Poem: Dismiss shaytan's Whispers As He Tries To Disrupt Your Marriage

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Because Allah is the One Who destined your marriage, 

And your soulmate was by Allah wisely selected, 

shaytan the accursed will try his best to destroy it - 

That beautiful connection Allah planned and witnessed. 

Whatever Allah makes - shaytan attempts to damage.

~•~

Constantly comparing your man to your friends' husbands, 

Admiring the looks of male celebs and non-mahrams, 

Wishing that your husband was slightly more good-looking, 

Receiving his late messages with disappointment, 

And counting his faults are from shaytan's foul suggestions.

~•~

You wouldn't complain easily if you're contented, 

Satisfied with your soulmate whom Allah appointed. 

You wouldn't whine about your guy not being perfect, 

If you're wise enough to know you're likewise imperfect.

Your true love for Allah's sake helps you forgive defects.

~•~

Complaining about your husband's job or low income, 

Disdaining how his distance decreased your attraction, 

Disliking how his female colleagues, clients, patients, 

Students or customers get more of his attention, 

And recalling his flaws are from shaytan's deceptions.

~•~

The demon wants you to think, "Dang, this man is useless. 

With him working away from me, I don't feel married." 

When you can drop your ego, pray for your man's success, 

Support him with fierce loyalty, patience and courage, 

Preferring Jannah where you can perfectly connect.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi

Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."

Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātih 5/2125

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."

Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 4252

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Jabir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, shaytan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations. One of them says: 'I have done this and this.' shaytan says: 'you have done nothing.' Another one says: 'I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife.' shaytan embraces him and he says: 'you have done well!'"

Source: Sahih Muslim 2813

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

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Poem: Some Advice To Overcome Extreme Shyness Or Social Anxiety

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Some benefits of being shy in a pleasant way: 

Less interest in speaking. Less talk means less mistakes.

Less need to share one's thoughts. No chance to humiliate 

Or insult others and bring them to a dismal state.

Being an awesome listener is another trait.

~•~

In certain cases though, shyness can debilitate: 

When you can contribute ideas, but hesitate;

When you can't apply Islam, feeling too "shy" to pray; 

When you can help someone, but instead you walk away; 

And when you can't defend yourself since you carry shame.

~•~

Shyness isn't cute if Allah's slaves keep you afraid, 

If you fear the people more than Allah Who creates 

Different challenges to check the strength of your faith. 

Rather than worrying about what people will say, 

Focus on serving Allah. Strive to fulfill your aims.

~•~

Remember that all humans are like you in some ways: 

They have weaknesses, worries, get stressed out on some days, 

They sweat, feel nervous, they're not in perfect moods always, 

Sometimes they get nightmares, setbacks, critics full of hate, 

And when checking lists most people first search for their names.

~•~

Don't speculate people are judging you everyday. 

Your deliberate actions, choices you firmly make, 

And your style are not for humans to evaluate. 

Do what makes you happy, specially for Allah's sake. 

Don't let shyness stop you from winning on Judgment Day.

~•~

📖 Abu Sa'eed Al-Khudri RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam was more modest than a virgin in seclusion. If he SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam saw something that he disliked, we would see it on his face.

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5751 

Sahih Muslim 2320

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Modesty and reticence (being reserved) are two branches of faith. Profanity and temerity (audacity) are two branches of hypocrisy."

At-Tirmidhi said, “Reticence is to speak little. Profanity is to speak obscenely. Temerity is to speak too often (shamelessly), such as those preachers who preach at great length and with eloquence, to be praised by people in what is not pleasing to Allah.”

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2027

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase 'if only' opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

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