itself when I conquer vile desires,
Lower my gaze, limit needless talks with those I like,
Avoid dealing with souls I dangerously admire,
And redirect my love to you as your loyal wife.
~*~
Dear husband, my love for you isn't artificial.
Despite your frequent absences, I remain faithful,
Loving you for Allah Only in spite of trials,
Until we both enter Jannah at peace and grateful.
~*~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts the month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibban 4252
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Hadith: On Smiling And Being Cheerful

📖 Abdullah Ibn Al-Harith RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: "I have not seen anyone smile more often than the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam."
Source: Sunan Al-Tirmidhi 3641
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, you cannot enrich all of the people with your wealth, but rather you enrich them with your cheerful faces and good character."
Source: Shu’ab Al-Imān 7567
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti

📖 Jarir Ibn Abdullah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam never avoided me ever since I embraced Islam. I would never see him but with a smile on his face.
Source: Sahih Muslim 2475
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

Poem: Courage In Islam

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 It takes lots of faith and trust in Allah to be brave,
To support the truth when most people are led astray,
To be aware of what's right when most are not awake,
And to speak for justice while one's voice trembles or shakes.
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Courage is seen in this Muslimah who covers up,
Whose love for Allah inspires her to wear the hijaab,
Dressing modestly among fashionistas and snobs,
Seeming simple to them yet inside she glows; she's tough.
~*~
Bravery is evident in these brothers who call
Others to Islam and Allah the Most Merciful,
Doing Da'wah out of mercy, remaining truthful,
And striving to be helpful whenever possible.
~*~
She's courageous - that niqabi sister dressed in black,
Though surrounded by girls who are obsessed with make-up,
She remains firm, standing strong despite being laughed at.
Embellished with Taqwa, her heart shines with Allah's Love.
~*~
He portrays courage every time he lives for Allah,
Bravely defending the Prophet Muhammad's Sunnah,
Unafraid of foes from among those who do Bid'ah,
Content with a simple lifestyle, preferring Jannah.
~*~
To be brave for Allah is to move in spite of fear,
To achieve your goals even if your friends disappear,
To fulfill your mission though its paths aren't yet clear,
Trusting Allah to guide you, knowing He's always near.
~*~
Have the courage to use speech, know when to stay silent.
When you've wronged someone, say sorry. When you've sinned, repent.
If you've failed at something, be patient or try again.
No reason to fear people when Allah is your Friend.
~*~
📖 Abu Sa’eed Al-Khudri RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Let not fear of the people prevent one of you from saying the truth, if he knows it."
Source: Musnad Ahmad 11459
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Ibn Hajar

Hadith: Avoid Bid'ah

📖 Al-‘Irbad Ibn Sariyah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam prayed with us one day. Then he SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam faced us and delivered an eloquent sermon that brought tears to our eyes and by it shook our hearts. It was said, "O Messenger of Allah, it is as if this is a farewell sermon. What do you instruct for us?" The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "I advise you to fear Allah, listen, and obey, even if an Abyssinian slave is put in charge of you. Whoever lives after me will see many conflicts. You must adhere to my Sunnah and the Sunnah of the righteous, guided successors. Hold firmly to it (to the Sunnah) as though biting with your molar teeth. Beware of newly invented matters, for every newly invented matter is an innovation (Bid'ah) and every innovation is misguidance."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4607
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut

Poem: To Brothers In Islam Searching For Good Wives

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 To brothers in Islam who are eager to marry,
Ready to find a soulmate and start a family:
Note - Sending DMs to female users randomly
Or flirting isn't the right way to matrimony.
~*~
Nothing can be gained by chatting with non-mahram girls
Except wasted time on haraam relationships built,
Which entertains shaytan whenever you court or flirt,
Flattering non-mahram ladies with beguiling words.
~*~
Be a real man, not any woman's toy or plaything.
If you're serious about marriage, approach her parents
Or guardians, trusting Allah, with sincere intention,
Longing to marry to complete the half of your Deen.
~*~
Pray Salat Al-Istikhaarah before deciding,
Seek Allah's Help and Guidance prior to proposing.
Speak to the girl's parents or guardians with confidence,
Instead of first courting her through instant-messaging.
~*~
Joy can't be found in succumbing to wrong temptations.
Sinful talks online and offline that are forbidden
Only lead to distruction or hearts getting broken.
So if you got girlfriends or chatmates, break up with them.
~*~
Leave those who are unlawful to you, for Allah's sake.
Choose halal love obtained in marriage. Secure your faith.
Save your loyalty for your spouse, and patiently wait.
Whatever you ditch for Allah won't leave you dismayed.
~*~
Have a goal to stay chaste. Prefer Jannah, not this world.
Lower your gaze to maintain the wellness of your soul.
If getting married is currently not possible,
Then fast often, say more Du'as, and keep things halal.
~*~
📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas’ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "O young men, if you are able to support a wife, then get married. Verily, it lowers the gaze and guards chastity. Whoever is not able to do so, he must fast (Sunnah fasts regularly) as it will restrain his desires."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 1806, Sahih Muslim 1400
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Poem: What It Means To Be Mature

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 You're a mature adult if you don't act like a child.
Through experience and research you've learned to be more wise,
Aware of your duties to Allah, your role in life,
Your flaws, your needs compared to your wants, and people's rights.
~*~
Maturity is in staying fine when we're not liked,
Knowing we're here to please Allah, not to be admired,
Accepting the truth when we're advised or criticized,
Returning haters' rejection with patience and smiles.
~*~
To be mature is to abandon those who backbite,
To minimize tactless talks with those who tease and lie,
To defend the oppressed, to stand by a good friend's side,
To not laugh at someone embarrassed in the limelight.
~*~
Train yourself to be mature by trying to be kind.
Kindness isn't just in giving money, but advice,
A simple gift from your heart or Du'a from your time.
Increase charity to be worthy of Paradise.
~*~
From maturity is practicing silence at times,
Having courage to listen, observe and sympathize,
To be polite even with those who are unalike,
Or avoid toxic friendships that bring negative vibes.
~*~
Inability to network with those you dislike
Is invalid excuse to be unfair or unkind.
From being mature is to have justice recognized,
Far away from drama and disputes unjustified.
~*~
Don't force broken bonds to mend if they can't be aligned.
Accept whatever Allah sends and what He denies.
Patiently keep serving Allah, strive and sacrifice,
And maintain dignity despite how you feel inside.
~*~
📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "I guarantee a house on the outskirts of Paradise for one who leaves arguments even if he is right, and a house in the middle of Paradise for one who abandons lies even when joking, and a house in the highest part of Paradise for one who makes his character excellent."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4800
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi

Poem: Forgive Haters And Move On

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Since my aim is to serve Allah, not His creation,
I'm eager to do what's right in spite of emotions,
Aware of the fact I'm far away from perfection,
As a Muslim constantly seeking Allah's Guidance.
~*~
I've forgiven all haters from my past and present,
Freed myself from grudge though to some it's not apparent.
I forgave them for Allah's sake yet I can't trust them,
After knowing they tend to lie and love backbiting.
~*~
To ex-friends guilty of envy, false accusations,
Spreading rumors, trying to harm my reputation,
Or mistreating me based on ludicrous suspicion:
Thanks for taking my sins and for good deeds you've given.
~*~
To ex-friends with unpleasantly high expectations,
Who excelled at excluding and failed in forgiving:
Thanks for teaching me how not to be disappointing,
And for the space you left for a better acquaintance.
~*~
To those connected by blood, family relations,
Or distant relatives who refuse reconnection:
Salaam alaikum to you. I hold no resentment.
The doors to reuniting with me remain open.
~*~
For your gossiping about me, negative thinking,
Stalking my online posts, lying, stealing, envying,
For being unfair or for doubting my intention,
I forgive you as I walk away, not regretting.
~*~
I pray that Allah forgives us for our ignorance
And I pray that Jannah is our place of reunion.
Ameen. In Paradise there's no stress nor depression,
It's where all worries and quarrels can be forgotten.
~*~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Charity does not decrease wealth, no one forgives another but that Allah increases his honor, and no one humbles himself for the sake of Allah but that Allah raises his status."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2588
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

Poem: Solitude Is Sweet When It Comes With Firm Faith/Imaan

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 As long as you have Allah and you trust Him always,
Moments spent alone mustn't make you bored nor afraid.
Don't feel guilty avoiding those who seem to be fake,
Who enjoy gossip, prefer dunya and they're two-faced.
~*~
Those who act nice from the front yet backbite from behind,
Secretly despising you despite their rehearsed smiles,
And frenemies of their likes do not deserve your time.
Still maintain your noble manners and respect their rights.
~*~
It's your right to choose who gets to enter your circle
Of trusted companions with similar traits and goals.
If some can't help you serve Allah the Most Merciful,
Leave them for Allah's sake without feeling regretful.
~*~
You need genuine friends who can benefit your soul,
Who are helpful, understanding and reliable,
Who can't envy your achievements and your special role,
Whose desire for Jannah exceeds their love for this world.
~*~
If sincere comrades in your place are too hard to find,
Surrounded by haters who dislike your Imaan's light,
Jealously threatened by your faith and positive vibes,
Then being alone with Allah is perfectly fine.
~*~
For Allah's Qadr to send good friends patiently wait.
They'll come around on earth or in Paradise someday.
Your worth isn't based on popularity nor fame.
Good deeds done sincerely are what can keep your soul saved.
~*~
So regardless of how many get along with you,
Focus on doing good deeds Allah wants you to do.
Thank Allah for the few who recognize your value.
Strive together with courage, patience and gratitude.
~*~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, among the worst of people is one with two faces, who comes with one face to these and another face to those."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6757, Sahih Muslim 2526
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Those in seclusion have raced ahead." They said, "O Messenger of Allah, who are those in seclusion?" The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "They are men and women who remember Allah often."
In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "They are those who are absorbed in the remembrance of Allah (saying Dhikr and Du'a)."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2676
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan Al-Tirmidhī 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi

Note: On Being One Of Allah's Allies

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 While the noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam didn't openly declare that Abu Bakr RadhiAllahu 'anhu was his only best friend, it is clear from the beginning that he was the Prophet Muhammad's closest companion. Not only were their ages almost similar and they've known each other for a long time, but they also wanted what is best for each other.

If you've studied the Prophet's Seerah or read through some glimpses of his blessed life, you'll realize that the beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam beautifully treated all his companions well without displaying obvious favoritism. The wealthier Sahabas RadhiAllahu 'anhum didn't receive preferential treatment from the Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam, and those companions who weren't as wealthy as the others were not excluded from the Prophet's gatherings simply because of their worldly status. It is as if the Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam was the perfect friend to every Sahabi who saw him. MashaAllah.

When we observe the people in our circle of acquaintances, colleagues and potential friends, we acknowledge the fact that we tend to gravitate towards certain types of individuals much more than the rest.

💭 The possible reasons why our liking for them is a lot stronger than the others include:

1. We've been acquainted for many years now. They know a lot about us just as we are familiar with their likes, dislikes, experiences in life, background, and overall personality.

2. Communicating with them is easy. They're reachable, available and approachable. We can talk to them freely without worrying about the likelihood of them offensively criticizing us to pacify their ego.

3. They don't get jealous of our joys and achievements, just as we are unable to envy their good traits and accomplishments. Seeing them joyful makes us happy and vice versa.

4. Since the friendship is genuine, without either side being deceitful, manipulative or dishonest, there is no such thing as awkward moment, cringey conduct and toxic vibe. We're not always the one who's initiating contact. They reach out too and ask how we're doing on a regular basis. It's a give and take friendship, not a forced interaction where only one friend acts like the enthusiastic journalist asking all the questions, the generous humanitarian who is expected to provide without receiving anything in return, or the overwhelmed caretaker who does all the babysitting and consoling.

5. We both strive to help each other be deserving of Allah's Love and entry to Jannatul Ferdaus. Thus there is a pleasant amount of exchanging Islamic knowledge, beneficial reminders, helpful advice, correction of errors, providing tips, invitation to attend Islamic seminars or listen to Islamic lectures, willingness to patiently hear each other out, protect and courageously defend when one friend is the subject of some jokesters' gossip.

Way back in Riyadh I remember having a "bff" who was a year younger than me. We befriended at Middle East International School and had nearly the same adventurous temperament, being so-called "Leos", back then. Alhamdulillah I completely stopped believing in astrological star signs and horoscopes once I learned that we're not allowed to rely on them as Muslims.

So this Kashmiri girl and I met just before the year 2000 and broke up some time in 2004 due to an awful mistake I did which resulted from being annoyed by her clinginess, excessive phone-calls that seemed 'too much' for me, and her bossily dictating me who I could befriend and who to avoid. What prevented us from reconciling was her being too prideful to accept my apology. What I did that hurt her feelings had something to do with cyber bullying.

I realized that any connection we try to make eventually fails if the bond is not formed purely for the sake of Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala. This is why we can't really form "best friends" because of the following:

1🔹 Getting too attached to someone instead of Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala may ultimately lead to destruction. If the best friend leaves, moves to a different country or dies, a person who isn't very strong in faith/Imaan could be prone to depression.

2🔹 The intimate friendship between two males or two females can open doors to same-sex attraction if their affection dangerously goes beyond what is appropriate.

shaytan can get creative when it comes to misleading people to fall into sin, beware of his evil plots. Imagine a scenario where two "best friends" are complaining about their husbands only to realize how much they have in common, and they end up together in a sinful clandestine affair, with a strange mindset that "women can love better than guys".

3🔹 Showing favoritism or giving special attention to just one "best friend", or two "best friends", can cause the other friends to feel somewhat left out in the sidelines, neglected or they gradually lose interest in wanting to stay connected.

I'm not saying that having a best friend is haraam/forbidden. You're allowed to choose your favorite kind of people as long as you ensure that this "best friend" doesn't distract you from loving Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, and you believe that with or without a human 'best friend', you can still survive contentedly with Allah's Love.

Allah's Love is what keeps our heart whole and peacefully complete, not the endearment of His servants.

~*~

📖 Jundub RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "I am free before Allah of taking any of you as my best friend. Verily, Allah the Almighty has taken me as His best friend, just as He took Ibrahim ('alaihis salaam) as His best friend. If I were to take anyone from my nation as a best friend, it would have been Abu Bakr."

Source: Sahih Muslim 532

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Allah said: 'Whoever shows hostility to a righteous friend of Mine, I have declared war upon him. My servant does not grow closer to Me with anything more beloved to Me than the duties which I have imposed upon him. My servant continues to grow closer to Me with extra good works until I love him. When I love him, I am his hearing with which he hears, his seeing with which he sees, his hand with which he strikes, and his foot with which he walks. Were he to ask something from Me, I would surely give it to him. Were he to ask Me for refuge, I would surely grant it to him. I do not hesitate to do anything as I hesitate to take the soul of the believer, for he hates death and I hate to disappoint him.'"

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6137

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Love whom you love moderately, perhaps he will become hateful to you someday. Hate whom you hate moderately, perhaps he will become your beloved friend someday."

Source: Sunan Al-Tirmidhi 1997

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Poem: Dear Allah Please Forgive Us

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Dear Allah the Almighty, Master of everything,

News of earthquakes occurring have become more frequent,

Spreading worry among many adults and children,

Warning us of the coming of the Day of Judgment.

~*~

Only You O' Allah have control over all things,

Only You O' Allah can cause earthquakes to happen.

Begging You for Mercy O' Allah, as Your servants,

Praying for forgiveness, while You're the Most Forgiving.

~*~

Forgive us for each forbidden thing our eyes have seen,

For evil thoughts our minds thought of, for wrongful feelings,

For vile sounds or demonic songs our ears have listened,

And for every ounce of pride that led to arguments,

~*~

O' Allah, we beg You to pardon our wrongdoings,

And implore You Allah to save us from punishment,

Please forgive all our errors, sins, and disobedience,

And pardon our ignorance, and arrogance. Ameen.

~*~

No soul on earth can prevent earthquakes from happening.

Nothing can change Allah's Decree but supplication,

Sincere Du'as said often with Tawbah/repentance,

With eagerness to improve as a striving Muslim.

~*~

When Allah commands the ground to shake and bring tension,

Let's say Dhikr like "AstaghfurAllah Al-'Atheem",

Chant "Allahu Akbar", recall Allah is Loving,

And stay patient as we prepare our meeting with Him.

~*~

Dear Allah, please take us only when You've forgiven

All our misdeeds and we're ready for Jannah's entrance,

Return our souls to You Allah while we are smiling,

And make us among the people of Jannah. Ameen.

~*~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "When Allah completed the creation, He wrote in His Book with Him upon the Throne: 'Verily, My Mercy prevails over My Wrath.'"

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3022, Sahih Muslim 2751

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Musa RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "This nation of mine has been granted mercy. Their punishment is not in the Hereafter. Their punishment is in the world, in the form of persecution, earthquakes, and slaughter."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4278

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Good deeds protect from an evil destiny. Charity in secret extinguishes the wrath of Allah. Maintaining family ties increases one's life span, and every good deed is charity. The people of good in the world are the people of good in the Hereafter, and the people of evil in the world are the people of evil in the Hereafter. And the first to enter Paradise are the people of goodness."

Source: Al-Mu’jam Al-Awsat 6252

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani